760. Is It Really Perimenopause? The Truth About What Your Body Is Really Doing

Today is a little different...I'm pulling back the curtain on what’s really happening inside your body during this stage of life—and what most women are never told. If you’re in your 40s (or even your late 30s) and you’ve wondered, “Is this perimenopause… or is something actually wrong with me?” this conversation is for you.

As I’ve moved into my forties myself, and having worked with hundreds of women in this phase, I’ve become even more aware of how much confusion and noise surrounds this transition. Perimenopause has almost become a buzzword, but very few women understand what it truly is, how long it can last, or why two women the same age can have completely different experiences. I share my own reflections—the way I think about aging, how I look at my life in five-year chapters, and what I want the next decades to look like—not from fear, but from clarity.

Inside this episode, I take you behind the scenes of what’s happening hormonally:
why menopause is defined as a full 12 months without a cycle, what perimenopause actually means, and why your hormone levels don’t simply “step down” in a neat little staircase (even though I wish it worked that way!). Instead, it’s more like a roller coaster—one that affects mood, energy, weight, sleep, and stress far more than most people realize.

And here’s the part most women never hear: sometimes what feels like perimenopause isn’t perimenopause at all. It’s adrenal fatigue. It’s stress. It’s chronic under-fueling. It’s a testosterone drop from years of dieting. It’s nutrient deficiencies—like the woman I talk about in this episode who had no idea she was severely B12 deficient until we tested. These things mimic perimenopause almost perfectly, and if you don’t know what you’re looking at, you can’t fix it.

That’s why I also walk through the kind of testing that actually gives answers—specifically DUTCH testing—and why it’s so valuable in understanding estrogen metabolism, progesterone patterns, cortisol, stress response, nutrient status, and more. When you see the full picture, you stop guessing… and you finally know how to support your body through this phase of life.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, confused, or like your body has changed faster than your habits have, this episode will help you reconnect the dots. Because yes—your hormones are shifting. Yes—your needs are changing. But this transition is not something to fear. It’s something to understand, so you can move through it feeling grounded, supported, and at home in your body again.

If this episode resonated, you’ll want to join my mini podcast series, Perimenopause: What it is, What it's not, and What you can do about it

This free, short-form series goes even deeper into:

• the real signs of perimenopause
• the symptoms that aren’t perimenopause (but often get blamed on it)
• why so many women are dismissed or misdiagnosed
• what your hormones should be doing in your 40s
• how adrenal function plays a bigger role than anyone tells you
• the testing that brings all the answers into one place
• practical steps to support your metabolism, mood, and energy right now

If you want clarity—real clarity—on where you are in the transition and what your body is asking for, click the link and get immediate access.

Listen to the FREE Perimenopause Mini Series