The Influence Gap – Why People Aren’t Following Your Lead
The Game Changer With Dr. Sharalyn
Release Date: 06/10/2025
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Episode 22 -Resilience at Scale: How Leaders Build Teams That Withstand Pressure
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Episode 19 - Leading While Healing: How Vulnerability Becomes a Leadership Strength
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Episode 17 - Turning Pain into Power: The Resilience Advantage of Game Changer Leaders
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Episode 16 - The Leadership Lessons No One Ever Told Me
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We were told leadership meant having all the answers, driving results at all costs, and never letting them see you sweat. But no one told us the truth— that you can hit every metric and still lose the room… that you can carry the title and have no one truly following you… that brilliance without credibility burns trust—and trust is the real currency of leadership. In this powerful solo episode, Dr. Sharalyn pulls back the curtain on the hard-won lessons no one ever told her about leadership—lessons forged in high-stakes boardrooms, billion-dollar transformations, and culture-shaping...
info_outlineYou have the title, the platform, and the results—but something’s off. People are listening, but they’re not moved. In this powerful episode of The Game Changer, Dr. Sharalyn exposes The Influence Gap—the often unseen breakdown between authority and actual impact—and why even the most visible leaders can become ineffective if alignment, credibility, and connection are missing.
This episode delivers a high-performance recalibration for leaders ready to restore trust, re-ignite clarity, and lead with conviction that compels action.
Key Takeaways:
- Influence without credibility is noise. Influence with alignment creates movement.
- Unclear vision, lack of accountability, and emotional disconnection are silent leadership failures that erode trust.
- Your leadership must connect with hearts, minds, and spirits—not just roles and results.
- The 5C Influence Reset™—Clarity, Connection, Credibility, Compassion, and Conviction—is the path to legacy-level leadership.
- True leadership transformation begins when you stop performing and start aligning.
Links & Mentions:
- Newsletter: Ultra Influential
- The CREDIBLE™ Framework by Dr. Sharalyn Payne
- Connect on LinkedIn: Dr. Sharalyn
- Download the The Game Changer's Leadership Collection
Explore coaching and consulting for executive alignment: leadership@smpistrategies.com.
Timestamps:
- 00:00 – Opening: The Wake-Up Call for Influential Leaders
- 04:22 – Case Stories: When Influence Breaks Down Behind Closed Doors
- 09:05 – The Gamechanger Influence Audit™
- 12:14 – The 5C Influence Reset™ Framework
- 17:55 – Alignment Activation™ and Commitment Ritual
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