Ep. 323 — Raising a Gender-Confident Girl in a Confused Culture with Dr. Kathy Koch
Release Date: 01/24/2026
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info_outlineIn this Saturday episode, AHG Founder & Executive Director Emeritus Patti Garibay welcomes Dr. Kathy Koch back to the podcast as a returning guest to talk about ways we can raise gender-confident girls in a world steeped in confusion. Even when the culture tells us that Scripture is antiquated and oppressive, girls can embrace the clarity, purpose, and peace God offers us through His Word—a solid foundation for both Patti and Dr. Kathy in this conversation.
Dr. Kathy shares about her new book Raising Gender-Confident Kids, co-authored with Dr. Jeff Myers of Summit Ministries.
Dr. Kathy courageously describes the intention behind the book with Dr. Jeff Myers to embolden parents to push back and say ‘no’ to a deceptive notion of transitioning kids to different genders by altering their physical bodies. Patti draws out the direction of the book’s title—gender-confident rather than gender-confused. Dr. Kathy unpacks the joy behind this theme by rooting a family’s confidence in God first and then trickling down to a girl’s understanding of her gender. Patti recalls her mother’s phrase, ‘God doesn’t make mistakes.’ This led the discussion to understanding God as the Potter at the wheel designing and crafting our bodies with perfect intention and meticulous care.
Dr. Kathy shares her personal journey as a girl learning to embrace things about herself that she previously ached to change, then under her mom’s wise leadership shifting her thinking to love the unique facets of her body’s design. From her height to her voice, Dr. Kathy shares wisdom, joy, and hope for girls struggling with their body’s design.
Dr. Kathy offers precision in regard to gender confusion, settling that it is loving for a parent to correct confusion in gentleness and love. Patti and Dr. Kathy address the notion of labels that has changed drastically over the last 50 years in western cultures. To calm the strife, Dr. Kathy guides listeners to celebrate both the strength and softness of a girl’s femininity rather than letting culture guide our views. Through the lens of a Biblical Worldview, Dr. Kathy teaches ways to let Scripture guide a girl’s understanding, both with quoted chapter and verse as well as values of the Bible woven into daily conversations. Dr. Koch and Dr. Myers’ book includes conversation starters so parents have a helpful launch-point when issues come up.
Scriptures Shared in this Episode:
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Genesis 1:27
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Isaiah 64:8
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Psalm 139:13-14
For more information on Dr. Kathy’s work, visit: celebratekids.com
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