Ep. 327 – Key Ingredients for Trusted Friendships in Today’s Girls
Release Date: 02/03/2026
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info_outlineOn this Tuesday episode of the RGG Podcast, hosts Rachael Culpepper and Melissa Bearden launch a week of conversations surrounding friendships—something that Christian girls might struggle to navigate Biblically and often the source of a girl’s first heartbreak.
With the banner of John 13 in the spotlight, this episode peels back the curtain on Christian girlhood friendships—by showing the world “who and Whose they are” by how they walk out the bond of friendship with other girls. Melissa unhitches from a worldly notion of cancel culture or even bullying tactics when a friendships go awry. Since conflict is inevitable in friendship, it’s important to lead girls to stay aligned with the Lord’s character when navigating those difficulties.
The Raising Godly Girls Minute poses a provocative mindset shift—what if girls were to offload the pressure of “best friend forever” and opted to embrace true friendship in loyalty? This slight distinction liberates today’s Christian girls to take on a Biblical approach rather than a culture-fueled narrative.
From an older girl parenting to a younger girl parenting perspective, both hosts unpack how they lead their daughters to navigate conflict. ‘Friendship breaks’ can help a girl rein in her own emotions. Rachael shares about all the drama that often comes along with middle school friendships in the midst of hormonal changes. Both hosts land on a healthy approach to boundaries in order to shut down patterns of manipulation and hurtful behaviors.
Rachael offers three key ways to think of a trusted friendship as a recipe, inviting girls to build something beautiful and let God lead the way in her friendships.
Three Things to Consider:
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A Trusted Friendship is Christ-centered.
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A Trusted Friendship is Flexible & Adaptable.
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A Trusted Friendship brings JOY!
Scriptures Shared in this Episode:
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John 13:34-35
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1 Corinthians 13:4-6
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Proverbs 27:17
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Romans 12:15
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