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The Real Reason Adults Struggle to Communicate with Their Kids — and It’s Scarier Than You Think

Is Happiness Possible?

Release Date: 12/31/2025

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The Christmas period is supposed to be full of fun, family, and fabulous memories… right?
 
Wrong.
 
If you’ve tried talking to a teen (or anyone born after the 90s) and felt like you were speaking two different languages — this episode is for you.
 
Because it’s not just “kids these days.” It’s not just hormones. And it’s definitely not just a bad attitude.
 
In this episode, Katie Woodland breaks down the uncomfortable truth: social media and endless digital stimulation are actively rewiring adolescent brains during the most neuroplastic (and most vulnerable) developmental window of life. Puberty already turbocharges reward and social circuits — then algorithms come along and hook dopamine pathways on top of it.
 
We’ll talk dopamine hits, why the prefrontal cortex (your brain’s CEO) gets weakened by constant stimulation, and why teens can end up dependent on online metrics over offline nuance — making real-world communication feel unbearable, confusing, or even threatening.
 
If you’ve been blaming yourself (or blaming them), this will reframe everything — and give you a clearer, science-rooted way to understand what’s actually happening in your house.
 
xoxo Katie 😘
 
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Keywords: parenting teens, teen brain development, adolescence neuroscience, dopamine and social media, prefrontal cortex development, emotional regulation teens, why teens don’t talk, communication with teenagers, digital stimulation, neuroplasticity adolescence, screen time effects on teens, social media addiction, parenting advice psychology, family conflict teens