123 - Carrie Neal Walden, Ben's Friends. In an industry dedicated to service, how do we help each other?
Release Date: 02/03/2020
So Long, Edacious. It's Been Real. Thx For Being A Conduit. What's Next? House of NAE, LLC 8/22/22.
Edacious
The very last Edacious podcast. Thx for the food, drink, laughter, memories. Thx for being a conduit Cville, RVA, DC and everywhere else me and my truck Serena went. Thx for the lessons. Be well, Remember to allow. Join me. Here's what next. It's EPIC!
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123 - Carrie Neal Walden, Ben's Friends. In an industry dedicated to service, how do we help each other?
Edacious
Maybe the most important podcast I've ever produced. Addiction in restaurant culture. In an environment whose very premise is dedicated to serving others, how do we take care of ourselves without the emotional blankets of alcohol, drugs, sex, work, shopping, chaos, rage, you name it? How do we help each other remove those blankets and begin to feel and work through the complicated feelings that come with running and working in the food industry?
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122 - Blue Plate Special, Self Care vs. Consumer Care.
Edacious
Welcome to Episode 122! No guest this time because all y’all are running around like crazy people anyway. Putting up greenery and buying shit because you think if you don’t get Aunt Gladys a singing gingerbread man, she’ll give you the stink eye. You know what? She will anyway, save your money.
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121 - Heather Carlucci, Medium.
Edacious
Authenticity, intuition, and perception in a world full of rigid expectations. Meet Heather Carlucci, medical intuitive, former NYC pastry chef and restaurant owner. All-around badass Glamazon.
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120 - Blue Plate Special, Intermission.
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The Who, What, When, Where, and Why of Edacious, as well as the What's Next. There will be food. There will always be food.
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119 - Emily Pelton, Veritas Vineyard & Winery. What is the "Farmers Shadow" and why should you care?
Edacious
What is The Farmer’s Shadow and why is it important in making a great wine? Welcome to a reflective, thoughtful conversation with Emily Pelton of Veritas Vineyard & Winery. In wine there is truth. Emily’s truth lies in this concept. Being present with the grapes on a daily basis, tasting, tasting again. Walking the rows. Taking the time and doing the work rather than trying to rush and fix mistakes later.
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118 - 3dacious Best of 2018!
Edacious
Happy New Year! Welcome to a special edition of 3dacious, a bi-weekly compendium of the top 3 regional Foods I Forked, Cool Collaborations, and events I'm excited about, but will probably miss because I'm already snuggly in my recliner with a hot tea and a lapful of cats.
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117 - Blue Plate Special - Auggie Wren's Christmas Story by Paul Auster.
Edacious
Happy Holidays everyone! In this special episode of Edacious - Food Talk for Gluttons I go off-script. But no worries, there’s still food. Everything starts over food.
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116 - Yvonne Ham, Nona's Italian Cucina. How many ways can Italian gravy heal a heart?
Edacious
So you’ve got a great recipe for Italian gravy and want to start a food business? Well, it’s way more than throwing it in a jar and sticking it on a grocer’s shelf. There are many hoops to jump through and tests to pass before that dream becomes a reality. Meet Yvonne Ham of Nona’s Italian Cucina. A story full of love, comfort, the safe spaces grandmothers create, and all the different forms heart health can take.
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115 - 3dacious for December 6, 2018.
Edacious
Happy Holidays everyone and welcome to another episode of 3dacious, a bi-weekly compendium of the top 3 regional Foods I Forked, Cool Collaborations, and events I'm excited about, but will probably miss because I've already taken my Tylenol PM.
info_outlineMaybe the most important podcast I've ever produced. Addiction in restaurant culture. In an environment whose very premise is dedicated to serving others, how do we take care of ourselves without the emotional blankets of alcohol, drugs, sex, work, shopping, chaos, rage, you name it? How do we help each other remove those blankets and begin to feel and work through the complicated feelings that come with running and working in the food industry?
How do we help our own? Ben's Friends is figuring it out. My conversation with Carrie Neal Walden of the Atlanta Chapter confirms we absolutely need this in Charlottesville. Sooner rather than later and you guys know why. No need to spell it out, if you know what I mean, you know what I mean. If you don't? Ask your local food industry professional, because until we start talking about addiction in restaurant culture, it will not get better.
Our discussion topics are listed below. Also stay tuned for my very biased and giggly review of our local AquaFloat facility. It's pretty fucking epic and a much better tool than that after work shift drink. Addiction is a chronic disease, but if you have the right toolbox full of stuff, and some community that understands, it becomes just one more facet of the shiny diamond you are. Be well my friends. Big Love.
Chaos. It's the new cocaine.
Living in the present. Be here now. Don't "catastrophize" and predict a horrible future.
You know how addiction ends. How about trying the other story? Aren't you curious?
It's okay to say no and offer an alternative instead of saying yes all the time.
It's okay to say yes, but not right this minute.
Is restaurant culture different from other job cultures? Is it an Island of Misfit Toys?
Setting boundaries.
Parenting yourself.
Restaurant culture and its peculiar habits, some that still exist.
Why Ben's Friends is NOT AA. At all.
A group of restaurant people that want to get and stay sober and they want to help other folks do the same. Not anonymous. Round table open-discussion format. Once a week meetings in 16 cities. Topic based peer-support discussion. What do you do if you're 2 weeks sober but your friends aren't? What boundaries do you set for yourself?
What other industries could this model translate to?
Handling your shit.
To live sober, you've got to have connection.
Anthony Bourdain
Sean Brock
Mocktails
Food delivery system impacts everyone.
We're all a hot mess. Shame is a useless emotion. Take it and turn it into something to help another person. It'll make you feel better.
Sober Curious. What is it?
Perception and Awareness. Being able to look at yourself from outside yourself.