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#162 "You're Disgusting" And Other Fun Things I Tell Myself

Big Lash Energy - Girl Talk, Elevated!

Release Date: 06/11/2025

#185 Letting Go: Could YOU Forgive The Ones Who've Hurt You The Most? show art #185 Letting Go: Could YOU Forgive The Ones Who've Hurt You The Most?

Big Lash Energy - Girl Talk, Elevated!

A must-listen for anyone living with the effects of childhood trauma, heartbreak, hurt, or resentment from the past. In this inspiring and deeply personal episode, Jayna opens up about the three most traumatic experiences of her life — the hurt she's carried with her and how she finally broke free from the pain.  Our host doesn’t just talk about healing… she shows you what it looks like, then walks you through the four very real steps she took (and still takes!) to stay TRULY unbothered. This episode is sure to give you a new perspective as well as inspiration to leave your sh*t in...

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Can't tell if he's REALLY into you? Want to ask "what are we?" but afraid of what he'll say next? ...EWE! In this episode, our host breaks down the mind games behind mixed signals and teaches you how to stop wasting energy on men who are just...not...it. From breadcrumbing to “busy” energy, we’re decoding it all. You’ll learn how to tell who's REALLY into you, what to do with the guys who keep circling but never go all in, as well as how to respond with calm, confident detachment. It's a must-listen for anyone with a roster OR anyone constantly stuck in situationships. Take notes!...

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Do you talk mean to yourself too? As if the self-talk wasnt bad enough, some of the most hurtful things we believe about ourselves didn’t even come from us. They came from offhand comments, schoolyard shade, or that one person’s opinion that we never fully let go of. In this episode, Jayna opens up about some of the things she's told herself as well as things people have said to her. Who would have thought criticism from as far back as elementary school—yes, elementary—could still haunt her mind today and shape how she sees herself, even now.

We’re diving into the wild ways we self-sabotage: the names we call ourselves, the dreams we talk ourselves out of, and the critiques we treat like truth. But guess what? Just because someone said it doesn’t make it real. And just because we’ve believed it doesn’t mean we have to keep believing it.

This episode is your invitation to unpack those old stories, rewrite the narrative, and speak to yourself with the kind of love and power you deserve. Afterall, you’re not who they say you are, you’re who you decide to become.

If you're finally ready to serve an eviction notice to your inner critic, then hurry up and press play! iIt’s time to take your power all the way back. Let’s rewrite the narrative and show the world exactly who we are—unbothered and unstoppable.

Listen in as Jayna talks about "spells" others put on us that slow our growth and prevent us from living up to our full potential. She shares lies she was told about herself that she believed and details how they all still affect her to this day. 

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IN THIS EPISODE

-Struggling with weight gain

-How to handle your inner critic

-Negative self talk

-How to live authentically

-A lesson in self-love