241: How to Advocate for Yourself When You’re in the Minority
Elegant Warrior Podcast with Heather Hansen
Release Date: 11/28/2022
Elegant Warrior Podcast with Heather Hansen
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You may not realize it, but in nearly every aspect of life, you make a case either to yourself or others. I will share with you the tools for successfully making your case and getting what you want. ~ WE’LL DISCUSS ~ The powerful effect that belief has on your body, mind and heart Why you need to ask for the perspective of those you’re wanting to convince What it means to own the room Sign up for the Own the Room Masterclass ! Sign up for Building Belief Masterclass ! Stay Connected with Heather:
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info_outlineThe marginalization of specific groups is no doubt an all-too-common occurrence affecting many people. In this solo episode, I’ll share ways to advocate for yourself, your ideas, and your potential when you’re in a marginalized community.
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- The beliefs that can stop us from advocating for ourselves
- How to recognize that you are worthy of being advocated for and why you need to persuade yourself first in order to persuade others
- My SEE technique: Stories + Evidence + Energy, and how it contributes to self-advocating
- How to see your differences as an advantage and then capitalize on them
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