Holly Markiecki-Bennetts – Study Skills, Self-Advocacy, and Finding the "Right-Fit" College
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
Release Date: 04/25/2024
Dr. Jennifer Dragonette – Uncovering Core Values for Financial Clarity and Emotional Balance
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
Imagine trying to find your way in the dark without a light. Even if you have a plan, do you have a light to help show you the way? Our purpose and values are the light that helps to guide us along our lives and weaves itself into our financial plans. Our resident therapist expert, Dr. Jennifer Dragonette, helps us explore how deeply our emotions and core values influence financial decisions, especially as we transition through various life stages. Dr. Jen shares a fascinating exercise to help you quickly identify your core values, providing a clear lens through which you can...
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Ayelet Fischbach – The Science of Motivation and Strategies to Help You Achieve Your Purpose
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
Have you ever set a goal and wondered why is this really important to me? Or did you set an objective and lose your motivation while trying to achieve it? I welcome back to the show Professor Ayelet Fishbach, Eric J. Gleacher Distinguished Service Professor of Behavioral Science and Marketing at the University of Chicago. Ayelet is a motivation scientist and author of Get it Done: Surprising Lessons from the Science of Motivation. Ayelet is also known as the godmother of motivation! Ayelet sheds light on the low correlation between wealth, happiness, and...
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Paul Fenner – Is the Election Over Yet?
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
By the time this episode is released, I sure hope we have an answer to who won the 2024 presidential election. I wanted to take a few minutes to explain my strategy of how I have handled this current election cycle, highlighting what I have done and, more importantly what I have not done. While tuning out the noise of the election is hard, patience and long-term strategies must win out vs. over-reactive decision-making based on political outcomes. Market performance is not solely dictated by what party is in power but rather by fundamental company performance and economic indicators. I...
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Dr. Teryn Clarke – Building Healthy Habits: Overcoming Fear and Anxiety Through Tiny Changes
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
Dr. Teryn Clarke – Building Healthy Habits: Overcoming Fear and Anxiety Through Tiny Changes Do you ever wonder why fear takes over when trying to gain traction when it comes to your physical or financial health? Dr. Teryn Clake, our resident neurologist expert, is back to discuss why negative feedback loops are stronger than positive ones, making change difficult. Making changes is challenging due to the conflict between the primitive "lizard brain" (focused on immediate gratification) and the human prefrontal cortex (capable of long-term planning). Successful habit formation requires...
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How to Use Emotions as Information - Dr. Jennifer Dragonette
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
Every day, we are surrounded by our emotions. But how can we use our emotions as information rather than be bullied by them? Our resident therapist expert, Dr. Jennifer Dragonette, joins us once again to discuss the concept of emotions as information and explore how our feelings significantly impact our financial decisions, careers, and overall life choices. Dr. Jen shares practical techniques to navigate powerful emotions like fear and anger, emphasizing the importance of mindfulness, grounding, and understanding our values. She also introduces the concept of agency, helping us...
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Why Politics Should Stay Out of Your Portfolio
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
If you haven't heard, a presidential election is happening this year. This often leads to a topic of conversation or a series of questions about what will happen to the stock market, depending on who wins. In this episode, I dive into why politics should stay out of your portfolio. Why time invested in the market is better than trying to time the market. And there is data that squarely proves this concept. This is the first episode that might be better to watch/listen to on our YouTube channel as I utilize various charts to illustrate that investment success isn't tied to...
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The Hidden Dangers of Seed Oils for Brain Health - Dr. Teryn Clarke
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
Dr. Teryn Clarke is back with us to delve into a topic affecting our health in surprising ways: seed oils. Have you ever wondered about the hidden impacts of common cooking oils on your brain and overall well-being? Dr. Clarke explains what seed oils are, where they come from, and how they contribute to inflammation—a key factor in diseases like Alzheimer's. In this episode, you'll gain clarity on which oils to avoid, discover healthier alternatives for your cooking, and understand how processed foods are a major source of these oils. We also address the significant role...
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Jill Benedict – How to Master and Save Money on Family Vacations
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
I am often asked how families master planning for vacation from a financial and experience standpoint. Jill Benedict, a seasoned travel agent who runs a unique travel agency, emphasizes that vacations aren't just about booking trips—they are about creating memorable experiences that align with personal and financial goals. Jill shares her insights on navigating family cruises, optimizing vacation costs, and making the most of the trip experiences. I have personally found that working with someone like Jill makes vacation planning less stressful while creating some unexpected...
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Unlocking Your Personal Power: Embrace Your Control
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
You have more power and control than you realize, has become a powerful theme emerging from my recent planning sessions with families. In this episode, we'll explore how taking control of your emotional and financial well-being can profoundly impact your life. Drawing insights from my own experiences and the wisdom of expert guests like neurologist Dr. Taryn Clark and psychologist Dr. Jennifer Dragonette, we'll discuss practical ways to focus on the positive aspects of life and harness your inner strength. Why is this conversation so important? Because your emotional...
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Dr. Jennifer Dragonette – Understanding the Role of Money Conversations in Relationships
Emotional Balance Sheet with Paul Fenner
How do you have money conversations with your spouse or partner? And just as important, what are you trying to achieve by having them? Today, we're diving deep into the intricate dance of relationships, communication, and money with our resident therapist, Dr. Jennifer Dragonette. We explore the importance of understanding each other's upbringing and values, particularly hot-button topics like finances. Dr. Jen stresses how curiosity can replace fear in these conversations while sharing techniques to bridge communication gaps and foster empathy by delving into each other's painful...
info_outlineDid you know that the path to choosing the "right-fit" college for your child could also lead to life lessons in self-advocacy?
I welcome back Holly Markiecki-Bennetts, a high school guidance counselor and college advisor who is also a mom to one + twins! Holly is a testament to thoughtful and intentional educational decision-making. While many high school seniors embark on the nerve-wracking odyssey of college applications, laden with standardized test scores and wide nets, Holly worked with her oldest daughter to choose a different path.
Our conversation focuses on the challenges students face when transitioning from high school to college, from mastering study habits to time management. Holly brings her 20-year experience in education to the table, offering tangible strategies like using physical planners and the importance of study breaks to enhance learning retention.
A few critical takeaways
- Don't let the fear of failure creep into your college planning journey
- Understand the difference between homework and study and the skills each requires
- Self-advocacy is an invaluable lesson to teach kids in middle and high school
This conversation provides a deeper understanding of the emotional impact of the college planning process on students and parents, as well as valuable resources and parenting perspectives.
I hope you can reflect, relate, and rethink how we guide our children through one of life's most transformative passages.
Please enjoy my conversation with Holly Markiecki-Bennetts.
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