EFR 907: Why Men Are (Quietly) Giving Up - Modern Masculinity in the US and Promising Mental Health Therapies with Benjamin Forest
Ever Forward Radio with Chase Chewning
Release Date: 11/11/2025
Ever Forward Radio with Chase Chewning
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00:00 – Introduction & U.S. mental-health statistics
02:22 – A cultural depression: loneliness, disconnection & anxiety
04:29 – Playing a role vs. discovering the authentic self
07:07 – The military, identity, and emotional suppression
10:30 – Masculinity, vulnerability, and the loneliness epidemic
13:00 – Grief, alcohol, and the cost of unprocessed emotion
15:30 – Healthy masculinity and belonging after service
18:00 – The biology of belonging & the need for community
20:10 – Losing identity and brotherhood after leaving the military
23:10 – Lessons learned from 25 years in uniform
24:30 – Healing, loving, and living: wounds and relational repair
27:30 – Learning to love well and open the heart
28:45 – Doing life “right” and rediscovering joy
31:00 – Psychedelics as heart-openers & catalysts for healing
34:30 – Veterans leading the way for psychedelic legalization
38:40 – Alternatives to psychedelics: breathwork & somatic therapy
44:00 – Integration: applying lessons after the trip
46:50 – The danger of ego, money, and misuse in plant-medicine circles
49:50 – Writing Trip of a Lifetime and lessons learned
54:30 – Advice to young service members: asking for help is strength
56:16 – What “Ever Forward” means to Benjamin Forest
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