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#176 The Domino Effect of Plot: Writing Emotionally Complex Characters with Tova Mirvis

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Release Date: 01/29/2026

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Family loyalty can push ordinary people toward unimaginable choices.

Estelle Erasmus chats with novelist and memoirist Tova Mirvis about her latest book, We Would Never, a gripping murder mystery inspired by a true crime case. While real events sparked the novel, the plot ultimately emerged from the emotional choices her characters make, with each decision setting off the next.

Tova reveals that the real work happened on the inside, as she burrowed into the emotional lives of her characters: the anger, loyalty, fear, and love that drive people to extremes.

In this episode:

  • How a true crime case inspired We Would Never while leaving room for invention [3:02]

  • Lessons from memoir writing applied to fiction [4:02]

  • Crafting morally complex characters readers can still empathize with [6:38]

  • Writing fiction as a mystery the reader wants to solve [7:05]

  • The back-and-forth between character development and plot creation [8:59]

  • Writing dialogue that escalates tension and reveals moral fault lines [16:24]

  • Using empathy to explore difficult or morally ambiguous actions [19:45]

  • The painstaking revision process and knowing when a novel is truly finished [20:49]

  • Techniques for building suspense and pacing in emotionally charged narratives [29:22]

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/U0RPCcdmIVI

 

About Tova: 

Tova Mirvis is the author, most recently, of the novel We Would Never which was published by Avid Reader Press, an imprint of Simon & Schuster. Her memoir The Book of Separation was a New York Times Book Review Editor’s Choice and excerpted in the New York Times Modern Love Column. She is also the author of three prior novels, Visible City, The Outside World and The Ladies Auxiliary which was a national bestseller. Her essays have appeared in publications including The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Boston Globe Magazine, Real Simple and Psychology Today, and her fiction has been broadcast on NPR. 

Connect with Tova:

We Would Never: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/214151513-we-would-never

Website: https://www.tovamirvis.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tovamirvis/

 

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Estelle Erasmus is an award-winning journalist,TEDx Speaker, author of Writing That Gets Noticed, and host of Freelance Writing Direct. An adjunct professor at NYU, her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, WIRED, PBS/Next Avenue, The Independent, and AARP The Magazine. She has served as editor-in-chief of five national magazines.

 

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