301: Real Talk: How to Stop Guessing What Your Boss Wants and Start Managing Up with Confidence with Melody Wilding
Release Date: 07/30/2025
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info_outlineIn this episode of Workday Playdate, Erin gets real about one of the toughest career skills no one really teaches you: managing up with confidence. Because let’s be honest, trying to figure out what your boss actually wants can feel like decoding emoji hieroglyphics at 11 PM.
Enter Melody Wilding: therapist-turned-career-coach, emotions researcher, and author of Managing Up. Named one of Insider’s “most innovative career coaches,” Melody is here to help you stop overthinking every Slack message and start building a relationship with your boss that’s rooted in clarity, confidence, and collaboration.
Whether you’re a new grad navigating your first 1:1, an early-career professional trying to stand out without burning out, or a sensitive striver who struggles to speak up, this episode will help you transform anxiety into action and guesswork into game plans.
Inside This Episode:
- What managing up really means (and why it’s the fastest way to build trust and grow)
- The 3 toughest conversations to have with your boss — and how to start them
- Why “sensitive strivers” are actually management superstars (with the right mindset shift)
- How to protect your boundaries without damaging your reputation
- One simple step you can take today to feel more confident in every manager conversation
Who This Episode Is For:
Early-career rockstars. Career changers. Anyone tired of reading between the lines of vague emails and ready to build real, human, mutually beneficial relationships at work.
Stop guessing what your boss wants. Start showing up like the leader you’re meant to be.
Listen now and share this episode with a friend who’s stuck in the “do they hate me?” spiral. Let’s make managing up feel less like a guessing game and more like a playdate.
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