243. You Are What You Consume: How Media Shapes Your Family
Family Brand: Take Back Your Family
Release Date: 10/31/2025
242. Faith, Family, and the Songs That Heal: A Conversation with Angie Killian
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243. You Are What You Consume: How Media Shapes Your Family
Family Brand: Take Back Your Family
You Are What You Consume: How Media Shapes Your Family What we watch, listen to, and read matters more than we realize. In this episode, Chris and Melissa open a conversation that every family needs to have: how the media we consume — from music and books to shows and social media — shapes who we become. It all started with a walk and a conversation about Taylor Swift’s latest album, but the discussion quickly turned into something much deeper: how to discern light from darkness in a world full of noise, artificial positivity, and subtle influence. Chris shares the idea of hidden...
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242. Building Family Identity Through Dia De Los Muertos
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241. Why Unity Starts at Home: Building Strong Families in a Divided World
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239. The #1 Thing Standing Between You and the Life You Want
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Clarity: The First Step Toward the Life You Actually Want What if the reason you’re not living the life you want isn’t because you’re lazy or unmotivated — but simply because you haven’t gotten clear on what you truly want? In this powerful conversation, Chris and Melissa kick off a two-part series on living with intention, starting with the one thing that has to come first: clarity. They unpack why clarity is so often missing in our lives — from distractions and busyness to fear of what the truth might require from us. Chris shares how clarity is the gateway to intentionality and...
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238. How This Single Dad of 8 Blends Business, Faith, and Family
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Faith, Fatherhood, and Leading at Home with Intention In one of the most heartfelt episodes we’ve ever recorded, Chris and Melissa sit down with Bubba Page — a single dad of eight, serial entrepreneur, and unapologetic follower of Jesus — to explore what it really means to lead your family with faith, intentionality, and purpose. Bubba’s story is raw, real, and deeply inspiring. From building and selling companies to walking through heartbreak and healing, he’s discovered that success means nothing without faith and family at the center. He shares how his relationship with God...
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237. The Tuttle Twins Creator on Saving America at the Dinner Table
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What if the future of our country doesn’t hinge on elections, courtrooms, or political battles—but on family dinner conversations? That’s exactly the vision today’s guest, Connor Boyack, shares with us. Connor is the bestselling author of over 50 books, including the wildly popular Tuttle Twins series, which has sold more than seven million copies worldwide. He’s also the founder of Libertas Network, a think tank and collection of family-centered initiatives that have changed over 100 laws and empowered kids and parents around the globe. From teaching free-market principles to...
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236. Becoming Dangerous...Being Strong Enough to Play, Protect, and Participate as a Parent
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Getting Off the Sidelines Have you ever looked around and realized that too many parents are sitting on the sidelines of their kids’ lives? Chris had this exact thought during a recent Girl Dad camp, where he noticed how many dads struggled to fully participate in simple activities like soccer, frisbee, or even just running around with their daughters. It broke his heart—not out of judgment, but out of empathy. Because every parent wants to be in the game, not watching from the bench. In this episode, Chris and Melissa unpack what it really means to stay active and engaged—not for...
info_outlineYou Are What You Consume: How Media Shapes Your Family
What we watch, listen to, and read matters more than we realize. In this episode, Chris and Melissa open a conversation that every family needs to have: how the media we consume — from music and books to shows and social media — shapes who we become.
It all started with a walk and a conversation about Taylor Swift’s latest album, but the discussion quickly turned into something much deeper: how to discern light from darkness in a world full of noise, artificial positivity, and subtle influence. Chris shares the idea of hidden darkness — how things that appear good on the surface can sometimes carry messages that slowly erode our values. Melissa adds practical examples from their own family, from karaoke songs that sounded fun until the lyrics popped up on the screen, to noticing mood and behavior shifts in their kids after certain music or books.
They discuss everything from letting kids read Harry Potter too early, to streaming algorithms that quietly shape what we watch, to the way humor and sarcasm in “innocent” family sitcoms can normalize disrespect and contention. Chris and Melissa don’t pretend to have it all figured out — in fact, they share openly how they’re still navigating this as parents. But they emphasize one thing: the goal isn’t perfection, it’s vigilance.
The takeaway? Be intentional and stay vigilant. Pay attention to what you — and your kids — are consuming. Ask whether it elevates and inspires, or subtly dulls your light. Because as Melissa reminds us, “That’s who we become.”
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Episode Minute By Minute:
- 00:00 – Family Brand Blitz retreat reminder
- 02:00 – The Taylor Swift album conversation that sparked this episode
- 04:00 – “Light or darkness?” — Chris on hidden darkness and artificial light
- 06:00 – How small influences add up: the justification trap
- 08:00 – The Pink Pony Club karaoke story (and what it revealed)
- 10:00 – Joy vs. artificial light — how to discern the difference
- 11:30 – What happens when your child falls asleep to the wrong playlist
- 13:00 – How books, music, and media can shift behavior
- 15:00 – The Harry Potter moment: knowing when your kids are ready
- 17:00 – Recognizing subtle influences in “family” shows
- 18:30 – Modeling behavior and what kids learn from on-screen families
- 20:00 – The danger of “it’s not that bad”
- 21:00 – The justification test: if you’re defending it, it’s worth questioning
- 22:00 – Artists who choose light over fame — Forest Frank’s example
- 23:30 – Using your family values as a filter for what you consume
- 24:00 – The Family Brand lens: “Does this elevate and inspire?”