#314 “I Thought I Missed My Chance” | A REAL Conversation on Fertility, Motherhood and Kids after 40 with Ch-a Mosley

Ever felt like you’re running out of time to figure it all out—partner, kids, purpose… all of it?

This is your moment to pause the panic and rewrite the rules. Because if you’ve ever felt the clock ticking, the pressure to “hurry up,” or the weight of everyone else’s timeline—this conversation will set you free.

I sit down with Ch-a Mosley—founder of Pregnancy Over 40, who conceived naturally at 46 and delivered at 47—to unpack what no one tells you about fertility, aging, and trusting YOUR timeline.

Timestamps:

00:58 – Fertility Fear & The Pressure to Have Kids Before 40
02:20 – Why I Gave Up on Having a Family—Then Got Pregnant at 46
05:18 – No IVF, No Timeline: How I Let Go and Still Conceived Naturally
10:45 – What Your OB Isn’t Telling You About Fertility
14:00 – The Truth About Energy and Motherhood After 40

If you’ve felt behind, uncertain about motherhood, or overwhelmed by the “kids question,” Ch-a’s story will give you real clarity.

From a breakup at 39 and no IVF plan… to natural conception, motherhood at nearly 50, and building a brand around rewriting what’s possible for women—she proves that timelines are made to be challenged.

💬 In this powerful episode:

• Re-examine the Clock: Why the “too late” narrative is outdated—and how to stop letting fear take over
  
  
• Talk to Your Doctor (for real): The fertility conversations most OBs aren’t initiating—but you can.
  
  
• Redefine Motherhood: What it’s actually like being a mom over 40—and the surprising joys and strengths that come with it.
  
  

This is the episode I wish I heard in my twenties—but it’s just as life-changing at 30, 40, or 50.

Listen for perspective, calm and courage.

 

🔗 Connect with Ch-a Mosley
www.pregnancyover40.com | IG: @pregnancyoverforty

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