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Episode 136 - Why the fertility journey isn’t just about “fertility”

Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

Release Date: 04/25/2024

Episode 140 - The invisible workload of women TTC (and how to get your partner involved) show art Episode 140 - The invisible workload of women TTC (and how to get your partner involved)

Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

My husband Dan attended a work conference a couple weekends ago in Banff, Alberta.    It was a gathering of female physicians with a focus on mental health.    I wasn’t there. But it was a shock to Dan that so many women are struggling getting their partners on board with the day to day tasks that make adulting feel so hard.   Women do so much. It’s called the “invisible workload” and it encompasses the intangible and often unnoticed tasks and responsibilities involved in managing a household and even more so in your case, the fertility journey. ...

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Episode 139 - I'm sharing my mom with you in this podcast. She has such fertile wisdom to share with you!  show art Episode 139 - I'm sharing my mom with you in this podcast. She has such fertile wisdom to share with you!

Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

I see you. Way more than you know.    You have done so much to try and create this baby.    You are so determined, so passionate and so brilliant. You deserve to be celebrated on this day (if not MORE) than a mother with 3 kids.    In my eyes, Mother’s day is for YOU!   To make you feel special and seen, I recorded a special podcast with one of my favorite people in the world… my mama! Tracy Lucas ❤️    She held such beautiful space for me on my fertility journey, so I thought — Why not share her with you? Why would I keep her all to...

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Episode 138 - My publicist interviewed ME! Listen to our non-BS fertility chat show art Episode 138 - My publicist interviewed ME! Listen to our non-BS fertility chat

Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

Boy oh boy does it sound fancy AF to say this but…   I decided to hire a publicist to get the word out about my book, Fertile Ground, that’ll be released in a week! A WEEK!    She’s worked with Vogue, Serena Willliams and Ralph Lauren. She’s a feminist. And gorgeous. I love her.    Her name is Liz Dennery and she asked if she could interview me on the Fertile Ground podcast.    I said duh, of course.    She asked me some really cool questions like:   How did you strike a balance between actively pursuing conception and maintaining a...

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Episode 137 - 3 things that drive me crazy about the fertility industry show art Episode 137 - 3 things that drive me crazy about the fertility industry

Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

  I got a little (a lot) spicy in this weeks podcast I’m unleashing a lot of pent up emotions I have about the fertility industry This week's podcast is called: 3 things that drive me crazy about the fertility industry.  If you don’t yet know this already — with the exception of a handful of fertility experts — I loathe 90% of fertility advice out there. It DID NOT work for me. In fact, it made me feel farther away from the goal and it made me feel like I couldn’t trust myself.  I don’t think most of the “tips and tricks” work for women who are: ...

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Episode 136 - Why the fertility journey isn’t  just about “fertility” show art Episode 136 - Why the fertility journey isn’t just about “fertility”

Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

It might be hard for you to believe this right now… but ➡️there will be a day when your fertility journey will be over ⬅️   One day in the future, this chapter of your life will be completed 📕 All your current questions will have answers ✅ You will know HOW you finally got pregnant. Hallelujah! 🙏🏽   You’ll know what astrological sign your baby is. Your pregnancy will have lined up with some celebrity's pregnancy. You’ll know what this infamous tiny human looks like. It will all make sense!    My question for you RIGHT NOW on this journey, is the...

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Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

We all want to love ourselves. But have we ever thought to ask WHY?   The truth is that “self-love” isn’t just about you being a good girl who should be nice to herself.   There’s waaaayyyyyy more of an exciting benefit to self-love than that — which is why I recorded this weeks podcast on this particular topic that you’re NOT going to want to miss.    It’s important for you to know the fertility-enhancing benefits of self-love so that you can feel encouraged and motivated to make the relationship you have with yourself, the most important one.   ...

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Episode 134 - The spirit of your baby chooses YOU! show art Episode 134 - The spirit of your baby chooses YOU!

Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

Chances are, there’s a totally untrue hierarchy between you and your baby that’s swirling around in your head.     Here’s how the ego’s playing this mental story out: Your baby is HIGH up on the pedestal. Maybe even wearing a crown with jewels sipping on the most delicious nectar of milk. And you’re at the bottom, exhausted, trying to claw your way up with all the energy you have. You’re looking up hoping you can earn your worth to them by doing all the things (and doing them with precise perfection) to prove how bad you want it.    And this my love… is...

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Episode 133 - How real life women TTC let go of their built up fertility shame show art Episode 133 - How real life women TTC let go of their built up fertility shame

Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

I used to think my shame was a reaaaallllly good protector of judgment. I used to think, “If I just listened to the orders of my shame – stayed small, pretended everything was fine, kept it all inside – then I wouldn’t have to face judgment.” Meaning, if I silenced my true thoughts and feelings, then no one would know how broken I am.    But I was never broken, despite shame making me feel that way. And I never felt more loved then when I let go of my shame, opened my heart and let my authentic feelings be seen and heard. There is nothing more healing than this to the mind...

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Episode 132 - Guided Meditation: How to cultivate a feeling of enoughness. show art Episode 132 - Guided Meditation: How to cultivate a feeling of enoughness.

Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

Today’s new Fertile Ground podcast is a free gift for you!  A free meditation: How to cultivate a feeling of enoughness.    Listen if you want to feel enough and worthy of your baby, now. No more proving. Let’s embed this truth into all the cells of your body. You can listen to it here.   I wanna ask a favor of you…   If you appreciate the Fertile Ground podcast and how it’s helped you, it would be so helpful for you to leave a quick review on iTunes.    The fertility industry is loud with noise on all the things you need to do to change, fix, and...

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Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

Vulnerability share: I had a really hard few days last week. For the first time in what felt like forever, I had a lot bubble up inside of my body. At first, I resisted. I pouted. I complained. (Like any other human does at the feeling of deep feels.) But then… eventually…  I surrendered. It got me thinking…   My God… us human beings have this massive capability of feeling emotions inside of our bodies. To help guide us and process our life experiences. To literally help us become healthier. Admittedly, it’s very hard to feel it. It’s uncomfortable to be present with your...

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It might be hard for you to believe this right now… but ➡️there will be a day when your fertility journey will be over ⬅️
 
One day in the future, this chapter of your life will be completed 📕 All your current questions will have answers ✅ You will know HOW you finally got pregnant. Hallelujah! 🙏🏽

 

You’ll know what astrological sign your baby is. Your pregnancy will have lined up with some celebrity's pregnancy. You’ll know what this infamous tiny human looks like. It will all make sense! 

 

My question for you RIGHT NOW on this journey, is the same question Elizabeth Gilbert (author of Eat, Pray, Love) asked me when I asked if she had any advice for someone about to write a book:

 

(If you don’t already know, my new book - Fertile Ground - comes out May 8th!🎉And I had the chance to see Liz Gilbert live and ask her a question.)

 

She said, “Aren’t you curious to know who you’ll become in the process of writing this book?” 

 

She didn’t ask if I was curious to see how the book turned out. Or how it will change the world.

 

She invited me to become more interested in how it will change ME for the better. 

 

So I’ll ask you right now mama bear, “Aren’t you curious to know who you’ll become in the process of your fertility journey?” 

 

When you’re rocking your baby to sleep at night… aren’t you curious to see who you will become?

 

The immense value of your fertility journey isn’t just in the outcome.

 

It’s in the value of YOU in this lifetime.

 

Your life goes on beyond this journey. And who you decide to become right now — on the journey to your baby — matters tremendously. 

 

For example, do you decide to lean into this journey of self-discovery, or shy away and focus on the physical? Do you learn how to offer yourself empathy and compassion in times of difficulty, or is shame your driving force? Do you want to do less and with more presence, or is perfectionisms impossible rules still driving? 

 

Speaking for myself, I don’t think I would have ever decided to write a book, if I hadn’t learned everything I did on the fertility journey. I’m feeling so many correlations in the journey to create my book baby and the journey to create my human baby. The feelings are very familiar.

 

The only reason I felt equipped to handle writing a book is because of my fertility journey. Not just because TTC is the complete concept of the book LOL. But because I learned that I can do hard, scary, big things. I learned that I have a lot to offer the world. I learned I’m worthy of creating what I want. 

 

This week’s podcast — The fertility journey is not just about “fertility” — encourages you to lean into the VALUE inside this conception journey you’re on.

 

You’ll learn: 
  • The 8 correlations between writing a book and TTC. Meaning: you can copy and paste everything you learn from your fertility journey into every other category of your life. It’s gonna benefit you forever and ever and ever ❤️

  • Why this journey is shaping you into the most bad-ass, high worth version of yourself.
  • That you have way more to be proud of, then you give yourself credit for. It’s about time you give yourself the props, compassion and love that you deserve… (Your nervous system will thank you for it!)

Listen now!