1764: Your Most Utterly Serene Moment - Do You Remember it?
Calmer in Five
There are always calm moments, but fewer absolutely transcendent moments of utter serenity. Can you remember one? If you can’t, then you have all the ingredients for making one. today I share with you one of mine, and encourage you to create yours. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:
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1763: The Power of Unfinished Moments
Calmer in Five
Not every moment in life ties up neatly. Some conversations trail off. Some endings never come. And yet, calm is still possible—even in the face of loose ends. In today’s episode, I explore how we can find peace not by forcing closure, but by learning to rest in the unknown. Whether it’s a lingering question, an unresolved relationship, or a dream left open-ended, this episode offers a gentle path toward acceptance and emotional freedom. 🔹 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why the need for closure can create tension and unrest How to shift your mindset around unresolved situations ...
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1762: From Me to We: Slowing Down to Connect
Calmer in Five
In today’s episode of Calmer in 5, we explore something deceptively simple, but deeply powerful—the act of slowing down to truly connect with others. It’s easy to get swept up in the current of our own to-do lists, inner chatter, and distractions. But when we pause—even for a moment—we open the door to meaningful human connection. When we release our grip on self-absorption, we make space for love, presence, and shared understanding. It’s not about grand gestures; it’s about stopping long enough to truly see the person in front of us. In this episode, we’ll talk about: Why...
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1761: Calm Comes From Community as Well
Calmer in Five
When we think of calm we often think about being alone, in the woods, at home alone or at the beach. But today I talk about how community, real community, can bring an even deeper sense of calm. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:
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1760: Love Without Fixing: Finding Calm in Acceptance
Calmer in Five
In today’s episode, we explore a subtle but powerful truth: real love doesn’t always come with advice, solutions, or action. Sometimes, the most calming and compassionate thing we can offer another person is simply our presence. When we stop trying to fix others and instead let them feel seen, heard, and accepted exactly as they are, we invite peace into the relationship and into ourselves. By releasing the pressure to “make things better,” we create space for deeper connection, trust, and ease. Love doesn’t always have to be loud. Often, it’s at its most powerful when it’s just...
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1759: Boundaries Are Beautiful: Protecting Your Peace with Grace
Calmer in Five
IIn today’s episode, we explore the calming power of boundaries—and why they’re one of the kindest, most respectful ways to care for yourself and your relationships. Far from being walls, boundaries are invitations to connect with clarity and mutual understanding. When we set limits rooted in self-awareness and love, we create the space for calm to thrive. Whether it’s saying no, asking for space, or protecting your time, boundaries help reduce stress, prevent resentment, and bring you closer to the life you truly want. Peace begins with knowing where you end and someone else begins....
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1758: The Power of Listening in a Noisy World
Calmer in Five
In today’s episode, we explore how the simple act of listening can be a powerful tool for creating calm. In a world full of noise, distractions, and constant opinions, truly hearing someone—without jumping in to fix or respond—builds trust, presence, and peace. Whether it’s a friend, a loved one, or even yourself, deep listening is one of the most grounding gifts you can offer. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show: ...
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1757: How Diverse Friendships Lead to Greater Calm
Calmer in Five
In today’s episode, I explore the powerful impact that having diverse friendships can have on our sense of calm. When we surround ourselves with people of different backgrounds, perspectives, and experiences, we expand our empathy and reduce our tendency to judge. These connections challenge our assumptions, foster greater understanding, and ultimately help us move through the world with more kindness and compassion—two essential ingredients for a calmer life. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be...
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1756: The Gratitude Walk: A Simple Exercise for Daily Calm
Calmer in Five
Episode Title: The Gratitude Walk: A Simple Exercise for Daily Calm Today’s episode introduces a beautifully simple practice to bring more peace into your day—a Gratitude Walk. It’s exactly what it sounds like: a walk where your only task is to list all the things you're grateful for. Whether it’s your health, a soft breeze, or your favorite pair of shoes, this mindful stroll trains your brain to focus on what’s going well. No apps, no pressure—just you, your steps, and your gratitude. Take this moment to ground yourself, reconnect with the present, and build calm one thankful...
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1755: Not Everyone Has a Bed: Reflections on Gratitude
Calmer in Five
Not Everyone Has a Bed: Reflections on Gratitude Episode Description: In today’s episode, I explore how comparison can quietly erode our sense of peace. We’re often nudged—by media, culture, and even our own inner voices—to measure our lives against others. But when we chase what we think we lack, we lose sight of what we already have. Sometimes the deepest calm comes not from getting more, but from realizing how much we already possess. Even something as simple—and vital—as a bed can become a reminder of our good fortune. Gratitude begins when we shift from what’s missing to...
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Episode Description:
In today’s episode, I explore how comparison can quietly erode our sense of peace. We’re often nudged—by media, culture, and even our own inner voices—to measure our lives against others. But when we chase what we think we lack, we lose sight of what we already have.
Sometimes the deepest calm comes not from getting more, but from realizing how much we already possess. Even something as simple—and vital—as a bed can become a reminder of our good fortune. Gratitude begins when we shift from what’s missing to what’s present.
Key Takeaway:
Gratitude is a gateway to calm—but only when we stop measuring our worth against someone else’s life.
Quote to Reflect On:
"Comparison is the thief of joy." — Theodore Roosevelt
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