1767: The Selflessness of Self-Care: Why Caring for You Helps Everyone
Release Date: 09/15/2025
1780: You Happen to Life
Calmer in Five
In today’s Calmer in 5, we explore a simple but powerful shift in perspective: life doesn’t happen to you—you happen to life. When we see ourselves as passive recipients of events, life can feel overwhelming and out of control. But when we remember that our presence, awareness, and response shape how each moment unfolds, something loosens. This episode invites you to step out of reaction and into participation—meeting life as it is, with intention and calm. Nothing needs to change for this shift to begin—only how you meet the moment. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you...
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1779: You Set Your Own Pace
Calmer in Five
It’s no secret that the world seems pretty fast-paced. Do you want to know an even bigger secret? The world is not fast-paced…you are. As I will talk about today, you are the one who sets your pace, harried or calm. Once you know this, you can take the steps to find a pace that creates calm. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:
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1778: Turning Inwardly Leads to a Calmer Life
Calmer in Five
Without some practice to help us understand what is right for us, we are at the whim of the world, society and all others we don a mask for. Today I explain how knowing yourself can put your mind at ease. I’ll give a very topical example as it relates to my life and ZC and CI5. Come listen Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:
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1777: Calm Comes From Connection
Calmer in Five
In our search for calm, it’s easy to think we need to withdraw, disconnect, or figure everything out on our own. In this episode, we explore a simple truth that often gets overlooked: calm doesn’t come from isolation—it comes from connection. Whether it’s with others, with the present moment, or with yourself, connection creates a sense of safety, grounding, and peace that the mind alone can’t manufacture. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect:...
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1776: You Don’t Need to Scroll to Find Kindness
Calmer in Five
In today’s episode, we explore how easy it is to look outside ourselves—especially online—for reminders of love, kindness, and goodness in the world. While social media can sometimes highlight beautiful acts of compassion, it can just as easily pull us into comparison, judgment, and worry. During my meditation, I was gently reminded that I don’t need to go online to find kindness at all. It’s already here—waiting to be noticed in everyday moments, quiet gestures, and simple human connection. Today’s reflection invites you to step out of your worries, soften your judgments, and...
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1775: You Don’t Need to Do Anything to Matter
Calmer in Five
In today’s episode, I explore a truth we rarely hear in a world that celebrates productivity above presence: you don’t need to do anything to matter. Your worth isn’t measured by output, achievement, or the roles you play — it’s woven into your very being. Join me as I share a gentle reminder that simply existing makes you valuable, loved, and enough. When we release the pressure to prove ourselves, we rediscover the calm and freedom that have been ours all along. Come listen. Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with...
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1774: The Stillness That Asked Twice
Calmer in Five
Today’s episode is a little different — and more honest than I expected. I recorded this once already, but after a technical mix-up and a little soul-searching, I realized the message was still calling me. So I sat back down behind the mic to tell the story the way it wanted to be told. It began with something simple: tying my shoes with my full attention and feeling a surprising wave of calm wash over me. In this re-recorded episode, I share why presence doesn’t disappear when the moment passes — it invites us back. And sometimes a lesson is worth returning to, because it still has...
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1773: Where Will Your Boots take You?
Calmer in Five
On my walk today, I realized something about my heavy boots — they let me go anywhere with confidence. Puddles, mud, snow… none of it stops me. And it made me think: when you’re clear about who you are, the same is true for your life. In this episode, we explore how a grounded sense of self gives you the traction to move through anything. Come listen Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:
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1772: The Stillness that Showed Me Myself
Calmer in Five
I watched five little birds splashing in a puddle today — just playing, completely unbothered by the world around them. And for a moment, I felt self-conscious watching them… until I was reminded that letting joy in is always more important than worrying what others think. This episode is an invitation to choose wonder over judgment and let simple beauty reach you. Come listen Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show: ...
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1771: The Last Sound You Heard
Calmer in Five
When we want to feel calm, we often turn to what we can see. But sound can bring us back to center just as powerfully. Today, I invite you to think about the last thing you heard that truly moved you — something that didn’t just make you smile, but made your day. Let’s reconnect with calm through the sense we often overlook. Come listen Thanks for Listening! If this episode helped you see your day in a different light, consider sharing it with someone who might be needing a dose of calm. Let’s Connect: Instagram: Email: Support the show:
info_outlineOne of the greatest challenges we face as a people is the misunderstanding that we must tend to the needs and suffering of those around us before we tend to our own. Often we are told to disregard our needs, to focus on others first, even exclusively. However, as I will talk about today, you are absolutely useless to anyone if you are not taking care of yourself first.
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