Even Though We Will: Turning Loss Into Purpose, Faith Into Action
Release Date: 05/05/2026
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In this deeply moving episode of Gary’s Gulch, host Gary Pinkerton sits down with entrepreneur, podcast host, and author Matthew Efird to explore the intersection of faith, family, and business.
Matthew shares the origin story behind his podcast Pillars of Purpose and the philosophy that drives his work: success is not one-dimensional—it’s built at the intersection of purpose across life’s most important pillars.
The conversation takes a powerful turn as Matthew opens up about the loss of his son Noah due to Trisomy 13, and how that experience reshaped his faith, his family dynamics, and the way he builds and operates businesses. From that pain emerged a mission: to serve others through storytelling, community, and tangible support—leading to his book Even Though We Will and a foundation that supports families navigating similar loss.
This episode is a masterclass in resilient leadership, purpose-driven entrepreneurship, and what it truly means to build a life—not just a business—that matters.
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🔑 Keywords
faith-driven entrepreneurship purpose-driven life grief and resilience child loss trisomy 13 leadership mindset business systems family values Christian entrepreneurship emotional resilience legacy building podcasting entrepreneurship franchise systems service-based business grief support
🎧 Highlights
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00:00–01:30 – Introduction to Matthew Efird and the Pillars of Purpose philosophy
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01:30–03:30 – Defining success through faith, family, and business
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03:30–05:30 – Building a “board of advisors” for life decisions
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05:30–07:30 – Launching the podcast and expanding impact through conversations
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07:30–10:00 – The story of Noah: diagnosis, life, and loss
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10:00–12:00 – Processing grief through faith and purpose
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12:00–14:00 – Writing the book and supporting grieving families
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14:00–16:00 – Creating systems in business to allow space for life’s realities
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16:00–18:30 – Building businesses with the end in mind
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18:30–20:30 – Mentorship, franchising, and helping others grow businesses
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20:30–22:30 – Leadership, sales, and serving through value
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22:30–24:30 – Creating meaningful customer experiences beyond transactions
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24:30–27:00 – Working “on” vs. “in” the business—and the role of faith
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27:00–30:00 – Viewing business as a form of ministry
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30:00–33:00 – Final reflections and where to connect with Matthew