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Why Men Don’t Understand Women with Professor Chesko

Girls Gotta Eat

Release Date: 08/11/2025

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This one may ruffle some (male) feathers, but that’s par for the course with Professor Chesko – award-winning communications professor, podcaster, husband, father, and feminist. We talk with him about the manosphere and why men taking advice from other men is such a problem. We’re chatting about why (some) men have it all wrong when it comes to women and money, men pursuing women when they don’t actually understand or respect women, and men who only date super young women and why. Chesko tells us about his haters and why they call him a “pick me,” but also how he’s been able to have productive conversations with some of them in the DMs. We are also going off about all the ridiculous stuff that’s considered “gay” in those toxic corners of the Internet, and then we break down some bad behaviors like ghosting, breadcrumbing, and other red flags. Before our guest joins us, Rayna shares two crazy things that happened to her before and on a flight, and Ashley’s bachelorettes are beginning. Enjoy! 

Follow Professor Chesko on Instagram at @thespeechprof and listen to his podcast Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater. 

Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more.

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