156 - Don’t Take Criticism From Someone You Wouldn’t Ask for Advice
Release Date: 09/27/2025
164: There’s Only One Level of Commitment
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I did an interview with a guy named Marcus Anderson some years back and he said something that stuck with me: “There’s only one level of commitment. Total.” That’s a pretty powerful way of looking at things. We can only commit to so many things. It’s easy to catch myself wanting to be an expert in a lot of areas, but it isn’t possible to fully commit to everything. Some people spend their whole lives being a musician, an artist, an entrepreneur. You can get pretty good at a lot of things, but most likely not world-class at all of them. If you want to be world-class at something, it...
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162: Action Is the Best Stress Reliever I Know
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Taking action is the best stress reliever I know of. Sometimes I wake up with a feeling like time isn’t just ticking away, it’s slamming away. Like the arms of a giant clock; every second the giant arm slams into place with a thunderous sound. The main thing that usually worries me is running out of time before accomplishing my goals. On these mornings, I take action quickly. As soon as action is being taken—real action—I start feeling the stress lift away. Get a workout in, start knocking off tasks from your list, chip away at the things that are plaguing your mind. It’s not always...
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161 - An Ounce of Discipline vs. a Ton of Regret
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I heard this quote in a Jim Rohn audiobook this morning and it hit me pretty hard: “An ounce of discipline weighs less than a ton of regret.” On one hand, I write a list of tasks to accomplish and I knock them out. I do this seven days a week. But there’s still a part of me that knows I’m leaving things on the table. I’m not a “hustle culture” kind of dude, but I have a lot I want to get done in the short time I have on this planet. An ounce of discipline can simply mean chipping away at your goals. You don’t have to grind yourself into the ground; in a lot of cases, that’s...
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160 - Weird Shit I’ve Seen: Ghost Stories
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I’ve seen a lot of weird supernatural shit since I was a little kid. This is a departure from the normal stuff we talk about here, but I wanted to document it and figured some people might like hearing these stories.
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159: One Day, You'll Miss Them
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I have a little ritual in the morning. After I walk my dog while carrying a kettlebell, I make a cup of coffee and read while drinking it. A lot of times, my dog interrupts the reading session. She’s still hyped up from the walk and gets excited when I sit down. She’ll jump on my lap and get pets. Sometimes I just want to get my reading done, but I have to remind myself that one day I’ll miss her interrupting the reading. Nothing is permanent in this life. It’s hard to remember that we won’t always have everything and everyone we love. Don’t waste the moments. One day you’ll miss...
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158: Your Compass is Resistance
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In the War of Art by Steven Pressfield, he talks about how we feel the strongest resistance when the task is the most meaningful to our soul’s evolution. This shows up as different things like procrastination, fear, doubt, and excuses. This can be both a blessing and a curse. The curse is it’s so hard to make ourselves do the things we want to do when resistance is so strong. The blessing is the resistance can help identify the things you should be focused on. There are many ways to overcome, but that doesn’t make it easy. One thing he talks about is shifting your mindset from amateur to...
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157: Motivation isn’t the starting point.
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We all can find ourselves in a rut from time to time, lacking motivation and having difficulty getting things done. When this happens to me, I try to remember the best way to find motivation is to make progress. While motivation might pop up from time to time, that isn’t reliable. The most reliable way to find motivation is to create it with action. If you feel like you can’t get yourself to move forward, just write a list of a few things that will move you forward. A little bit of progress and checking the tasks off the list will not only create motivation over time, it’ll compound. A...
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156 - Don’t Take Criticism From Someone You Wouldn’t Ask for Advice
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I saw a quote today that felt like it would be helpful for people. It said, “don’t take criticism from someone you wouldn’t ask for advice”. In recent years, criticism doesn’t really bother me, but when I first got serious about posting content around 2019, it did tend to bother me. Before posting a video, I would wonder how it would be received and often second guess it. If I had this quote back then, I feel like things would have been easier. Most of the negative comments are either from anonymous accounts, so those don’t matter at all. The ones that you can see are never people...
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155: Foot to the floor!
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I saw this video the other day. It was a race car driver saying “I’m just gonna put my foot on the floor and I’m not lifting until I see god or the checkered flag”. It got me thinking about this kind of all in mentality that can be really difficult to achieve. How do we get this kind of mindset when the shit we need to do is the last thing we want to do? I’m still trying to crack that code—one thing that might help is to shift our thinking to focus on the payoff of the action rather than the effort. This was something a guy named Scott Adams talked about. The reason a lot of us...
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154 - Do we have more time than we think?
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A couple months ago, I woke up with this crazy feeling and thought ‘I’m running out of time!’. I must have had some crazy dream or something. The thoughts were about running out of time to accomplish my goals and things of that nature. At 51 years old, I’m pretty fit and healthy for my age, but you never know how much time you have left regardless of your age. Then I saw a video that changed my perspective. It was an 80 year old man hitting a heavy bag. This dude had super clean strikes for someone at any age. The caption said something like, “if I stopped training at 50, I would...
info_outlineI saw a quote today that felt like it would be helpful for people. It said, “don’t take criticism from someone you wouldn’t ask for advice”. In recent years, criticism doesn’t really bother me, but when I first got serious about posting content around 2019, it did tend to bother me.
Before posting a video, I would wonder how it would be received and often second guess it. If I had this quote back then, I feel like things would have been easier. Most of the negative comments are either from anonymous accounts, so those don’t matter at all. The ones that you can see are never people I would take advice from.
I would imagine you will find the same. If criticism is holding you back on anything you want to do, be sure to ask the question: Would I take advice from this person? Then act accordingly.