EPISODE 136: HELLO I'M MRS. ROBERTS! HOW I KNEW HE WAS THE ONE:
Release Date: 09/13/2022
Why He Texts but doesn't Make Plans...and Why You're Chasing Him.
Gumball Love Podcast
He Texts But Makes No Plans: You had the perfect date. Amazing chemistry. Real connection. Then... he disappears into texting limbo. Good morning texts, funny memes, late-night calls—but never "When can I see you again?" If you've ever felt crazy trying to decode why a guy stays in constant contact but won't make plans, this episode will finally make it all make sense. In this episode, I break down: Why "if he wanted to he would" is incomplete advice that keeps you stuck How texting without plans becomes transactional (quarters and gumballs) Why all that standard advice (play hard to...
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EP: 149 The Real Reason He Pulls away after Sex
Gumball Love Podcast
Episode Description Have you ever wondered why the sex felt so connected, but then he became a completely different person afterward? You thought you were building something real, but suddenly he's distant, stops texting as much, and you're left confused wondering what you did wrong. In this episode, we're debunking the most common myths about why men pull away after sex - and introducing you to a concept that will change how you see everything: the Arouse Me Gumball Guy. You'll learn why traditional relationship advice keeps you trapped in endless performance mode, and discover the one...
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EP: 148: Why Feminine Energy Feels like Spanx: How did we get here? The Series...
Gumball Love Podcast
🎙 You’ve been told to “stay in your feminine,” “be magnetic,” “lean back.” But what if that calm, soft version of you isn’t power… it’s compression? In this episode, Melissa Roberts peels back what we’ve been calling “feminine energy” and hints at the quiet exhaustion underneath—the confidence that doesn’t breathe. If you’ve ever felt like you’re performing serenity instead of living it, this conversation might change how you see yourself—and the kind of love you attract. Take the quiz → → → Email Melissa"
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EPISODE 147: The Theory that Made us Settle: How did we get here? The Series...
Gumball Love Podcast
In this episode, Melissa Roberts breaks down the cultural conditioning that trained women to manage men’s emotions, lower their expectations, and mistake emotional regulation for emotional connection. From the “Silent Woman” era to the Mars / Venus phenomenon and the rise of pickup-artist culture, Melissa unpacks how each generation inherited the same unspoken rule: make him comfortable, and call that love. You’ll learn: Why “understanding him” became code for suppressing yourself. How Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus rewired us to normalize emotional distance,...
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EPISODE 146: Who Taught Us To Fix men? How Did We Get Here? The Series...
Gumball Love Podcast
Why are smart, self-aware women still getting tangled with emotionally unavailable men? In this episode, Melissa Roberts stands in the lip-gloss aisle at Duane Reade having a full-blown “aha” moment with AI (Viv) — and it leads to one of the most powerful breakdowns of modern dating culture you’ll ever hear. Melissa traces the roots of today’s dating chaos all the way back to the 1950s “Happy Housewife” era, through Cosmo magazine’s advice columns, talk-show therapy culture, and the ’90s mega-seller Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. She reveals how generations of women...
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EPISODE 145: Fantasy Bubble Paradox- Hopeless Romantic? Why it's not leading to love.
Gumball Love Podcast
🎙️ The Fantasy Bubble Paradox Why can’t you stop thinking about him — the guy who gives you just enough to keep you hooked but never enough to move forward? Why do you replay the texts, the almosts, the “maybe this time” moments? In this episode, Melissa breaks down what’s really happening when you fall for potential instead of reality — and why your brain turns red flags into love stories. This is the Fantasy Bubble Paradox: when your hope feeds his dopamine and his inconsistency keeps you addicted to the fantasy. You’ll learn: 💭 Why fantasy feels like chemistry (and why...
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EPISODE 144: Why Playing Hard to Get is keeping you Stuck.
Gumball Love Podcast
🎙 Why Playing Hard to Get Keeps You Stuck The Gumball Love Podcast with Melissa Roberts is where successful, ambitious women finally decode the mystery of why love feels so complicated. Melissa — relationship scientist, life coach, and creator of the Gumball Love Method — pulls back the curtain on patterns that keep you stuck with the wrong guys, in the wrong cycles, and questioning your worth. Through raw stories, neuroscience, and practical coaching, you’ll learn how to spot transactional relationships, escape the dopamine-hope loop, and open the door to authentic love....
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EPISODE 143: Why Gumball Love? START HERE.
Gumball Love Podcast
🎙 Why Gumball Love? Start here: The Gumball Love Podcast with Melissa Roberts is where successful, ambitious women finally decode the mystery of why love feels so complicated. Melissa — relationship scientist, life coach, and creator of the Gumball Love Method — pulls back the curtain on patterns that keep you stuck with the wrong guys, stuck in the wrong cycles, and stuck questioning your worth. Through raw stories, neuroscience, and practical coaching, you’ll learn how to spot transactional relationships, escape the dopamine-hope loop, and open the door to...
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EPISODE 142: Why Love is the one thing you can't figure out?
Gumball Love Podcast
Welcome to the first episode of the new season of The Gumball Love Podcast! If you’ve ever looked around at your life and thought, “Why is love the one thing I can’t figure out?” — this episode is for you. I know what it’s like to feel successful in every other area, but still be single, overthinking every text, or stuck in situationships you can’t talk about. I know the shame of wondering if something is wrong with you, while everyone else seems to move forward with engagements, weddings, and babies. In this episode, I’m sharing: My personal story of years of dating,...
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EPISODE 141: Why I left podcasting after getting married.
Gumball Love Podcast
I am so excited to be back, and I have so much to share. This podcast is like a phone call between you and me. I tell you what happened, why I stopped podcasting, why I did not want to share my relationship online. I also have a huge announcement and introducing a project I've been working on for a long time. It is FREE: Listen to the podcast and then come back and click the links below! The Gumball Love ROMANTIC QUIZ: The Gumball Love NON-ROMANTIC QUIZ: Website: Email Melissa: Instagram: @melissajaneroberts Private Facebook...
info_outlineI am officially Mrs. Melissa Roberts!! After 20 years of searching for the right one and the trials and tribulations of dating many WRONG ones, I'm so proud to be a first time bride at 45. So many of you were asking for the wedding details, so here they are! But if you're in a place where it's too painful or sad to hear about someone else's wedding, I TOTALLY get it because I was the same way, so don't press play if you think it'll put you in a bad mood.
It's not just about the wedding though, I also talk about:
- How to know if he's the right one
- A successful client case study
- What it's like to work with me in the 1-1 Level Up for Love program and group coaching
- Other exciting announcements about where I'm going next with Gumball Love!
You also get exclusive access to taking the beta version of the Gumball Love quiz, which will only be released for purchase once it's live! Take it now here!
Work with Melissa
Need help stopping the cycle of toxic relationships, living happily single, and finding true love? If you're tired of being the only person in your friend group who's not in a healthy, happy relationship, I can help you! Here's how:
- Join the VIP Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/850443405065504
- Follow Melissa on Instagram: @melissajaneroberts