Healing Family Dynamics & Parenting: Releasing Frustration and Creating More Love and Happiness (Jess | Ep. 315)
Heal Yourself. Change Your Life™
Release Date: 11/14/2025
Heal Yourself. Change Your Life™
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info_outlineIn this episode, Brandy Gillmore helps a mother release parenting hurt and frustration, transform family dynamics, and understand how emotional patterns from parenting can be linked to physical pain.
In today’s powerful session, Brandy works with a beautiful volunteer named Jess — a very loving and devoted mother whose heart shines through. Jess loves her children deeply, yet like so many caring moms, she’s been carrying the weight of perfectionism, emotional overwhelm, and the pressure to keep everyone’s world running smoothly.
When physical pain shows up, Brandy helps her uncover the emotional messages behind the symptoms.
What follows is a heartfelt, eye-opening transformation in parenting, partnership, and healing long-standing family dynamics.
Together, they explore:
✨ Why the body sends pain as a “check-engine-light” during emotional overload
✨ How childhood patterns of being controlled resurface in adult relationships and parenting
✨ The energetic difference between controlling your children vs. empowering them
✨ How to shift household dynamics without getting frustrated
✨ Why accountability (not pressure) helps kids grow confident and independent
✨ How frustration toward a partner can show up as physical symptoms
This episode shows how quickly mind-body healing can happen when we shift the emotional patterns underneath stress, overwhelm, and physical symptoms. Jess’s transformation is tender, relatable, and filled with insight — and her deep love for her family radiates through every moment.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, misunderstood, or responsible for making everything work, this episode will speak to your heart and open your mind to a new level of emotional freedom.
You’ll walk away with profound insights about healing, parenting, relationships, and the transformative power of mastering your mind and energy — for yourself and for the people you love most.
Do you want to see proof of the power of the mind in a medical journal?
Here’s a demonstration of Brandy Gillmore working with volunteers under medical equipment, as featured in a medical journal.
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