Questions (IQ): Two of the Most Common Mistakes That Block Self-Healing (Are You Making Them?) (IQ. 249)
Heal Yourself. Change Your Life™
Release Date: 02/17/2026
Self-Healing Insights: Are You Always Helping But Never Feeling Loved or Appreciated? (Noelle | Ep. 334)
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Are you giving so much… but still not feeling truly loved or appreciated? In this episode, Brandy shares a powerful insight from a recent session with a beautiful volunteer named Noelle, a CNA and caregiver navigating breast cancer, who uncovered a pattern so many people carry without even realizing it. The insight? When people are always giving, always helping, and always trying to fix—even with loving intentions—it can quietly sabotage the very connection, love, and healing they’re seeking. Brandy breaks down why this pattern is so common, why it backfires, and what it looks like to...
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Questions (IQ) : Are you suppressing fear without even realizing it… and could it be affecting your energy, your health, and your life? (IQ. 254)
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Fear has a way of quietly operating beneath the surface—impacting how you feel, how you show up, and even how your body responds—often without you consciously noticing it. And with everything happening in the world, it’s easier than ever for that hidden fear to build in the background. In this episode, Brandy shares a powerful shift that can help you stop getting pulled into fear—and start showing up from a place of calm, clarity, and true inner strength. You’ll discover: A simple mindset shift that can help you stop getting “sucked into” fear A new way of looking at fear that...
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Self-Healing Insights: The Hidden Layer of the Mind Most People Miss (And Why It Keeps You Stuck) (Deb | Ep. 333)
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What if the very thing keeping you stuck… is happening at a level of the mind you don't even realize you're using? In today's episode, we're diving into a deeper layer of the mind that most people — even those who have been doing inner work for years — are completely overlooking. I worked with a beautiful volunteer, Deb, who had been living with chronic neck and shoulder pain for 30 years and had tried everything — mentally and physically — to shift it. She was self-aware, insightful, and deeply committed to growth… and yet, she still couldn't fully crack it. She came in knowing...
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Questions (IQ): Why Negative Patterns Keep Coming Back (Even When You're Trying to Release Them) (IQ. 253)
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Have you ever felt like you were making progress — only to find yourself right back in the same painful pattern again? In this episode, Brandy shares two powerful insights she sees over and over again when people are working on personal growth, healing, and transformation — and why even well-intentioned coping strategies can unknowingly reinforce the very patterns you're trying to change. You'll discover: Why a coping response that once helped you emotionally can later keep painful patterns repeating How your own actions can unknowingly reinforce the very pattern you want to shift The...
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Self-Healing Insights: Healing Isn't Always About Trauma (A Powerful Mind-Body Insight) (Mathias | Ep. 332)
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What if you don't have trauma… and the mind-body connection is still the key to your healing? In this breakthrough mini episode, Brandy shares powerful insights from her session with the remarkable Mathias — a brilliant, grounded audio engineer with a sharp mind, a warm heart, and a deeply present energy. He came into the session clear-eyed and self-aware: he genuinely didn't have trauma. No heavy past to excavate. No layers to dig through. And yet, something was quietly affecting his body. Shoulder pain that spiked every night and kept him from sleeping. A blocked ear sensation that had...
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Questions (IQ): Why the Feeling of 'Not Good Enough' Never Goes Away (IQ. 252)
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Have you ever felt like no matter what you do, it's just… never quite enough? You work harder, achieve more, try to prove yourself — and yet that feeling of not being good enough keeps coming back? For many people this feeling started early in life and has quietly shaped the way they see themselves ever since. Because it feels so familiar, most people assume it's simply part of who they are. But what if it's not? In this quick insight episode, Brandy builds on last week's powerful session with volunteer Jas to unpack one of the most common — and most draining — patterns she sees in her...
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Self-Healing Insights: What If You Can’t Love Yourself? (And How It Could Be Affecting Your Health) (Jas | Ep. 331)
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What happens when a hidden emotional pattern is quietly influencing your health, your relationships, and the way you see yourself? In this breakthrough episode, Brandy shares powerful insights from working with a live volunteer named Jas—a successful, driven woman who had been struggling with fibromyalgia and chronic pain that had taken over multiple areas of her life. Despite trying diet changes, supplements, and many different approaches to healing, nothing seemed to create lasting change. But during this session, something deeper surfaced. As Brandy began working with Jas’s mind, a...
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Questions (IQ): Feeling pulled down or heavy because of the negativity around you lately? (IQ. 251)
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The most valuable thing you have is your mind. It shapes your health, your happiness, your relationships — and your ability to heal and transform your life. And yet — even when you know that — it’s still possible to feel your mood slipping, your energy dipping, and your focus drifting somewhere you don’t want it to go. Especially when negativity fills the world around you — through conversations, social media, or the news — it can slowly pull you in without you even realizing it. In this Quick IQ episode, Brandy shares three simple but crucial shifts to help you protect your mind...
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Self-Healing Insights: What if two things you don't even think about are quietly reinforcing illness in your body? (Doris | Ep. 330)
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In this episode of Heal Yourself. Change Your Life®, Brandy Gillmore shares powerful mind-body healing insights from working with an incredible volunteer named Doris who was experiencing vision loss. The first pattern? A buried emotion from decades ago that she thought was resolved — but was still silently affecting her health, her relationships, and even her vision. It's a perfect example of how unresolved emotional patterns can create a real stress response in the body, even years later. The second? Something millions of people do every single day — and when Brandy brought it up,...
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Questions (IQ): Feeling Depleted From Always Putting Others First? Here's What's Really Going On Inside (IQ. 250)
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Have you ever felt so stuck that it seemed like there was genuinely no way out? Maybe you're depleted from years of putting everyone else first — your spouse, your children, your family — and you've lost yourself somewhere along the way. If that resonates, this episode is for you. And here's what might surprise you: the reason you feel stuck isn't what you think it is. In this episode, Brandy breaks down the hidden emotional patterns that keep people trapped in cycles of self-sacrifice, depletion, and caregiving — even when they desperately want things to change. She shares a few...
info_outlineIf you've been working on yourself — doing the forgiveness work, the affirmations, the meditations — and you're still not seeing the results you want… one of these two mistakes may be the reason why.
In this episode of Heal Yourself. Change Your Life®, Brandy Gillmore breaks down two of the most common mistakes she sees that quietly block real mind-body healing. These approaches can look like progress on the surface — but at a subconscious level, they may be keeping you from getting the results you're seeking.
The first mistake is something almost everyone overlooks when it comes to the mind-body connection: the importance of the specific details. It’s the missing piece behind why so many popular approaches — including positive thinking and affirmations — fall short. As Brandy explains through simple, everyday examples of how emotions create physical responses in the body, it becomes clear just how powerful these details are — and why overlooking them changes everything.
The second mistake involves a common healing practice that most people consider positive and productive. However, when you understand what can happen beneath the surface, you begin to see how it may unintentionally reinforce the very pattern you're trying to change — and why so many people stay stuck in the same cycle for years.
This is a concise but powerful episode. If you've ever wondered why your healing journey feels stuck despite doing all the “right” things, this may be exactly what you need to hear.
Do you want to see proof of the power of the mind in a medical journal?
Here’s a demonstration of Brandy Gillmore working with volunteers under medical equipment, as featured in a medical journal.
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