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  Lots of parents wonder if they should put their teen on birth control. There are pros and cons, and in my mind, it’s mainly pros. Teens have sex without planning for it all the time.  It “just happens”, remember? When your teen is on birth control before they need it, it’s a good thing. It can make their periods easier and prevent an unplanned pregnancy.    At the very least, they should have easy access to condoms and a clear understanding of how they work and why to use them.   Vids for Kids (and you):     Your next step? Check out ....

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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

Many parents of autistic, ADHD, and otherwise neurodivergent kids wonder if it’s okay to put their kids on birth control. This is a “yes and maybe” for me. They often think their child is “too young” due to their developmental level, but their bodies can be ahead of their brains. This can put them at risk for being taken advantage of or making impulsive decisions.   At the very least, they should have easy access to condoms and a clear understanding of how they work and why to use them.   A very wordy, ND friendly description of birth control is .   Vids for...

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Crushes can be soooo painful! And fun! And confusing! All the things. I’ve been a terminal crusher my entire life, so, for better or worse, I’m kind of an expert.   Explaining them can be a little tough because crushes are amorphous in just about every way. Hope this helps!   . I’m featured in this CNN article from 2022. I totally forgot about it.   Terrific video from     Your next step? Check out . Your one-stop shop for all the topics you’ll need to cover.  Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or...

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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

Crushes can be extra confusing for ND kids. There’s physical, social, and emotional stuff that goes on that can be a bit mystifying.   Feelings in their bodies, misunderstanding chatter about who’s crushing on whom (#grammar police), and trying to figure out how they fit into all this can be tough.   Your next step? Check out . Your one-stop shop for all the topics you’ll need to cover.  Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more!   Struggling to find the words?...

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In this replay episode, I give you scripts to explain polyamory to your kid. Your next step? Check out . Your one-stop shop for all the topics you’ll need to cover.  Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more!   Struggling to find the words? Worried you'll say too much? Not to worry, my book is all scripts, so you don't have to figure this out on your own.  Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics...

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The main reason we have sex is for pleasure! Learn how to talk with kids about sex for pleasure so you don't freak out, and they don't either. Much.  This is a tough one for most parents, so start small, keep it chill, and get it done. Your next step? Check out Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. All the topics you’ll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent,...

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Often, neurodivergent kids struggle to understand why people would have sex for pleasure. This may be due to sensory issues, disinterest, or the assumption by adults that they aren't (and won't ) be interested, so don't need to know this.   It's best to assume your kid will be interested in sex and relationships so that they can have a healthy and fun sex life - if they want one.   Your next step? Check out Watch here: All Kids Episode on ND Kids Episode on Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com Learn more! Get clarity fast with...

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Many parents of autistic, ADHD, and otherwise neurodivergent kids wonder if it’s okay to put their kids on birth control. This is a “yes and maybe” for me. They often think their child is “too young” due to their developmental level, but their bodies can be ahead of their brains. This can put them at risk for being taken advantage of or making impulsive decisions.

 

At the very least, they should have easy access to condoms and a clear understanding of how they work and why to use them.

 

A very wordy, ND friendly description of birth control is here.

 

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Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you’ll need to cover. 

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