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How to talk to kids about crushes

Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

Release Date: 03/11/2026

Crushes can be soooo painful! And fun! And confusing! All the things. I’ve been a terminal crusher my entire life, so, for better or worse, I’m kind of an expert.

 

Explaining them can be a little tough because crushes are amorphous in just about every way. Hope this helps!

 

Why your kid’s crush should be taken seriously. I’m featured in this CNN article from 2022. I totally forgot about it.

 

What Are The Differences Between Behavior And Attraction? Terrific video from Amaze.org

 

 

Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent. Your one-stop shop for all the topics you’ll need to cover. 

Watch here:

All Kids Episode on YouTube

ND Kids Episode on YouTube

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