EP 60 - Conversation with Dan Frechtling on loss, leadership, and data privacy - what every CEO needs to think about
Release Date: 09/13/2022
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info_outlineAfter the heartbreaking loss of his wife and life partner, Dan Frechtling, CEO of Boltive and father of three, picked up the pieces and carried on, readjusting his business and parenting to accommodate the needs of both. While his wife was ill, Dan discovered that surfing the web wasn’t safe. Even in the quietest moments, his browser was bombarded with surveillance advertisements and unwanted ads. He decided to take matters into his own hands and founded Boltive to fight data leakage, and invasive media and fight for our right to privacy. A thought leader in the data privacy space, Dan works hard to educate brands and publishers on how to proactively reach consumers without constantly missing the mark.
Timestamps:
01:05 Welcome Dan Frechtling, CEO of Boltive
02:23 On personal loss
06:20 Success factors for leadership
07:50 Chris and Molly - from the ventilator to marathon
08:40 Our one life - don’t waste a minute
10:30 Emotional and mental strength comes from physiology
11:53 Cortisol and dopamine - brain health and the long-lasting effect
13:30 Take advantage of the shock - neuroplasticity
14:50 4 months to live - a deadline that makes you wish for time to slow down
18:18 Make your experience meaningful
19:05 Surveillance advertising
21:15 Origin of cookies- why do we press ‘accept’?
24:23 Leadership toolkit - a free resource
26:04 What is the top concern in terms of data protection?
30:24 Future of data privacy- map your data and hire a leader
33:24 Recognize the bad actors
34:08 Data skimmers- who and why?
35:27 Biggest fear - the two extremes
37:54 Helping clients take care of their delicate systems
39:07 Key leadership habits
42:55 Be open to feedback
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- Chris and Molly Maxwell https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/interview-with-chris-molly-a-story-of/id1524072573?i=1000535273404
- Erin Kendall Braun https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conversation-with-erin-kendall-braun-all-about/id1524072573?i=1000538317685
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