Three Gen X Blind Spots That Hurt Our Relationships and How to Heal Them
Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
Release Date: 01/28/2026
Three Gen X Blind Spots That Hurt Our Relationships and How to Heal Them
Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
Do you consider yourself GenX? Do you know someone who was born between 1965-1980? Don’t miss this episode inspired by a TikTok on “The Top GenX Blindspots”. Whoa! For me, and many midlife women, these are things we learned to do to survive in a system where our emotional and mental needs weren’t met. We were pretty ingenious actually, one might even say, warrior like! Yet, as adults, these adaptive, protective strategies become maladaptive and hurt us and our relationships. Join me as I explain how the way we were raised might be quietly sabotaging our emotional wellbeing...
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Avoid these Conversation Traps: Your Communication Fresh Start
Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
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Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
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Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
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Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
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Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
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Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
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Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
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The One-Minute Holiday Reset: Feel Better, Not Behind
Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
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Feeling Drained by Relationships? 3 Tools That Work!
Love Your Life Show: Personal Growth, Mindset, + Habits for Moms
Do you ever feel drained or tired after your interactions with others in your life? Like maybe your spouse or teen but also with a parent, sibling, coworker or friend? Please know, this is totally normal. We weren’t taught skillful relationship tools and so it makes sense that we’ll feel more reactive, resentful, or heavy after certain interactions. The great news is that we can learn these skills! In fact, I’ve found that there are some very simple things I’ve learned that make all the difference for me in how I feel in my relationships. Even better news? I share three simple ones...
info_outlineDo you consider yourself GenX?
Do you know someone who was born between 1965-1980?
Don’t miss this episode inspired by a TikTok on “The Top GenX Blindspots”. Whoa!
For me, and many midlife women, these are things we learned to do to survive in a system where our emotional and mental needs weren’t met. We were pretty ingenious actually, one might even say, warrior like! Yet, as adults, these adaptive, protective strategies become maladaptive and hurt us and our relationships.
Join me as I explain how the way we were raised might be quietly sabotaging our emotional wellbeing and the health of our relationships.
If you have ever wondered why you say you are fine when you are not, why you push your own needs aside, or why you feel responsible for everyone around you, this episode will help so much.
And I don’t leave you hanging - after listening, you’ll have some simple strategies to help you care for yourself, connect more deeply, and begin shifting patterns that have been in place for decades.
This episode is the perfect starting point as we begin a new year and move toward February’s relationship healing work in the Love Your Life School.
Join me, fellow GenX woman, as I look at three hidden patterns that are probably playing out in your relationships and affecting your mental health.
If you liked this show, you’ll love these two:
Learned helplessness on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/274-overfunctioning-and-learned-helplessness/id1434429161?i=1000634097009
Learned helplessness on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/4MF4IJSaVSMpfNhRAb7wyN?si=JuwR8qQnRiydi4fKDz1UDw
Enmeshment interview with Dr. Kate Balestrieri on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/enmeshment-codependency-with-dr-kate-balestrieri/id1434429161?i=1000733979384
Enmeshment interview with Dr. Kate Balestrieri on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/6WMOkGaEpLNHcmvF0W5JTa?si=kMALGFXuTQWzb-oFH5qDGQ
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