REDEFINING SELF- WORTH: BREAKING FREE FROM EXTERNAL VALIDATION
Release Date: 01/30/2025
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"Redefining Worth: Breaking Free from External Validation
"Redefining Worth: Breaking Free from External Validation"
Host:Kay-Kay Smith
Podcast:The Mom Stuff Coffee Shop
Episode Overview
Have you ever been made to feel like you weren’t enough? Maybe it was a comment about your appearance, your success, or how you show up in the world. In this episode ofThe Mom Stuff Coffee Shop we dive into self-worth, confidence, and refusing to let external perspectives define who you are.
Inspired by Whoopi Goldberg’s powerful response, “I am,” we explore how to reclaim our self-value, break free from limiting beliefs, and walk confidently in our magic—no validation required.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ Why self-worth is not defined by others’ opinions
✅ How to break free from the ‘all-or-nothing’ mindset
✅ Daily affirmations to boost confidence and self-love
✅ How to stand strong in your value—even when the world says otherwise
Key Takeaways
*Your worth is not up for negotiation.
*Detach from the need for external validation—your magic is already inside you.
*No one can define you except YOU
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