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Why Elite Performers Still Self-Sabotage (And How to Stop)

Muscle Intelligence — Longevity, Training & Human Performance with Ben Pakulski

Release Date: 02/09/2026

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5 Bullet Points:

  • How subconscious “programs” drive self-sabotage
  • Why fear is behind most performance blocks
  • The cube-to-ball metaphor for elite optimization
  • How to spot your blind spots fast
  • A simple self-audit to reveal resistance

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About Ben

Ben Pakulski is the Chief Performance Officer to elite executives, successful entrepreneurs, and top athletes.With over 25 years of experience, he coaches high achievers to build the physical, psychological, and metabolic resilience required to lead at the highest level. As the creator of the Muscle Intelligence framework, Ben specializes in aligning biology and behavior to drive sustained peak performance. His mission is to redefine what’s possible for people in their prime and push the boundaries of human potential.

 

Guest Bio

Elliot Roe is a high-performance coach and regression-based hypnotherapist known for helping elite performers remove subconscious resistance and access consistent flow. He works with CEOs, professional athletes, traders, and other top-tier operators who are already successful but feel an invisible ceiling: hesitation, self-sabotage, anxiety, fear of failure, or fear of success.
Elliot’s approach blends deep meditative trance work with targeted emotional reframing to identify the root memories driving a pattern, then overwrite the emotional charge so the trigger no longer fires. He’s also the founder of Prime Mind, an app offering guided hypnotherapy audios designed to improve performance, confidence, and emotional regulation.

 

Time Stamps:

00:00 - Mindset & Elliot Rowe
01:53 - Regression Therapy Explained
04:05 - How Hypnotherapy Works
05:53 - Childhood Roots of Belief
15:07 - Reaching Elite Performance
25:44 - From Self to Global Impact
28:31 - Parenting & Emotional Wiring
31:32 - Fear and Self-Sabotage
34:13 - Authenticity vs Imposter Syndrome
36:14 - Finding Subconscious Blocks
38:00 - Coaches vs Therapists
40:47 - What Makes a Great Therapist
42:00 - Mindset vs Life Coaching
45:29 - Defining True Freedom
47:39 - Resources & Where to Start