Episode 5 - Starting a family is not always as easy as it sounds with Cassandra
Release Date: 06/02/2020
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info_outlineIn this episode of the “My Story” Podcast, we are lucky enough to hear from Surrogacy Lawyer Cassandra Kalpaxis from Simply Surrogacy. Cassandra’s story starts with a difficulty to fall pregnant and ends in a lawyer who has deeper compassion for her clients. Cassandra discusses’, IVF, sharing hardship with family and the feelings of shame surrounding her experience. She says ‘Remember that you are not alone, there is support if you reach out for it.’
During our time together we will discuss:
- Cassandra’s story starts with the Greek girl meeting the Italian boy and falling in love.
- Following their wedding, they began to try for a baby and started purchasing items for a nursery.
- Cassandra’s feelings of shame during this time.
- After trying all other options, Cassandra and her husband saw a fertility doctor.
- Cassandra was told she was unable to have a child and fell into a depression.
- In this time she did not reach out to family and friends as she felt ashamed.
- After her father’s Parkinson diagnosis, Cassandra’s desire to provide her father with grandchildren increased.
- The emotional and financial impact of assisted pregnancies.
- Cassandra started looking into other ways of having a baby and landed on IVF.
- After several rounds of unsuccessful IVF, Cassandra’s sister offered to surrogate a child for them.
- As they were considering (and saving for) Surrogacy, Cassandra found out she was pregnant!
- After 3 years of trying to fall pregnant, she finally had a little boy, joined by his sister 3 years later.
- Cassandra was able to give her father 3 years with his grandchildren, prior to his passing.
- Regrets of not sharing her burden with those closest to her.
- Sharing with those closest to her eased her sadness, she encourages us to do the same.
- How a difficult experience of a close friend led Cassandra to start ‘Simply Surrogacy’.
- Cassandra’s personal experience gives her greater compassion for her clients.
- You are not alone. There is support if you reach out for it.
Take encouragement from this interview with Cassandra.
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