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172.Shining a Light:Stories of Trauma & Tragedy, Hope & Healing

Military Life

Release Date: 06/27/2024

186.Deployment from the ADF Member's Perspective show art 186.Deployment from the ADF Member's Perspective

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RE-RELEASED EPISODE This week on the Military Life Podcast, I speak with my Husband Scott, who has, just days ago, returned from a 6 month deployment. We speak about; -The ins and outs of deployment from the Defence member’s perspective. -What happens when the ship pulls away from the wharf and sets off on its journey? -How it feels for the Military member to be away from their family for long stretches. -Scott answers all those little questions you might have but never get the chance to ask.   Ready to join the ML community? Click through the link to get connected

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185.The Australian Military Wives Choir show art 185.The Australian Military Wives Choir

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184.The first 12 months of being a Defence Spouse show art 184.The first 12 months of being a Defence Spouse

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183.Open Arms Community & Peer Program-Celebrating 5 Years show art 183.Open Arms Community & Peer Program-Celebrating 5 Years

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182.An Assistance Dog saved my Veteran show art 182.An Assistance Dog saved my Veteran

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181.A Focus on the Wellbeing of Army Families show art 181.A Focus on the Wellbeing of Army Families

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180.PART TWO-Helping Spouses take their Careers to the Next Level! show art 180.PART TWO-Helping Spouses take their Careers to the Next Level!

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This week on the Military Life podcast, Veteran Spouse Jo returns for PART TWO of her episode. In episode 179/PART ONE, Jo detailed her 15-year Defence Partner journey over 9 postings across New Zealand and Australia, her husband’s transition, and her decision to take her career in a new direction.   In PART TWO, Jo and I speak about; -Why she decided to pursue Career Coaching and focus on helping Defence Partners -What a Career Coach does and why it is so much more than helping people with their resumes -The joy and satisfaction Jo gets from helping Defence Partners take their careers...

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179.PART ONE-15 year Defence Partner journey over 9 postings show art 179.PART ONE-15 year Defence Partner journey over 9 postings

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On this week’s Military Life podcast episode, Veteran Spouse Jo details her 15 year Defence Partner journey over 9 postings across New Zealand and Australia.   In PART ONE, Jo and I speak about; -Embracing support, finding community, and making lifelong friends -Discussing her spouse experience vs that of the 2024 Defence Partner -How she ensured her relationship with her Defence Member stayed strong -Communication, understanding & the mental load a Defence Partner carries -Resilience vs Limits and the point of impact on the Spouse and Defence Kids -Choosing transition, figuring out...

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This week on the Military Life Podcast, I have put together a compilation episode with real talk and words of wisdom offered by some of the Defence Partners who have been gracious enough to tell their story on the podcast over the last 5 years! FIVE YEARS…. Can you even believe it? What a huge milestone for all of us to celebrate. Five years of the podcast, 175 episodes and 100,000 downloads. I want to say thank you to all of you for sharing your stories, listening, supporting, connecting, building this community with me, empowering yourselves and each other by accessing and sharing...

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This week on the Military Life Podcast, I have put together a compilation episode with real talk and words of wisdom offered by some of the Defence Partners who have been gracious enough to tell their story on the podcast over the last 5 years! FIVE YEARS…. Can you even believe it? What a huge milestone for all of us to celebrate. Five years of the podcast, 175 episodes and 100,000 downloads. I want to say thank you to all of you for sharing your stories, listening, supporting, connecting, building this community with me, empowering yourselves and each other by accessing and sharing...

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On this week’s Military Life Podcast Episode, Dr Peggy Brown, one of the three commissioners tasked with leading the Royal Commission into Defence and Veteran Suicide, speaks about the release of the lived-experience book Shining a Light: Stories of Trauma & Tragedy, Hope & Healing.

The trauma-informed book, authored by journalist Patrick Lindsay AM, showcases the lived experience of suicide and suicidal behaviour of serving and ex-serving Australian Defence Force members and their families.

These experiences, which have been at the heart of the Royal Commission during its inquiries, were bravely and generously shared through submissions and evidence.

Commissioner Brown and I also speak about;

- What motivates and fuels her to get up every day and work toward making a difference as one of the Commissioner’s heading the 58th inquiry examining veteran suicide.

-What she thinks needs to happen to ensure the outcomes of this Royal Commission are different and that some significant change occurs.

-What the Commissioners learnt about defence and veteran families.

-Her concern around Defence Families Australia being in caretaker mode for 12 months and working at 65% capacity at such a critical time.

-Why it was important to encourage those with varied experiences and not just those who have been impacted by suicide to step forward and be heard.

-Her frustration at the amount of work she believes Defence still needs to do to support families.

-Thoughts around transition and what is needed to make it a better experience for veterans and their families with better outcomes.

-What has happened following the release of the Royal Commission’s Interim Report, which made 13 urgent recommendations?

-The proposed new entity to follow the Royal Commission and what the commissioners envision that new entity being responsible for.

-How the everyday current serving ADF member and those in leadership positions connect with the findings of the Royal Commission and understand how they can be part of the change.

- What happens when the final report is handed down in September 2024, and who determines whether the responses and the changes are good enough or what the veteran community needs?

 

*The establishment of the Royal Commission was the product of tireless advocacy by a determined group of individuals with lived and living experience of suicide and suicidality in a military context.

Over the past three years, the Royal Commission has received 5,889 submissions, published 1,011 submissions, received 6,662 phone enquiries, held 886 private sessions, heard 346 witnesses at hearings, and had over 164,000 Livestream views.

Together with Commissioners Brown, Kaldis, and Douglas’s final report, due to be handed down in September, it is hoped the ‘Shining a Light’ book will help drive real and lasting change and lead to a greater understanding of the sacrifices made by those who defend our country, our ADF members and their loved ones-Us.

If you would like to read the ‘Shining a Light’ book, follow the link below to access it for free. A variety of publicly available information regarding the Royal Commission into Defence and Veteran Suicide can also be accessed via the website.

https://defenceveteransuicide.royalcommission.gov.au/publications/shining-light

https://defenceveteransuicide.royalcommission.gov.au/

*TRIGGER WARNING- There is some discussion of suicide in this episode. If this episode brings anything up for you, please contact FREE ADF mental health service Open Arms on 1800 011 046 or, in case of emergency, call 000.