169: Living in the Tension: Faith, Family & Leadership with Travis Aultman
Release Date: 08/22/2025
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info_outlineIn this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, host Ted engages with Travis Altman, a leadership and life coach, discussing the complexities of men's lives, the tension they face, and the importance of legacy. Travis shares his journey of transformation, the inception of his organization 'I Must Stand', and the impactful 'Wake Weekend' event designed to help men navigate their personal and professional lives. The conversation emphasizes the significance of understanding tension, making conscious choices, and the role of faith in leadership.
Takeaways
- Travis Altman helps high-performing men achieve success without losing their families.
- Tension is the space between where I am and where I want to be.
- Financial success without family means nothing.
- Men often settle for a life of mediocrity without realizing it.
- Choosing comfort over purpose leads to self-betrayal.
- Legacy is defined by the decisions we make today.
- The Wake Weekend is a transformative experience for men.
- Tension is a gift that helps develop necessary qualities.
- Every day is a new choice towards the legacy we want to leave.
- Faith plays a crucial role in leadership and personal growth.
Chapters
00:55 - Introduction to The Modern Man Podcast
02:24 - Understanding Tension in Men's Lives
06:08 - Defining Tension and Its Impact
09:35 - The Importance of Embracing Tension
11:40 - Navigating Personal Tension and Scarcity
20:39 - Travis's Journey of Transformation
24:37 - Taking Control of Your Life
28:54 - The Inception of I Must Stand
34:18 - Understanding What's at Stake
39:12 - Faith and Leadership
44:23 - Finding Your Edge
Aultman’s Links
Website: www.imuststand.com
Instagram: @travisaultman
Linkedin: travis-aultman
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