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Trusting our God of hope during grief / May 2025

OCF Crosspoint Podcast

Release Date: 05/09/2025

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GUEST SPOTLIGHT 

Today’s guest spotlight features COL Kurt & Donna Schosek, USA (Ret.), who share their stories of hope through grief as they each lost a spouse before meeting and marrying one another. They talk about what surprised them most in the midst of their respective loss, GriefShare, the importance of community, what hurts, what helps, and more. https://www.griefshare.org/  

They both have a heart to walk alongside those who have lost their spouses in any season of life, and the Schoseks will do just that later this year when they serve as speakers during the Summer R&R #6 program at White Sulphur Springs. https://www.whitesulphursprings.org/event/summer-rnr-6/ 

If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s “Be a Guest” webpage. Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to podcast@ocfusa.org.

 

POINTS TO PONDER 

As you listen to this conversation with Kurt and Donna, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: 

  1. If you've lost a loved one before, what helped you in the midst of your grief? 

  1. How would you describe what it means to grieve well? 

  1. What are your takeaways from the Schoseks about how you can care for others as they grieve? 

  1. What Bible passages comfort you most during loss?