OCF Crosspoint Podcast

Sharing stories of military life at the intersection of faith, family, and profession

The “hidden epidemic” among military children / June 2025 06/10/2025

The “hidden epidemic” among military children / June 2025 OCF MINISTRY NEWS Sign up for summer programs at the Conference Centers: Visit ocfusa.org/CCexperience to find the right program and week for you at Spring Canyon (Buena Vista, Colo.) or White Sulphur Springs (Manns Choice, Pa.). Connect with OCFers at USNA and USAFA: OCF at USAFA: Pre-Inprocessing Day Reception (Class of 2029), 24 June, Monument, Colo. USNA OCF: Class of 2029 Open House, 25 June, Annapolis, Md. Volunteer as a Local Leader at one of these locations: Columbus AFB, Fort Campbell, Fort Drum, Fort Eisenhower, Fort Jackson, Fort Riley, Fort Stewart / Hunter AAF, Goodfellow AFB, JB Charleston, MCAS Beaufort, MCB Quantico, Norwich University, NSB New London / Groton, Schofield Barracks / Wheeler AAF, Sheppard AFB, Texas A&M University, The Citadel, Tyndall AFB, University of North Georgia, USCG Air Station and Base Kodiak, USCG Air Station Miami, USCG District 11 and Base Alameda, USCG District 13 and Base Seattle, USCG Sector Key West, USCG Sector St. Petersburg, USCG Station Port Canaveral, Virginia Tech. When you are ready to volunteer, complete our quick List Me form so that members can find you on the OCF Directory and OCF staff can equip you based on local needs. Help OCF steward its ministry buildings: Email Director of Infrastructure and Facility Management Joe Orosz ([email protected]) to get more information or offer your expertise in master planning, design, construction, and/or facility maintenance. GUEST SPOTLIGHT Today’s guest spotlight features Claire Anderson, a military child and new graduate of Liberty University. Claire joins the podcast to talk about the military kid experience, informed by her own upbringing and her recent honors thesis, titled Having gotten connected to OCF through friends as a freshman in high school, Claire shares how her summers at White Sulphur Springs, particularly her work with youths attending the , piqued her interest in the military child experience. She and Josh discuss some statistics from her thesis research, connections to by Eduardo Briceño, and a Biblical view of trials. If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with Claire, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: If you’ve grown up in the military and/or raised children in the military, what of your own firsthand or secondhand experiences relate to what Claire discussed today? How did the statistics shared during this episode impact you? What factors of the military lifestyle have you seen contribute to low mental health, and how might you work to address and/or mitigate those factors? Claire’s thesis and interview talks about taking a “strengths-based perspective,” and Josh mentions Romans 5:3-4, too. How can our relationship with Jesus transform our view of trials we may experience? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/36943645

How Biblical community shaped two military leaders / Crosspoint Highlights 05/21/2025

How Biblical community shaped two military leaders / Crosspoint Highlights Crosspoint Highlights: Big ideas, short episodes … for your busy schedule Guests: Joshua and Lindsey Bowen From Episode 54: “The importance of small group fellowship.” Highlight Summary: In this Crosspoint Highlight, Joshua and Lindsey Bowen reflect on the lasting impact of biblical community, mentorship, and servant leadership during their time in the military. They share how their early experiences in a diverse OCF small group at Fort Carson shaped their spiritual maturity and inspired them to pour into cadets at West Point years later. From late-night Bible studies to one-on-one mentoring moments, Josh and Lindsey offer a deeply personal look at how fellowship across generations can transform lives and prepare future military leaders for both spiritual and professional challenges. Key Takeaways: Intergenerational fellowship fosters growth: Being surrounded by older couples in their Fort Carson group helped Josh and Lindsey mature spiritually and understand what Christlike leadership looks like in marriage, military life, and beyond. Mentorship happens in everyday moments: Watching how mentors cared for their spouses, shared struggles, and modeled vulnerability left a deep and lasting impression on the Bowens—one they now strive to replicate. Leading means serving: As small group leaders at West Point, Josh and Lindsey invest time, energy, and emotional bandwidth into cadets—not just during Bible study, but through desserts, coffee chats, and showing up when it matters most. Spiritual black holes are real: Without proactive preparation, cadets can find themselves spiritually adrift after graduation. Josh shares candidly how his own post-academy faith stagnated, and how he now helps cadets plan ahead to avoid the same pitfall. God equips those He calls: Lindsey never saw herself in women’s ministry or spiritual mentorship—until someone invited her. Now she thrives in that space, walking alongside young women facing challenges she never imagined when she was in their shoes. /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/36662835

Trusting our God of hope during grief / May 2025 05/09/2025

Trusting our God of hope during grief / May 2025 OCF MINISTRY NEWS Sign up for summer programs at the Conference Centers: Visit ocfusa.org/CCexperience to find the right program and week for you at Spring Canyon (Buena Vista, Colo.) or White Sulphur Springs (Manns Choice, Pa.). Free Bible studies for OCFers and groups: Visit ocfusa.org/library to download, dive in, and leave a rating to help others discover one of these 18 impactful resources. Help us keep the OCF community connected: If you or someone in your OCF circle has celebrated a birth, wedding, or experienced a loss since 1 March, please send updates to Courtney Burdick () for the next issue of our print newsletter. Introducing Crosspoint Highlights: Don't miss our new episode format, designed to share just a portion of a previously posted podcast for an encouraging listen even when you’re short on time. Find Crosspoint Highlights wherever you get your podcasts. GUEST SPOTLIGHT Today’s guest spotlight features COL Kurt & Donna Schosek, USA (Ret.), who share their stories of hope through grief as they each lost a spouse before meeting and marrying one another. They talk about what surprised them most in the midst of their respective loss, the importance of community, what hurts, what helps, and more. They both have a heart to walk alongside those who have lost their spouses in any season of life, and the Schoseks will do just that later this year when they serve as speakers during the at White Sulphur Springs. If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with Kurt and Donna, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: If you've lost a loved one before, what helped you in the midst of your grief? How would you describe what it means to grieve well? What are your takeaways from the Schoseks about how you can care for others as they grieve? What Bible passages comfort you most during loss? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/36509140

How can you serve in the military and love your enemies? Crosspoint Highlights 04/17/2025

From Science to Scripture: What did Moses know about bacteria? 04/11/2025

Graciously defending the Christian worldview / Plus, SkillBridge internships / April 2025 04/03/2025

Graciously defending the Christian worldview / Plus, SkillBridge internships / April 2025 OCF MINISTRY NEWS Staff changes across the OCF team: Visit ocfusa.org/job-openings to learn more about vacant positions as a result of OCF's ongoing job moves. Sign up for summer programs at the Conference Centers: Visit ocfusa.org/CCexperience to find the right program and week for you at Spring Canyon (Buena Vista, Colo.) or White Sulphur Springs (Manns Choice, Pa.). Take the next step in growing as a Local Leader: Visit to learn more about the upcoming OCF LEAD! Local Ministry Leadership Track at Spring Canyon this June. ASK OCF Landon Spaulding, who now serves as OCF’s Online Training Development Coordinator, shares his experience as a SkillBridge intern with OCF. To learn more about SkillBridge opportunities, read our latest article or visit ocfusa.org/skillbridge. GUEST SPOTLIGHT Today’s guest spotlight features an excerpt of a conversation with Jay Seegert about defending the Christian worldview. Author, international speaker, and managing director of , Jay holds degrees in both Physics and Engineering Technology and has been lecturing on the authority of Scripture for the last 40 years. He explains what it means to defend the Christian worldview, the significance of addressing the existential questions, and how the Bible ought to be our key source for these conversations. Jay also shares what our motive should be when engaging in discussions with those who hold other worldviews. Interested in hearing more from Jay about similar topics discussed in today’s episode? Stay tuned for the full, bonus episode coming this month, and consider attending as Jay will lead speaker sessions related to his topic: “Defending the Christian Worldview.” If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with Jay, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: In your own words, why is it important to be able to defend your Christian worldview? When speaking with individuals of other worldviews, how do you ensure you care more about the individual with a need for the gospel than you do about winning the argument? What topics have you been faced with during worldview-oriented conversations that you’d like to study further? Jay mentioned 1 Peter 3:15. What other relevant verses come to mind when thinking about how to discuss worldviews? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/35994220

Special episode: Global Town Hall 2025 / March 2025 03/05/2025

Special episode: Global Town Hall 2025 / March 2025 This month’s special episode enables you to listen to the Global Town Hall, which OCF hosted on 8 February at its Home Office in Colorado Springs, Colo., and over Zoom for members around the world. You’ll hear from OCF Council President Dale Holland, OCF CEO/Executive Director Scott Fisher, Director of Field Operations Colin Wooten, Local Leaders Josh and Lindsey Bowen, USMA OCF Field Staff Bob Phillips, and OCF Conference Center Directors Paul Robyn and Kim Hawthorne. After the ministry updates from these individuals, attending members asked a variety of questions of the staff present. If you’d prefer to watch the video of GTH 2025 and/or provide follow-up questions, comments, or feedback, . Here are the links for some of the resources mentioned in this episode: Local fellowships OCF Conference Centers ROTC ministry OCF LEAD! Local Ministry Leadership Track (during Spring Canyon’s Summer Celebration #3) Fellowship of Christian Military Ministries Annual Conference (21-24 March) OCF Handbook Mentoring opportunities OCF’s Annual Priorities: What you need to know and how you can get involved Interested in sharing your own story on a future Crosspoint episode? Complete the form on OCF’s . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to these ministry updates and Q&A session, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: How have you seen God work through OCF in your own life? What can OCF do to serve you better? () What obstacles—whether personal, logistical, or financial—have kept you from engaging more deeply with Christian community and discipleship opportunities? As you listen to this recording, what might the Lord be putting on your heart to do to engage with military ministry in a new way? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/35550890

Finding a home away from home / Plus, utilizing the OCF Handbook / February 2025 02/12/2025

Finding a home away from home / Plus, utilizing the OCF Handbook / February 2025 OCF MINISTRY NEWS Watch the latest OCF Global Town Hall: Visit ocfusa.org/gth2025 to watch the Town Hall. Serve and adventure at an OCF Conference Center this spring: Make this March a meaningful mix of service, growth, and adventure through one of these two opportunities. Spring Break Service Project Week, 10-16 March, White Sulphur Springs (Manns Choice, Pa.) Spring Break Service and Adventure Week, 21-30 March, Spring Canyon (Buena Vista, Colo.) Support OCF during your trips to the grocery store: Visit our Ways to Give page and scroll to the bottom to see if a store near you is eligible for the Community Rewards Program. ASK OCF Col Houstoun Waring, USAF (Ret.), who serves as OCF’s Central Regional Coordinator, answered this frequently asked question from another OCFer: Why did OCF develop a Handbook? Who should use it? How should people use it? To learn more about this impactful resource for military ministry, read the article about the Handbook’s background. Visit our website to access the online version of the OCF Handbook. If you have a question that you want us to consider for a future “Ask OCF” segment, send an email to . GUEST SPOTLIGHT This month’s episode features not one but two guests: Lt Col Scott and Lisa Bedrosian, USAF (Ret.). The Bedrosians have been longtime supporters of White Sulphur Springs, OCF’s eastern Conference Center located in Manns Choice, Pa. Having had roles there as guests, staff, and volunteers over the years, Scott and Lisa recount some of their cherished memories made at WSS and share how God has used this special home away from home in their lives. The Bedrosians describe how WSS helped them navigate the challenges of military life through mentorship, Biblical teachings, and a sense of belonging. They share influential anecdotes, like being reminded of their identity as missionaries in uniform, keeping symbolic “rocks” with spiritual truths, and renaming chores “blessings” because of a simple spatula on a dining room table at WSS. Knowing the conference center’s spiritually rich and personally challenging programs might be intimidating to some, they also answer the frequently asked question: “But will I have fun?” Interested in having your own impactful experience at a Conference Center? Visit ocfusa.org/experience to learn more about White Sulphur Springs and its sister center Spring Canyon, located in Buena Vista, Colo. If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with Scott and Lisa, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: When was a time you were able to truly step away from your daily rhythms to rest and spend time with the Lord? How did that experience affect your day-to-day life? The Bedrosians share a few examples of life-changing advice through connections made at WSS. What impactful advice have you received, and have you shared it with others? Scott calls a stay at WSS an “investment in your family and in your ministry.” What might be the difference that makes your average vacation that kind of investment instead? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/35247715

Retired submariner shares the power of persevering prayer / Plus, integrating church and OCF involvement / January 2025 01/18/2025

Retired submariner shares the power of persevering prayer / Plus, integrating church and OCF involvement / January 2025 OCF MINISTRY NEWS OCF Global Town Hall: to learn more about and register for the next iteration of this annual, virtual event, scheduled for 8 February. Regional ROTC retreats: to find the next regional ROTC retreat near you. Annual impact report: To hear more about Freddy’s OCF experience and other stories of impact from our conference centers, field locations, and more, download our Annual Impact Report by . Mentoring opportunities: If you’re interested in mentoring or being trained in mentoring and want to learn more, or contact Bill Rue via [email protected]. ASK OCF LT Will Parker, USN, who serves as the OCF Submarine Community Coordinator, answered this frequently asked question from another OCFer: How do you balance/integrate OCF involvement with commitment to the local church? To learn more about church-OCF dynamics and ways you can integrate your involvement in both, . If you have a question that you want us to consider for a future “Ask OCF” segment, send an email to [email protected]. GUEST SPOTLIGHT This month’s episode puts the guest spotlight on CAPT Terry Wichert, USN (Ret.). Having served in the U.S. Navy for 30+ years, he now serves as the executive director for , a sister ministry of OCF. Through personal experiences and some of the 650+ recorded prayers in the Bible, such as those in the books of Nehemiah and Daniel, Terry unpacks the power of persevering prayer. He explains what prayer is and what it isn’t, gives some ideas for developing a prayer life, and viewing prayer as a way to have a relationship with our Lord and align our hearts with His. If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to [email protected]. POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with Terry, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: Terry reminds us that God “loves for us to pray” and “hears our prayer.” How do these reminders affect your view of prayer? To pose the question Terry says he often asks other believers: Are you satisfied with your prayer life? Why or why not? Terry mentions a monthly habit of spending an entire day in prayer before the Lord. What habits might benefit you in your prayer life? When was a time you prayed often about a certain topic but ultimately the Lord orchestrated circumstances that differed from your prayers? How did you respond? How did that experience grow you in your faith in Him? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/34906640

Bonus episode: Changing perspectives to overcome bitterness 11/14/2024

Bonus episode: Changing perspectives to overcome bitterness Show Notes In this bonus episode, Josh, Beth, and Corrie explore the challenges of bitterness and resentment in military marriages, highlighting the influence of faith, perspective shifts, and community support. They discuss the importance of diverse friendships, flexibility in family life, and seeking counseling. Emphasizing teamwork, Beth and Corrie share strategies for balancing responsibilities and overcoming feelings of isolation and resentment. Beth introduces insights from her new book for military spouses called while Corrie shares about her dynamic Instagram platform, @ajoyfulmilspouse, that celebrates military life. Together, they stress that community and shared experiences can strengthen relationships amid military life’s unique challenges. In the course of this conversation, we also reference Beth’s list of If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s “Be a Guest” webpage. Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to [email protected]. https://www.ocfusa.org/podcastguest/ Takeaways The person most affected by bitterness is often the one holding onto it. Military spouses often feel bitterness due to the challenges of military life. Community support is crucial for military spouses to overcome feelings of isolation. Engaging in activities outside of the marriage can help alleviate pressure on the spouse. Maintaining connections with friends, even if they are far away, is important. Perspective shifts can help in dealing with feelings of loss and resentment. Faith and reliance on God can transform bitterness into growth. Assuming the best in your spouse fosters a healthier relationship. God has a purpose for every assignment in life. Points to Ponder As you listen to this conversation with Beth and Corrie, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: How does unresolved bitterness affect not only the individual experiencing it but also their relationships with family, friends, and community members? How can someone recognize when bitterness is taking a toll on their life and relationships? In what ways can military spouses balance the demands of military life with self-care and maintaining friendships, even with distance involved? How might maintaining these connections positively impact their mental health and family life? How can a change in perspective help military spouses navigate feelings of loss, resentment, or inequality in responsibilities? What strategies can help shift perspective from bitterness to personal growth? Why is community support so crucial for military families, and what are some effective ways to build a support network? How can this support network contribute to overcoming isolation and fostering resilience? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/33919267

November 2024: Overcoming bitterness; reaching out to ROTC; and OCF ministry news 11/06/2024

November 2024: Overcoming bitterness; reaching out to ROTC; and OCF ministry news OCF MINISTRY NEWS New Bible study available: Visit to access this newest study, A Faithful Approach to Hardship and Suffering, on our website. GivingTuesday fundraiser: Give the gift of Christlike leadership this GivingTuesday (3 Dec.) by visiting and donating now. Job opening at WSS: If you would like more information and/or an application for this ministry opportunity, contact the WSS Center Director Paul Robyn ([email protected]) or the WSS Director of Hospitality Susanne Pappal ([email protected]), or call the main office via 814-623-5583. Visit to learn more about or to apply for the new facilities director position at White Sulphur Springs in Pennsylvania. Winter Retreats at OCF Conference Centers: Visit to register for one of White Sulphur Springs’ Winter Retreat sessions, or visit to register for one of Spring Canyon’s Winter Retreat sessions. Ministry update from MMI OCF: Visit to learn more about and connect with local fellowships like the one at MMI in Alabama. ASK OCF Lt Col Larry Sherbondy, USAF (Ret.), who serves as the OCF Director of ROTC Ministry, answered this question from another OCFer: How much time might be involved in participating in or starting an ROTC OCF group? Many resources and opportunities await those interested in plugging into ROTC ministry. Visit to get in touch with Larry, check out upcoming ROTC events, and more. If you have a question that you want us to consider for a future “Ask OCF” segment, send an email to . GUEST SPOTLIGHT Today’s guest spotlight features two military spouses: Beth Runkle and Corrie Reeter. Beth and her husband currently serve with Cru Military, and she recently published a book called Corrie is a blogger with a dynamic following on Instagram as @ajoyfulmilspouse, where she and her followers celebrate the uniqueness, blessings, and adventures of military marriage and family life. Speaking from their experiences as military spouses, Beth and Corrie discuss the bitterness that may arise for some military spouses as they experience deployments, moves, and more. In the course of this conversation, we reference Beth’s list of 10 ways to overcome bitterness and resentment, . If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with Beth and Corrie, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: When was a time you personally experienced bitterness in your life as a military service member and/or spouse? How did you overcome that bitterness? In what ways is the military life a sanctifying one? What is the value of counting your blessings, entrusting everything to the Lord, and maintaining an eternal perspective? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/33809597

October 2024: Sharing your faith in the military; OCF membership trends; and OCF ministry news 10/07/2024

October 2024: Sharing your faith in the military; OCF membership trends; and OCF ministry news Show Notes OCF MINISTRY NEWS Job opening at the U.S. Coast Guard Academy: Contact PK Carlton () or Marci Morris () for more info, or visit to learn more about and apply for the opening at USCGA. Applications are open until 31 Oct. In His Service Retreat for women in uniform: Visit for more details about this retreat coming up in Jefferson, Texas. OCF Mid-Atlantic & Northeast Fall Retreat: Visit to learn more and register, and email any questions to the Chiaravallottis at [email protected]. Winter Retreats at OCF Conference Centers: Visit to register for one of White Sulphur Springs’ Winter Retreat sessions, or visit to register for one of Spring Canyon’s Winter Retreat sessions. ASK OCF LTC Ryan Wainwright, USA (Ret.), who serves as the Assistant Director of Field Operations, answered this question from another OCFer: Is our membership expanding or contracting? OCF isn’t just for military officers—anyone sincerely able to sign the Statement of Faith and Participation and agree with the OCF Biblical Guidelines for Member Conduct can become a member of OCF. To become a member, first acknowledge your agreement with the Statement of Faith, then visit to fill out the form. If you have a question that you want us to consider for a future “Ask OCF” segment, send an email to . GUEST SPOTLIGHT Today’s guest spotlight features Col PK Carlton, USAF (Ret.), who currently serves as OCF's Director of Field Staff. In this role, he focuses on the care and engagement for our Field Staff at the four Service Academies and our Gateway ministries at Leavenworth and Maxwell. PK and his wife Lindsey have served as Local Leaders across their Air Force career, later serving as Ministry Team at USAFA that led to them leading the USAFA ministry for two years. They love having cadets over and mentoring young officers and have a heart for the Field Staff and their families that serve our key ministries. Earlier this year, PK led a retreat session for USAFA cadets at Spring Canyon () to unpack this frequently asked question in OCF circles: “How do I evangelize in uniform?” PK joined us on Crosspoint to share some of the encouragement he gave those cadets and to share his own testimony as well. If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with PK, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: How do you feel about evangelism, and what experiences have shaped your impression? Why is it important to keep Matthew 5:16 and Romans 10:14 in mind when thinking about sharing your faith? Who might be able to mentor you in evangelism? What techniques have you found work well for sharing your own testimony? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/33361097

Bonus episode: Seeing the five fingerprints of God in your life 09/18/2024

Bonus episode: Seeing the five fingerprints of God in your life In this episode, COL Andy MacLean, USA (Ret.), the coordinator for Latin America at the Association for Christian Conferences, Teaching and Services (ACCTS ()), discusses the mission of ACCTS and its work in developing Christian leaders in the armed forces worldwide. He shares his experiences working with military communities in Latin America and the challenges and opportunities he encounters. Andy also highlights the upcoming AMCF World Conference and the need for financial support and prayer for the conference's success. Andy then shares his testimony and the five fingerprints of God in his life. He discusses his journey from being a missionary kid to a military officer and the unexpected opportunities and doors that God opened for him. He emphasizes the importance of being a good steward of what God has entrusted to us and thinking strategically about where God has placed us. He encourages Christians in the military to use their credentials and experiences to make an impact for the kingdom of God and to be mindful of the bigger picture in their actions and decisions. Andy mentions a few resources in this interview: OCF small groups (), Rocky Mountain High (), and the AMCF World Conference (). Takeaways ACCTS' mission is to assist in the development of Christian leaders in the armed forces worldwide and establish military Christian fellowships. Andy works as the coordinator for Latin America, supporting military Christian fellowships in 20 countries. The AMCF World Conference aims to encourage and equip military Christians from around the world and provide a vision for their mission. Financial support and prayer are needed for the success of the conference and the ongoing work of ACCTS. There is a need for more people to get involved in ACCTS and support military Christian communities globally. Be a good steward of what God has entrusted to you. Think strategically about where God has placed you. Use your credentials and experiences to make an impact for the kingdom of God. Be mindful of the bigger picture in your actions and decisions. Points to Ponder Andy talks about the Lord using his military career to prepare him for his role with ACCTS. How have you seen God use an experience in your life for another? When have you seen hardship bear fruit? Andy shares about connections and networking being a way to further the gospel elsewhere. What do his anecdotes remind us of when it comes to the Lord and His church? Thinking of the theme for this year’s AMCF World Conference, what does it mean to you to “arise and shine” (Isaiah 60:1)? How are you stewarding what God has given you? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/33109342

September 2024: The global military community; veteran involvement in OCF; and OCF ministry news 09/11/2024

September 2024: The global military community; veteran involvement in OCF; and OCF ministry news OCF MINISTRY NEWS Fort Knox OCF update: Continue praying for the ROTC cadets as they’ve returned to their campuses and begun new semesters. To learn more about and/or get involved with OCF’s ROTC ministry, visit Connected print newsletters: If you don’t receive this biannual piece in your mailbox this fall, be sure to update your info via so that we don’t miss you next spring. This fall’s newsletter will also be available online at Ted & Beverly Kaiser: Contact this newest couple on the OCF team by emailing OCF Mid-Atlantic & Northeast Fall Retreat: Visit whitesulphursprings.org/events to learn more and register, and email any questions to the Chiaravallottis at . The Bowens’ Fort Carson OCF group: Visit to connect with groups like the Bowens’, and visit to start your own group wherever you are. ASK OCF COL Steve & Miriam Shambach, USA (Ret.), who serve as the OCF Mountain Central Regional Coordinator couple, answered this question from another OCFer: Retired, I don't live near a military base, no local OCF folks near me...what opportunity is there for fellowship/training through Zoom? In case you missed the Shambachs’ article in the spring 2024 issue of Connected print newsletter, you can find it here: . If you have a question that you want us to consider for a future “Ask OCF” segment, send an email to . GUEST SPOTLIGHT COL Andy MacLean, USA (Ret.), graduated from the U.S. Military Academy in 1995 and later returned there to be a professor. After retiring in 2019, he joined the Association for Christian Conferences, Teaching, and Services (), a sister ministry of OCF. He currently serves as the ACCTS coordinator for Latin America. Whether discussing the origin story of ACCTS, the countries he works with as an ACCTS staffer, or his own life, Andy’s passion for sharing how God works in the details is clear. He talks about the upcoming , approaching this October in Brazil, which you can support by attending, praying for the gathering, and/or contributing to a scholarship for other guests. If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with Andy, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: How can you engage in the international ministry ACCTS does? When have you seen God work through hard situations, whether in your own life or in events across the world? Why is it important to discuss how God is working in other nation’s military communities? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/33000367

Bonus episode: Finding God's purpose in suffering 08/15/2024

Bonus episode: Finding God's purpose in suffering Show Notes In this bonus episode of OCF Crosspoint, podcast host Josh Jackson continues his discussion with CH(CPT) Michael Will, USA (Ret.), focusing on the theme of hardship and suffering. The conversation delves into defining suffering, recognizing its various sources—such as persecution, sin, and the actions of others—and understanding its impact. They address the dangers of comparison, which can undermine endurance, and emphasize the importance of acknowledging our lack of control as a starting point for discovering God's purpose in suffering. The episode offers practical advice for navigating hardship, including perseverance and concentrating on what we can control. It also explores the purpose behind suffering, such as being shaped into the image of Christ and learning obedience. The conversation touches on the challenging yet transformative concept of rejoicing in suffering and finding hope amidst adversity. Silence and listening to God are highlighted as crucial practices in these times, along with the importance of seeking God's will through prayer. Additionally, the discussion covers the role of discipline and training in preparing for suffering, encouraging believers to embrace it with a mindset of rejoicing. By viewing suffering as something appointed by God rather than accidental, believers can appreciate the transformative work God accomplishes through these hardships. Points to Ponder As you listen to this conversation with CH Will, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: What personal experiences have shaped your definition of suffering? How have you seen God use suffering in your own life and in the lives of others? What Bible verses encourage you in the midst of hardship? Michael talks about prayer as “the most effective tool” in his toolkit. What additional tools can you use when facing hard times? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/32580187

August 2024: Seeing God’s hand during hardship; enlisted involvement in OCF; and OCF ministry news 08/07/2024

August 2024: Seeing God’s hand during hardship; enlisted involvement in OCF; and OCF ministry news Show Notes OCF MINISTRY NEWS New hires; jobs still available on OCF team: While couples have stepped forward to fill open positions at USMA and USCGA on an interim basis, the application window at both West Point and the Coast Guard Academy is now extended to 31 October with an expected start date in the summer of 2025. Fall programs await at Spring Canyon and White Sulphur Springs: Jump-start your career transition with a weekend of interactive work, group discussions, and personal exercises, all facilitated by retired military leaders with over 200 years of combined leadership and life-coaching experience. This three-day wilderness experience, complete with outdoor activities, campfires, spectacular mountain vistas and events, is tailored to meet the needs of busy families who yearn to “Reconnect in the Rockies.” Designed for one parent and one child, these weekends are an opportunity to build memories that will last a lifetime. ASK OCF TSgt Ryan Padgett, USAF (Ret.), answered the FAQ: Is OCF only for officers? Ryan shares about his own experience with joining OCF and encourages other enlisted service members to get involved, too. Interested in getting involved in OCF? and/or . If you have a question that you want us to consider for a future “Ask OCF” segment, send an email to [email protected]. GUEST SPOTLIGHT CH(CAPT) Michael Will, USA (Ret.), spoke on this month’s episode about hardship and suffering, topics which also served as his focus while he was the speaker for a week of last month. Having enlisted in 1992 and later commissioned as a chaplain, Michael has also pastored churches in Ohio and Canada. He currently serves as the associate pastor for discipleship at Grace Evangelical Congregational Church in Knox, Pa. If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s “Be a Guest” webpage. Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to [email protected]. POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with Michael, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: What personal experiences have shaped your definition of suffering? How have you seen God use suffering in your own life and in the lives of others? What Bible verses encourage you in the midst of hardship? Michael talks about prayer as “the most effective tool” in his toolkit. What additional tools can you use when facing hard times? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/32490042

July 2024: Modeling biblical humility; Christian chaplain challenges; and OCF ministry news 07/09/2024

July 2024: Modeling biblical humility; Christian chaplain challenges; and OCF ministry news Show Notes OCF MINISTRY NEWS OCF purchased a new staff home at Spring Canyon: To contribute to OCF's purchase of this house, . OCF is expanding efforts in ROTC ministry with a new job opening at The Citadel: To learn more about the Council’s approval of this opportunity and/or . July marks the halfway point of OCF’s conference center ministry: to learn more about programs and opportunities available later this summer and fall. The AMCF World Conference 2024 in Brazil is coming up: This transformative opportunity to connect with other military communities around the world is scheduled for 16-20 October. Can't attend? that will provide financial scholarships to other attendees. OCF small group spotlight: OCF Field Staffer Paul Homan shared one of several questions posed during the OCF at USAFA spring retreat and spiritual commissioning. What’s your small group studying? What questions are you wrestling with? Let Courtney know by emailing her at . ASK OCF CH(COL) Douglas H. Ball, USA answered the FAQ: What are the challenges that our Christian Military Chaplains are facing? His three-part answer mentions busy schedules, role expansion, and cultural change. Interested in learning more about resources for chaplains and ways to support your chaplains? If you have a question that you want us to consider for a future “Ask OCF” segment, send an email to . GUEST SPOTLIGHT This month, Josh sat down with Brig Gen Jeff H. Hurlbert, USAF (Ret.), who retired from the Air Force in 2023 after 32 years of service. He's currently the chief security officer for Applied Materials, a global leader in the semiconductor, display, and solar panel industries. Jeff is also a longtime OCF member and current member of the OCF Council. This month, Jeff is speaking at on the topic of humility, and he discusses that same topic here in today’s episode of Crosspoint. Inspired by an OCF Bible study he participated in 15 years ago in Germany and having seen the impact of humility in his own life and career, Jeff addresses several questions such as why humility matters to the military leader, what it is and what it isn’t, and more. If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s “Be a Guest” webpage. Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with Jeff, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: How would you define humility? What’s a personal example of humility making a difference, whether you were the one displaying humility or observing someone observing humility? How does Christ’s example encourage you to lead and live humbly? What gifts has God given you that you can use to serve others for His glory? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/32052292

June 2024, “Not wrong or right, just left or right”: Planning ahead for career transitions 06/07/2024

June 2024, “Not wrong or right, just left or right”: Planning ahead for career transitions Crosspoint Show Notes, June 2024: Today’s episode introduces a new format for the OCF Crosspoint podcast. Moving forward, each monthly episode will consist of three segments: OCF ministry news, an “Ask OCF” segment, and an interview with a guest about a particular topic or personal story. Read on for links and details from each of these three segments for June 2024. OCF MINISTRY NEWS Volunteers needed for Fort Knox CST ministry: If interested in leading small groups for cadets during summer training at Fort Knox, particularly in July, reach out to Bob Deckard via or to Larry Sherbondy via . Conference Center summer programs begin: Visit to watch our newest video about opportunities at OCF’s two Conference Centers—White Sulphur Springs in Manns Choice, Pa., and Spring Canyon in Buena Vista, Colo. From there, check out each Conference Center’s website to learn more about summer programs and discounts available to first-time guests, active-duty military, and OCF Local Leaders. SkillBridge opportunities now available at OCF: Visit to check out OCF’s newest webpage about our new opportunities available through SkillBridge. OCF small group spotlight: Maj Nathan Flack, USAF, serves as the Local Leader for and shared what question his group wrestled with recently. What’s your small group studying? What questions are you wrestling with? Let Courtney know by emailing her at . ASK OCF OCF Council President Col Dale Holland, USAF (Ret.), answered some FAQs about Local Leaders and mentioned resources available online. Visit to access these resources. If you’d like to become a Local Leader or if you’ve not yet listed yourself on our online directory, visit to do so. If you have a question that you want us to consider for a future “Ask OCF” segment, send an email to . GUEST SPOTLIGHT Have you thought about what that next season of life might look like after military service? What does it look like to have a Biblical approach when it comes to a career transition? And what does your identity have to do with this? This month, Josh sat down with Maj Gen Pete Peterson, USAF (Ret.) to discuss these questions. Pete is a co-founder of , an organization that uses Biblical principles to help men and women transition from military service to the next season that God has planned for them. Having experienced a career transition himself after 34 years of service in the Air Force, Pete shares his own lessons learned, Biblical principles for a career change, and details about Caleb Challenge. Caleb Challenge is hosting its next workshop at OCF’s White Sulphur Springs in Manns Choice, Pa., later this fall. Visit to learn more and register for this valuable 13-15 September workshop. If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic we should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . POINTS TO PONDER As you listen to this conversation with Pete, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: Consider Pete’s big question for those who will eventually transition out of a military career: What’s your real focus? How can you start preparing for your own career transition now? What does it mean to you to “include God in the process”? Why is our identity in Christ important to consider when going through a big life change like a career transition? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/31552537

An OCF Milestone Moment: The Inaugural Global Town Hall 02/16/2024

Part 3: Spiritual Formation: A Counter-Cultural Approach to Spiritual Renewal 11/29/2023

Part 3: Spiritual Formation: A Counter-Cultural Approach to Spiritual Renewal Today, you’ll hear audio from the conclusion of a speaking session by CH(MAJ) Jake Snodgrass, USA, this past fall at Spring Canyon’s Aspentime Retreat. If you’re new to OCF and you’ve never heard of Spring Canyon, it’s OCF’s western conference and retreat center located near Buena Vista, Colorado. And if you’ve never heard of Aspentime, it’s a weekend getaway at Spring Canyon for Christian military members and families, and it features teaching and small group sessions led by a speaker like CH Snodgrass. Participants at the weekend retreat explored the profound concept of spiritual formation through the lens of renowned authors such as John Mark Comer, Dallas Willard, John Ortberg, and Donald Whitney, and they uncovered principles and practices that challenge contemporary ideals, emphasizing the necessity of community in the pursuit of spiritual growth. There were also interactive discussions, activities, and real-life applications in which leaders discovered how to build and sustain a vibrant military ministry while fostering personal renewal in an increasingly secular world and military. About CH(MAJ) Jake Snodgrass, USA Chaplain Jacob Snodgrass is a native of Ames, OK, and graduated from the University of Oklahoma and Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. He is currently pursuing a PhD in Applied Theology at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Kansas City. He was commissioned from ROTC in 2002, and has served as a Chaplain since 2009, endorsed by the Southern Baptist Convention. He currently serves as the 10th Special Forces Group Chaplain and as the lead pastor of Agape Carson, Fort Carson, CO. Chaplain Snodgrass has served numerous assignments as a chaplain, pastor, and church planter, including Camp Humphreys, Korea; Fort Lewis, WA; and Kandahar, Afghanistan. He was named U.S. Army Chaplain of the Year in 2019. Chaplain Snodgrass has been married for 18 years to the former Heather Dostal of Leakenheath, UK, and they have six kids: Manuel 24, Karmen 22, Gage 15, Boyce 14, Jovie 11, and Bennett 8. /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/28834393

Part 2: Spiritual Formation: A Counter-Cultural Approach to Spiritual Renewal 11/15/2023

Part 2: Spiritual Formation: A Counter-Cultural Approach to Spiritual Renewal Today, you’ll hear audio from Part 2 of a speaking session by CH(MAJ) Jake Snodgrass, USA, this past fall at Spring Canyon’s Aspentime Retreat. If you’re new to OCF and you’ve never heard of Spring Canyon, it’s OCF’s western conference and retreat center located near Buena Vista, Colorado. And if you’ve never heard of Aspentime, it’s a weekend getaway at Spring Canyon for Christian military members and families, and it features teaching and small group sessions led by a speaker like CH Snodgrass. Participants at the weekend retreat explored the profound concept of spiritual formation through the lens of renowned authors such as John Mark Comer, Dallas Willard, John Ortberg, and Donald Whitney, and they uncovered principles and practices that challenge contemporary ideals, emphasizing the necessity of community in the pursuit of spiritual growth. There were also interactive discussions, activities, and real-life applications in which leaders discovered how to build and sustain a vibrant military ministry while fostering personal renewal in an increasingly secular world and military. About CH(MAJ) Jake Snodgrass, USA Chaplain Jacob Snodgrass is a native of Ames, OK, and graduated from the University of Oklahoma and Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. He is currently pursuing a PhD in Applied Theology at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Kansas City. He was commissioned from ROTC in 2002, and has served as a Chaplain since 2009, endorsed by the Southern Baptist Convention. He currently serves as the 10th Special Forces Group Chaplain and as the lead pastor of Agape Carson, Fort Carson, CO. Chaplain Snodgrass has served numerous assignments as a chaplain, pastor, and church planter, including Camp Humphreys, Korea; Fort Lewis, WA; and Kandahar, Afghanistan. He was named U.S. Army Chaplain of the Year in 2019. Chaplain Snodgrass has been married for 18 years to the former Heather Dostal of Leakenheath, UK, and they have six kids: Manuel 24, Karmen 22, Gage 15, Boyce 14, Jovie 11, and Bennett 8. /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/28644633

Part 1: Spiritual Formation: A Counter-Cultural Approach to Spiritual Renewal 11/08/2023

Part 1: Spiritual Formation: A Counter-Cultural Approach to Spiritual Renewal Today, you’ll hear audio from a speaking session by CH(MAJ) Jake Snodgrass, USA, this past fall at Spring Canyon’s Aspentime Retreat. If you’re new to OCF and you’ve never heard of Spring Canyon, it’s OCF’s western conference and retreat center located near Buena Vista, Colorado. And if you’ve never heard of Aspentime, it’s a weekend getaway at Spring Canyon for Christian military members and families, and it features teaching and small group sessions led by a speaker like CH Snodgrass. Participants at the weekend retreat explored the profound concept of spiritual formation through the lens of renowned authors such as John Mark Comer, Dallas Willard, John Ortberg, and Donald Whitney, and they uncovered principles and practices that challenge contemporary ideals, emphasizing the necessity of community in the pursuit of spiritual growth. There were also interactive discussions, activities, and real-life applications in which leaders discovered how to build and sustain a vibrant military ministry while fostering personal renewal in an increasingly secular world and military. About CH(MAJ) Jake Snodgrass, USA Chaplain Jacob Snodgrass is a native of Ames, OK, and graduated from the University of Oklahoma and Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. He is currently pursuing a PhD in Applied Theology at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Kansas City. He was commissioned from ROTC in 2002, and has served as a Chaplain since 2009, endorsed by the Southern Baptist Convention. He currently serves as the 10th Special Forces Group Chaplain and as the lead pastor of Agape Carson, Fort Carson, CO. Chaplain Snodgrass has served numerous assignments as a chaplain, pastor, and church planter, including Camp Humphreys, Korea; Fort Lewis, WA; and Kandahar, Afghanistan. He was named U.S. Army Chaplain of the Year in 2019. Chaplain Snodgrass has been married for 18 years to the former Heather Dostal of Leakenheath, UK, and they have six kids: Manuel 24, Karmen 22, Gage 15, Boyce 14, Jovie 11, and Bennett 8. /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/28550231

“Practice what we profess”: Three leadership principles for the Christian in the military 10/18/2023

“Practice what we profess”: Three leadership principles for the Christian in the military Got an idea for a guest or topic? If you would like to share your own story, Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to [email protected]. Show Notes: Today’s guest is Col Jassen Bluto, USAF, (Ret.), a 32-year veteran who commanded four squadrons, served in combat in Iraq, and oversaw physical security and anti-terrorism policy and training at Air National Guard headquarters. He also gained extensive leadership experience in academia and then in law enforcement, where he served on three separate police agencies before retiring as a detective from an agency in Los Angeles County. Pulling from decades of experience in enlisted and commissioned roles, Jassen shares three leadership principles–trust, respect, and caring–principles that inspired his short book titled . While the military certainly provides ample leadership training and experience, Jassen shares about the importance of leading from a Christ-centered life, Bible verses that shape his leadership style, and more. >Check out these resources mentioned in Jassen’s interview: , Jassen’s short book that features Biblical examples and methodology , Jassen’s podcast that focuses on practical insights for leaders >Study questions for this episode As you listen to this conversation with Jassen, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: How would you characterize a good leader and a bad leader? What effect does right relationship with God have on our relationships with others on earth, especially in leadership contexts? What Bible verses come to mind to shape your leadership practices? How does humility produce good leadership? Why is it important to have deeper relationships with those operating under your leadership? Who in your life is providing you with feedback in order to develop your leadership skills? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/28345565

“Get your emotions to work for you”: Understanding emotional intelligence as a military leader 09/27/2023

“Get your emotions to work for you”: Understanding emotional intelligence as a military leader Got an idea for a guest or topic? If you would like to share your own story, . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to [email protected]. Show Notes How do emotional intelligence (known as EQ) and leadership go together? What does EQ have to do with leading in the military? How does EQ line up with scripture? Noble Gibbens, , joins me on the podcast to answer these questions. An Oklahoma-born West Point graduate who served in the U.S. Army in the 82nd Airborne Division, Noble combined his entrepreneurial spirit and experience with his passion for emotional intelligence to become a certified emotional intelligence practitioner, corporate speaker & trainer, and executive leadership coach. After growing up in a home where he “learned absolutely nothing about conflict resolution” and realizing his emotional dysfunction in his own home as an adult, Noble met with a counselor and began his emotional fitness journey. In this episode, he defines emotional intelligence, shares experiences with leadership in and out of the military context, talks about David and other biblical examples of emotional intelligence, and more. Check out these resources mentioned in Noble’s interview: by Dr. Travis Bradberry and Dr. Jean Greaves , an online self-rating assessment tool Dr. Brooks Gibbs, Emotional Resilience in Teens & Adults, and Creating Unstoppable Humans by Dr. Henry Cloud by Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. John Townsend by The Arbinger Institute by Jonice Webb, PhD, with Christine Musello by Jonice Webb, PhD As you listen to this conversation with Noble, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: How would you define emotional intelligence? Think back to your own upbringing. How did your community, family, etc. talk about emotions? How has that impacted your understanding of emotional intelligence now? To pose Noble's question mentioned in this episode: How often do anxiety and frustrations, motivation, impulses, fear, and distress affect and impact your decision-making? Having listened to Noble explain the impact emotional intelligence can have on working relationships, what can improve within your own workplace? We talk about Jesus as the biblical model of being unoffendable, a trait that indicates high emotional intelligence. What can we learn from His example? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/28138772

“Camouflage Christian”: Living for Christ while serving in the military 09/13/2023

“Camouflage Christian”: Living for Christ while serving in the military Got an idea for a guest or topic? If you would like to share your own story, . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to [email protected]. Show Notes So many conversations within the OCF community circle back to this question: How ought Christians in the military integrate their faith and profession? One week after graduating from high school, CW4 Rich Smith, USA (Ret.), embarked on 24 years of military service that provided him experiences that answer that very question. Upon retiring from the Army, Rich has developed a passion for encouraging other service members not to camouflage their faith in Christ during their years in the military. In this episode, we discuss what hinders and helps Christians live out their faith in the military, his personal experiences with Christian fellowship during years on active duty, and more. , which provides a deeper dive on the topics he discussed on Crosspoint. Rich now resides in his hometown of Rome, New York, with wife Teri and granddaughters Amerie, Elodie, and Maisy. As you listen to this conversation with Rich, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: What motivates you to camouflage your faith while serving in the military context? How does Ephesians 6:10-20 encourage you to live out your faith in all areas of life? Rich shares a couple of personal anecdotes about how fellowship with other believers strengthened his walk during his time in the Army. What impact have you seen fellowship or the absence of it have in your own life? What Scripture can you commit to memory for the seemingly impossible tasks you’ll face at work? Rich talks about the value of turning to the Bible first in all circumstances. What things do you find yourself turning to first for encouragement, comfort, etc.? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/28013055

"Understand your why”: Following Jesus’ example of servant leadership 08/23/2023

Establishing “foundations of resilience”: Learning how to bounce back after trauma 08/09/2023

Establishing “foundations of resilience”: Learning how to bounce back after trauma Got an idea for a guest or topic? If you would like to share your own story, . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to [email protected]. Show Notes What is resilience? Is there a correlation between resilience and the prevalence of suicide in the military? How do you know if you’ve become resilient? Minutes after leading a session about the topic of resilience during OCF’s annual Local Leader Conference held at earlier this year, Col Tim Hale, USAF (Ret.), sat down with me in the dining hall of Hartley Holmes Lodge to address these questions and others. Raised in a military community near Scott AFB, Tim began his own career in the Air Force after completing Air Force ROTC at St. Louis University. Throughout his decades of service, Tim’s command positions at a variety of levels, bolstered by post-retirement experiences as a cabinet secretary for the New Mexico Department of Veteran Services and as an elder at his church, enabled him to see the importance of resilience firsthand. Tim now resides in Oklahoma, where he serves as OCF’s Area Coordinator for Central Oklahoma, Southern Kansas, and Northern Texas. Check out the various resources mentioned throughout this episode OCF Crosspoint episode with Jeremy Stalnecker that focuses on topics related to today’s episode with Tim by Chad Robichaux, Jeremy Stalnecker, and John Mizerak (foreword by MG Bob Dees, USA (Ret.)) by Bill Keith by MG Bob Dees, USA (Ret.) As you listen to this conversation with Tim, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor Tim says the best time to build resilience is before a traumatic event takes place. How can you build resilience now so that you’re better prepared if and when potentially traumatic life events occur? Referring to Path to Resiliency, Tim reminds us that God can heal our trauma and enable us to move forward. What examples, biblical or personal, come to mind as you think of God restoring people after a traumatic event? Specifically, what spiritual disciplines can you cultivate now so that those habits are already established if and when traumatic experiences occur? Who do you consider your community to support you through trauma and recovery? Tim shares 2 Corinthians 1:3 as a biblical encouragement that God sustains us through trials. What scripture can you begin clinging to now that will encourage you through the hardships of life? Tim suggests that a self-examination of behavior in day-to-day life–even when things are good–can help assess personal resilience that will prove necessary in hardships. Reflect now on how you’re handling the “small things” during this season of life, and ask yourself if there are spiritual disciplines to pursue as you seek to develop this resilience. /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/27697536

"Take the biblical viewpoint”: Reframing parents’ conversations with kids about sex 07/26/2023

"Take the biblical viewpoint”: Reframing parents’ conversations with kids about sex Got an idea for a guest or topic? If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to Show Notes: Earlier this season, Nicole Breining spoke about her husband’s pornography addiction that resulted in betrayal trauma and a serious strain on their relationship. But what impact does pornography addiction have on the rest of the family? Do kids experience a similar type of trauma when they learn parents struggle with a problematic sexual behavior? How should parents respond if and when they discover their children are viewing pornography? In this episode of Crosspoint, Dr. John Thorington addresses these questions. John is a licensed professional counselor and certified sexual recovery therapist, and he has a private practice in Huntsville, Alabama, called Restoring Hearts Counseling. If you haven’t already, listen to his first episode with Crosspoint from its first season, titled John talks about how parents might navigate a conversation with kids when a parent is struggling with problematic sexual behaviors, how to set boundaries in recovery, and what resources to use in next steps. We then flip the script to talk about how parents can move forward when they learn their child is the one struggling with problematic sexual behaviors, turning to God’s design rather than the world’s during ongoing conversations. Check out the various resources mentioned throughout this episode: , John’s practice that offers competent counseling and treats teen pornography addiction and other compulsive online behaviors with a Christian perspective , which seeks to provide hope, freedom, and healing from sexual brokenness through Jesus Christ , which helps men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ and equips others to do the same by Daniel Weiss and Joshua Glaser, written to help parents navigate conversations with their kids about pornography by John Fort, a guide that provides parents a new approach to help children safely navigate today’s hypersexual culture , a Barna Report published in partnership with Josh McDowell Ministries , a global Christian ministry dedicated to helping families thrive by Barb Winters by Dr. John Thorington As you listen to this conversation with John, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: What is the value of backing up promises with action when navigating recovery from addiction with your family? If you’re a parent finding out that your child is viewing pornography, how can you make sure you respond well so that your relationship is not damaged? What can we learn from Jesus’ example as He interacts with the woman at the well in John 4:1-26? How can you be proactive in educating your kids about God’s design for sex and sexuality in a world where we often see a rebellion against that design? John talks about the potential harm we can do by framing conversations about sex in a negative light. How ought God’s design and His positive view of it shape how we talk about sex? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/27566145

"Struggling in silence”: Talking through God’s design for sexuality and the single womanStruggling in silence 07/12/2023

"Struggling in silence”: Talking through God’s design for sexuality and the single womanStruggling in silence Got an idea for a guest or topic? If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to . Show Notes: On the heels of several episodes on the topics of pornography and sexuality with CAPT Brent & Nicole Breining, USN (Ret.), Dr. Joy Skarka joins me on the podcast for a similar conversation, except we’ll approach this topic from the perspective of single or dating women. Joy currently serves as the director of discipleship at Authentic Intimacy, a ministry devoted to teaching on God's design for intimacy and sexuality. Joy discusses the meaning behind and value of a phrase that contains two words we likely wouldn’t expect to go together: sexual discipleship. She then shares her own story with pornography addiction and how God turned a source of brokenness, pain, and trauma into a passion through which she helps other women navigate similar struggles. You can connect with Joy by following her on Instagram: . Check out the various resources mentioned throughout this episode: , the ministry Joy works for that offers online groups, resources, and more , Authentic Intimacy’s podcast with the ministry’s president and co-founder Juli Slattery by Dr. Juli Slattery As you listen to this conversation with Joy, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: Quoting Juli Slattery’s book Rethinking Sexuality, Joy says, “Every sexual question is ultimately a spiritual one.” Do you agree? Why or why not? How might a lack of education from the church result in a poor or even harmful understanding of sexuality? Joy talks about how addiction to pornography can start so subtly. What are some ways we can proactively guard against developing such addictions? If we truly understand that the point of being a Christian is to be made more like Christ, how does that understanding affect our contentment in Him alone, regardless of relationship status, circumstances, etc.? Who are the trustworthy mentors in your life with whom you can discuss heavy topics like the ones covered in today’s episode? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/27438624

"Pursue at all costs”: Solutions, healing, & recovery from porn addiction 06/21/2023

"Pursue at all costs”: Solutions, healing, & recovery from porn addiction Show Notes: CAPT Brent & Nicole Breining, USN (Ret.), return to the podcast today to continue our series on pornography and sexuality. If you haven’t listened to the first three episodes in this series, I encourage you to check out those episodes first and then return to hear today’s episode as we discuss the three parts of the healing process, resources for recovery, and more. The Breinings break down the three parts of addiction recovery—breaking denial structures, understanding the addictive cycle, and accessing the wound. We then address why we can feel so discouraged by the time and effort required to heal, the value of understanding the nature of addiction regardless of personal experience, and the importance of addressing these sin struggles for the purpose of restoration rather than rejection. Check out the various resources mentioned throughout this episode: , through which Brent and Nicole help men and women heal from unwanted sexual behaviors and their repercussions , a resource for women , an eight-week study for men, women, and churches , a book that explores the “why” behind self-destructive sexual choices If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF’s . Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to As you listen to this conversation with Brent and Nicole, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor: Brent says, “Sexual bondage is not about sex, but medicating the pain in your life.” No matter what addictions you might struggle with, what pain might you trying to be medicate? Who can you trust and talk to about your traumatic experiences and addictive behaviors? How can you be someone others can talk to about their struggles as well? How does our quick-fix culture present challenges in recovering from addiction? In what ways can you help the church adopt a culture of grace when it comes to ministering to broken people in this context? What tools can you utilize to overcome unwanted sexual behaviors and/or keep in mind to recommend to others struggling with such behaviors? /episode/index/show/ocfcrosspoint/id/27216141

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