How the Swinger Lifestyle Transformed Our Relationship
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How the Swinger Lifestyle Transformed Our Relationship | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 In this candid conversation, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about how embracing the swinger lifestyle has reshaped their views on sex, love, and connection. Jackie shares her personal journey from monogamy to empowerment through sexual exploration, while John reflects on how swinging has brought more honesty, freedom, and trust into their relationship. Together, they explore how non-monogamy has helped them grow individually and as a couple—challenging societal norms, reframing jealousy,...
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Beyond the Myth: Insider Perspectives on the Swinger Lifestyle with Courtney
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they welcome their marketing guru Courtney on camera for the first time to discuss common misconceptions about swingers clubs. With Courtney providing a monogamous perspective on the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights for both newcomers and those curious about what really happens at Colette Swingers Clubs. In this eye-opening conversation, they tackle everything from outfit anxiety to unexpected encounters, proving that reality is often far different from what people imagine. Learn how the communication skills and relationship strategies in the...
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How We Talk to Our Kids About Open Relationships
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How do you explain non-traditional relationships to your children? In this thoughtful video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about parenting while living an open lifestyle. With eight kids between them, they share how they’ve approached honest, age-appropriate conversations about love, trust, and relationship diversity—without oversharing or crossing boundaries. They emphasize the importance of transparency, emotional intelligence, and modeling values like honesty and integrity—regardless of relationship structure. If you’re a parent navigating how to talk to your kids...
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This or That: Exploring Consensual Non-Monogamy
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi in this fun and revealing episode where they play "This or That: Lifestyle Edition"! The couple behind colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning openlove101.com blog share their preferences on various aspects of open relationships and swinging. In this candid discussion, John and Jackie answer questions about full swap vs soft swap, playing together vs separately, and much more. With over 13 years of experience in consensual non-monogamy, they offer valuable insights on jealousy, vulnerability, and how their preferences have evolved over time. ...
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Swingers Lifestyle & New Way of Looking at Jealousy
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Jealousy in Open Relationships: Fix It or Ignore It? | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 What do jealousy and a broken refrigerator have in common? In this thoughtful video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com use a clever analogy to explore how people handle jealousy—whether they choose to fix it, ignore it, or live with it. Through personal stories and practical insights, they explain why open communication is essential in relationships, especially in non-monogamous dynamics. Instead of avoiding jealousy, they encourage viewers to see it as a signal for growth, intimacy, and deeper...
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The Psychology of Open Relationships: Insights from a Sex Therapist
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning blog openlove101.com, as they dive deep into relationship psychology with licensed professional counselor Dr. Alyssa Webb-McCune. This enlightening conversation explores various relationship models, from traditional monogamy to swinging and polyamory. Dr. Webb-McCune shares her expertise on building healthy relationships, navigating boundaries, and understanding the psychology behind different relationship styles. Whether you're curious about consensual non-monogamy or looking to strengthen your...
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What Is Compersion? Exploring Joy in Non-Monogamous Relationships
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Can you feel joy when your partner finds happiness with someone else? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive into the concept of compersion—the emotional opposite of jealousy—and how it can create deeper connection, trust, and personal growth in non-monogamous relationships. They share their own experiences, discuss challenges rooted in traditional relationship norms, and explain how compersion can reduce pressure, expand emotional freedom, and even strengthen primary partnerships. 💡 A must-watch for anyone exploring open love, emotional maturity, or new ways to...
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Can You Love More Than One Person?
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How to Reconnect After a Lifestyle Misstep In this heartfelt episode, John and Jackie dive deep into the emotional side of open relationships—exploring the joys, challenges, and growth that come from forming emotional connections beyond a primary partner. They share how maintaining friendships, embracing vulnerability, and communicating openly can actually strengthen the bond between partners. Jackie discusses how love isn't finite, and John reflects on how emotional openness has enriched their lives. Together, they challenge the idea that intimacy with others weakens a...
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Honey, wanna go to a Swinger's Club?
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Curious about exploring a swingers club but not sure how to bring it up with your partner? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share personal stories and thoughtful advice on approaching the lifestyle with someone who may feel hesitant. Filmed in New Orleans during Mardi Gras, they discuss common fears, misconceptions, and the importance of honest, pressure-free communication. Jackie opens up about her own early doubts—and how one visit changed her perspective. Whether you're just curious or considering taking that first step, this video offers guidance on creating a safe,...
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Boundaries vs Rules: The Key to Open Relationship Success
The Openlove101 Show
Curious about the secrets behind open relationship success? Ever thought about how boundaries and rules can transform your love life? Let’s explore it together! In this exciting episode, we chat with lifestyle coach Diana Ryan about what it takes to build trust, intimacy, and open communication in a consensual non-monogamous relationship. Whether you're navigating swinging, threesomes, or exploring the open lifestyle for the first time, this conversation is packed with valuable insights! Tune in to learn how boundaries differ from rules, how to handle unmet expectations, and why...
info_outlineThe ugly truth about open relationships? It's NOT cheating!
Join John and Jackie as they tackle the biggest misconception about ethical non-monogamy head-on. Ever wonder why people automatically assume open relationships are about cheating? We're breaking down the real difference between consensual non-monogamy and infidelity. Discover how trust, honest communication, and mutual respect are actually the foundation of successful open relationships. Ready to challenge your assumptions about love and commitment?
We share our 12+ years of experience navigating the open lifestyle, proving that love isn't about exclusivity - it's about honesty and trust. Learn why the physical and emotional aspects of relationships don't have to be wrapped together, and how different relationship models can work for different people. Whether you're curious about open relationships or simply want to understand them better, this candid discussion reveals why judgment and assumptions about other people's relationships never tell the whole story.
We're sharing real talk about commitment, love, and what makes relationships truly work - no matter what model you choose. Want to dive deeper into conversations about ethical non-monogamy? Visit us at openlove101.com and join our community of open-minded individuals exploring authentic relationships together.
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro
00:34 - Open Relationships & Cheating Assumptions
04:17 - Open Relationships & Failure Myths
08:11 - Love in Open Relationships
09:36 - Misconceptions: Open Relationships & Sex
12:44 - Understanding Cheating
16:16 - Open vs. Monogamous Relationships
18:45 - Open Level 101 Plus
19:11 - Sign Up for Our Email List