Our First Lifestyle Experience: Raw and Unfiltered 🔥
Release Date: 03/04/2025
Swinging as a Threesome
The Openlove101 Show
Can swinging ever be truly “equal”? In this honest and insightful video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com tackle the emotional dynamics of open relationships—especially around gender, jealousy, and fairness. Sparked by a viewer email, they dive into what happens when one partner is more actively exploring than the other, and how communication and trust play a key role in navigating those feelings. From their first threesome experience to emotional growth and lasting friendships, John and Jackie share how open relationships can lead to deeper connection—not resentment. This is a...
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Boundaries vs Rules: Why Language Matters in Relationships
The Openlove101 Show
In this insightful episode, hosts John and Jackie Melfi dive into the important distinction between boundaries and rules in relationships, especially within consensual non-monogamy. They share their personal experiences and wisdom from over 20 years in open relationships to help couples navigate these concepts effectively. The Melfis explore how boundaries are personal, fluid, and evolve with trust, while rules often feel controlling and parental. Learn how establishing healthy boundaries has helped their relationship thrive and how you can apply these principles to your own...
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Is It Safe for Single Women to Visit Swinger Clubs?
The Openlove101 Show
Is It Safe for Single Women to Visit Swinger Clubs? | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Curious about visiting a swinger club as a single woman—but feeling unsure? In this empowering video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com tackle the common fears and societal judgments that often hold women back from exploring their sexuality in safe, respectful environments like Colette Clubs. They break down myths, share real experiences, and explain why women are always in control at swinger clubs—no pressure, no expectations. Whether you're there to dance, socialize, or simply explore, this video...
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The Dance of Differences: Making Non-Monogamy Work for Every Personality Type
The Openlove101 Show
Do Opposite Personalities Work in Non-Monogamy? | Open Love 101 Podcast Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the dynamics of opposite personalities in consensual non-monogamy and swinging relationships. In this candid discussion, the couple explores how their own introvert-extrovert dynamic plays out in their relationship and at their famous Colette Swingers Clubs. With over twenty years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie share valuable insights on how different personality types can complement each other in the...
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Debunking Myths About the Swinger Lifestyle
The Openlove101 Show
Debunking Myths About the Swinger Lifestyle | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Is swinging just cheating in disguise? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com bust common myths about the swinging lifestyle—starting with one of the biggest misconceptions: that swinging equals infidelity. They explain how transparency, trust, and emotional connection are key parts of their relationship, and why swinging isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience. From soft swap dynamics to deeper compatibility, they dive into the variety within the community and challenge outdated labels like "kinky"...
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Beyond the Bedroom: Exploring the Non-Sexual Benefits of Swinging
The Openlove101 Show
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the often-overlooked non-sexual benefits of being in an open relationship. With over 20 years of combined experience and as owners of the Colette Swingers Clubs, the couple shares their personal insights on how consensual non-monogamy has transformed their relationship beyond the bedroom. In this eye-opening episode, discover how swinging and open relationships can lead to enhanced communication, deeper trust, stronger friendships, and greater personal satisfaction. John and Jackie break down common misconceptions about the lifestyle...
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How the Swinger Lifestyle Transformed Our Relationship
The Openlove101 Show
How the Swinger Lifestyle Transformed Our Relationship | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 In this candid conversation, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about how embracing the swinger lifestyle has reshaped their views on sex, love, and connection. Jackie shares her personal journey from monogamy to empowerment through sexual exploration, while John reflects on how swinging has brought more honesty, freedom, and trust into their relationship. Together, they explore how non-monogamy has helped them grow individually and as a couple—challenging societal norms, reframing jealousy,...
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Beyond the Myth: Insider Perspectives on the Swinger Lifestyle with Courtney
The Openlove101 Show
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they welcome their marketing guru Courtney on camera for the first time to discuss common misconceptions about swingers clubs. With Courtney providing a monogamous perspective on the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights for both newcomers and those curious about what really happens at Colette Swingers Clubs. In this eye-opening conversation, they tackle everything from outfit anxiety to unexpected encounters, proving that reality is often far different from what people imagine. Learn how the communication skills and relationship strategies in the...
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How We Talk to Our Kids About Open Relationships
The Openlove101 Show
How do you explain non-traditional relationships to your children? In this thoughtful video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about parenting while living an open lifestyle. With eight kids between them, they share how they’ve approached honest, age-appropriate conversations about love, trust, and relationship diversity—without oversharing or crossing boundaries. They emphasize the importance of transparency, emotional intelligence, and modeling values like honesty and integrity—regardless of relationship structure. If you’re a parent navigating how to talk to your kids...
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This or That: Exploring Consensual Non-Monogamy
The Openlove101 Show
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi in this fun and revealing episode where they play "This or That: Lifestyle Edition"! The couple behind colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning openlove101.com blog share their preferences on various aspects of open relationships and swinging. In this candid discussion, John and Jackie answer questions about full swap vs soft swap, playing together vs separately, and much more. With over 13 years of experience in consensual non-monogamy, they offer valuable insights on jealousy, vulnerability, and how their preferences have evolved over time. ...
info_outlineOur First Lifestyle Experience: Raw and Unfiltered 🔥 Ever wondered what it's like to dive into the open lifestyle? Join us for some juicy stories!
Curious about threesomes, swinging, or open relationships? We're spilling all the details! From our very first encounters to cringe-worthy moments, we're holding nothing back.
You'll hear about unexpected house calls, DVP adventures, and how we navigate separate play dates. Want to know why lifestyle experiences can actually improve your relationship? Tune in to discover the secrets of better communication, increased intimacy, and stronger trust.
Who knew swinging could bring couples closer together? Ready to explore the wild side of relationships? This episode is packed with real-life stories that'll make you laugh, gasp, and maybe even blush! Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just lifestyle-curious, there's something here for everyone.
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CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro
00:38 - First Experiences in the Lifestyle
06:26 - John's Threesome Arrangement
11:36 - Separate Play Dates Explained
15:29 - Benefits of Separate Play Dates
19:00 - Lessons from Bad Experiences
22:10 - Join Our Email List at OpenLove101.com