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Order of Man

Release Date: 03/11/2026

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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:04 - Introduction and lacrosse tournament story
03:46 - Listener question: AI and content creation
17:57 - Navigating divorce and staying afloat emotionally
30:17 - New Order of Man merchandise designs
32:14 - Ideals worth fighting or dying for
35:15 - Violence, language, and societal perception
42:16 - Building brotherhood from scratch
51:22 - Extreme ownership when stuck in a job
59:24 - Reflecting on advice given years earlier
59:50 - Episode closing remarks

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