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In this episode, I recount my experience speaking at the Manifest Her event, where I participated in a wealth panel. This opportunity sparked a significant realization about the disconnect between our lofty goals and our self-belief. I emphasize the necessity of raising our "floor"—the foundation of our self-worth and belief in our capabilities—before we can effectively reach higher goals. I discuss how failing to address this gap can lead to a cycle of self-sabotage, where unmet goals diminish our self-esteem even further. I encourage listeners to define their success and assess whether...
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On this Valentine's Day episode, which emphasizes love and connection, I share a personal journey of self-discovery and the importance of leading with love. This episode is inspired by my late mother-in-law, who played a significant role in my life for nearly 40 years. Her recent passing has prompted me to reflect on the themes of vulnerability and the necessity of dropping our emotional armour. I share the concept of vulnerability, discussing how many of us have been conditioned to be strong and stoic, often at the expense of our emotional well-being. I recount my struggles with this armour,...
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In this episode, I am connecting with Habits & High-performance coach, Certified Life Coach and serial entrepreneur Alessia Citro, who brings a unique blend of corporate experience and personal transformation to the self-improvement realm with her upcoming book, Higher Self Habits: The Scientific, Strategic and Spiritual Framework to Get Our of Your Own Way… For Good. Her journey from achieving corporate success at Salesforce and facing transformative challenges at Google to entrepreneurship and self-actualization embodies the principles she teaches. Alessia demonstrates the...
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In this episode, I am sharing a coaching experience that will resonate with many of you, especially those grappling with procrastination and self-doubt. While this episode isn't solely about procrastination, it offers valuable questions and insights that can help shift your mindset and energy away from anything that isn't serving you. Here are the four key questions to help you shift your mindset: 1. Is it possible to do and good to have done? 2. What decision would my future self make? 3. How can I do one thing that moves me toward where I'm going today? 4. How can I micro and macro stack my...
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In this episode, I dive into the powerful distinction between pain and suffering, a topic that has resonated with many of you after I shared a thought-provoking quote on my social media. The quote, "Pain is inevitable. Suffering is a choice," has taken on new meaning for me, and I want to explore it further with you. Throughout the episode, I stress that suffering is an energy leak that can hinder our progress and well-being. I encourage listeners to call themselves out when they find themselves stuck in an overthinking cycle and choose action instead. I highlight the importance of learning...
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In this episode, I am connecting with Best-Selling Author, Non-Profit Founder and Motivational Speaker Kayla Logue. Kayla is a trailblazer on a mission to empower individuals to sculpt their own destinies and redefine success. As a bestselling author and founder of the non-profit Move Into Words, Kayla inspires others to embrace radical self-accountability and unleash their full potential. Her dynamic journey from a "picture-perfect" life to a path of bold choices exemplifies the power of personal transformation. Graduating with honors in Communications from the University of South Carolina...
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In this episode, I am sharing the message of manifestation combined with NLP. I am currently reading "Mind Magic" by Dr. James Doty, a neurosurgeon who explores the science behind manifesting and how our brains function. His insights have resonated with me, especially as he outlines a six-step process for manifesting anything you want. I share these steps through the Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) lens, hoping to provide a fresh perspective that might resonate with you. Bring your pen and paper. This is a packed episode. The six steps broken down in this episode are: 1. Reclaim...
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In this episode, I dive into the concept of our daily thoughts and how they shape the narrative of our lives. I start by sharing a striking statistic: we have between 60,000 and 80,000 thoughts daily, with 80% to 90% being repetitive and predominantly negative. This realization led me to a powerful metaphor: if we write a book in our minds daily, what kind of book are we writing? What is your "daily book" revealing about you? Are the thoughts uplifting and empowering, or do they serve to tear you down? What would someone learn about you if they read the book of their thoughts from that...
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We speak with Angel Investor, Advisor and Mentor Erika Aquino in this episode. Erika is an experienced angel investor, strategic advisor and world traveller. She is passionate about empowering startups that balance profit with purpose. Based in the Philippines but often travelling between Miami, Singapore, and other global hubs, Erika specializes in supporting early-stage ventures focused on sustainability, wellness, education, and the future of work. Her philanthropy and volunteer work include providing educational access to underprivileged children and supporting underserved entrepreneurs....
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In this episode, I share the transformative power of our thoughts and how they shape our lives. I start by sharing my experience of entering the year feeling slightly off and struggling to pinpoint the reasons behind my funk. It wasn't until I revisited a journaling practice that I began to uncover the layers of my thoughts and emotions. I emphasize the importance of allowing ourselves to express our thoughts freely without judgment or editing. This brain dump technique can lead to surprising revelations about our inner dialogue, often exposing feelings and beliefs we may not consciously...
info_outlineIn this episode, I want to share a few stories about holding the vision and how long you can hold the vision, no one can hold it for you, and no one can see it for you that it will make up for lack of belief in yourself. “Dreams have no limits. Only in our commitment to fulfilling our dreams, do we realize our potential” ~ unknown.
In this episode, we discuss:
1) The vision is for you because there is a future version of you who already has this vision, she is already holding it and already celebrating it, it is not an accident or a coincidence. You get to choose what you do with this vision. It is important to hold onto your vision so that you feel how you would feel in the present moment. What do you see, what do you hear, what do you feel when you have what you are holding the vision of? Hold the vision and trust the process
2) Your subconscious mind will always strive to keep you safe and with what is familiar, so if you are striving for something new, expansive, and outside of your comfort zone, then you have to believe that you are safe to have it. For example, holding a program with 2 people when you want 10.
3) Sharing the vision of my husband qualifying for the World’s Masters Weightlifting Championship in Finland in September, I have been holding this vision for months, not getting stuck in the how, and focusing on how will it feel, what will I see and hear when we are there. Every morning and night and sometimes multiple times a day. I have anchored it in and I can access that vision easily and effortlessly. Hold the vision and trust the process
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Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster
Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”. She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse that tore her family unit apart. Marsha has published 7xs, most recently with her co-platform, Every Body Holds A Story, and she is on a mission to continue to help women and men to speak, share, and publish their stories.
Through her tools, OUTSPOKEN NLP certification, programs, coaching, and podcast, Marsha teaches the power of Radical Responsibility and Owning Your Choices in your own life. She empowers people to heal and own their stories, be conscious leaders, and build platform businesses that create massive impact.