Ep. 226 - Navigating Different Energy Levels As Husband and Wife
Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
Release Date: 09/22/2025
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Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
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Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
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Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
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Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
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Ep 231 - Live Life Rich (in Tandem) with Marissa Nehlsen
Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
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Ep. 230 - The Myth of Hustle & Grind: Build a Legacy Without Burning Out
Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
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Ep. 229 - 5 Mistakes We’ve Made As Married Entrepreneurs
Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
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Ep. 228 - Is Tech Helping Or Hurting Your Business (and Marriage)?
Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
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Ep. 227 - Dealing With Changing Roles As Husband and Wife and Business Partners with Phil and Shae Bynes
Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
When roles shift at home and at work, even strong couples can feel the strain. In this episode, returning guests Shay and Phil Bynes (Kingdom Driven Entrepreneur) pull back the curtain on their four-year journey of transitioning Shay out of the CEO seat and Phil in—while raising three kids and continuing to lead a global movement. They share what changed, what didn’t, and how they protected connection through it all. You’ll hear how they navigated identity, authority, and expectations as spouses and co-leaders—without letting business tension become marital tension. From hearing...
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Ep. 226 - Navigating Different Energy Levels As Husband and Wife
Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
Get on the waitlist for a Thriving in Tandem event near you. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Every married entrepreneur knows the challenge of managing different energy levels—especially when one spouse is ready to go full throttle and the other needs to pace themselves. In this episode, Robert...
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Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/
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Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk
Every married entrepreneur knows the challenge of managing different energy levels—especially when one spouse is ready to go full throttle and the other needs to pace themselves. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee get real about how this dynamic plays out in their own relationship, from social events and vacations to business strategy sessions and conferences. They reflect on their early frustrations and how intentional communication helped them transform energy differences from a source of conflict into a strength.
They share practical tips for managing expectations, planning ahead, and respecting each other’s rhythms—whether you're attending a networking event, hosting a retreat, or simply planning your weekend. From code words to separate cars, from downtime gaps on vacation to avoiding heavy convos at bedtime, this episode offers insight into how married couples can honor each other's needs while still pursuing shared goals.
Plus, they announce new in-person events—like their upcoming wine pairing dinner, concerts in the park, and even a ski trip in 2026. If you’ve ever wished your spouse could just keep up (or slow down), this is the episode that will help you find peace, pace, and partnership.
Key Takeaways:
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Don’t assume your spouse should match your energy—discuss your needs and make a plan ahead of time.
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Rest isn’t always about sleep; it can also mean freedom from rigid schedules or overstimulation.
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Schedule important conversations when you’re both alert—avoid conflict-heavy talks late at night or during busy moments.
Protect the bedroom as a place of intimacy and peace, not stress or business talk. -
Even high-energy spouses benefit from margin; intentional rest improves clarity, focus, and connection.