Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs

Helping married entrepreneurs reach their business goals while living a better-balanced life with their spouse and family The biggest challenge for married entrepreneurs isn’t simply succeeding in business, it’s succeeding in all areas of life. This show will take you behind closed doors to share with you the real stories, conversations, and hard moments that happen in every married couple’s life, especially when it’s amplified by the stress of building a business. Join your hosts Robert and Kay Lee Fukui each week as they take you into the boardroom and bedroom where you will hear encouraging stories from married entrepreneurs thriving in tandem. Robert has over 25 years of working with Fortune 100 companies in marketing and sales before developing a consulting business to help privately held, family businesses become more profitable. Kay Lee grew up and worked in her family business and understands the power struggles that can bring. Together they spent two years in relationship counseling BEFORE they got married and have over 17 years of real-life marriage and business experience implementing what they've learned. Stay connected with them on Facebook and Instagram @thrivingintandem or visit them at https://www.marriedentrepreneur.co for some great resources for your marriage and business.

Ep. 246 - Blueprint For A Successful Marriage and Business 03/23/2026

Ep. 246 - Blueprint For A Successful Marriage and Business Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Everyone is searching for the secret formula to success—the one strategy that guarantees a thriving business and a fulfilling marriage. But just like building a house, lasting success doesn’t come from the finished product people admire. It comes from the detailed work that happens long before the final result is visible. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui break down the blueprint for thriving in both marriage and business, using a simple but powerful analogy: the foundation, the walls, and the roof. The foundation of any successful life and business begins with shared vision and values. Without clarity about how you want to live, where you want to go, and how your business fits into your life, couples often drift into unnecessary conflict and competing expectations. Robert and Kay Lee share real-life examples of how intentional vision conversations—about time, work boundaries, and lifestyle—help couples design businesses that support their lives rather than control them. From there, the blueprint moves to the walls, which represent the systems and boundaries that hold everything together. Communication, conflict resolution, and daily disciplines create structure so that work doesn’t overrun family life. Finally, the roof protects the relationship through connection, intimacy, celebration, and fun—the very reasons many entrepreneurs started their businesses in the first place. When couples intentionally build these three elements, they create a life where both marriage and business can truly thrive in tandem. 3 Fundamentals For A Blueprint To Success Start with the Foundation: Vision and Values Couples must regularly discuss what they want their life and business to look like—today and in the future—to avoid misaligned expectations. Design Your Business Around Your Life Just because an industry operates a certain way doesn’t mean you have to follow it. Successful entrepreneurs intentionally shape their business to fit their lifestyle. Walls Represent Systems and Boundaries Healthy communication, conflict resolution skills, and clear boundaries between work and home keep both marriage and business strong. Daily Disciplines Strengthen the Relationship Simple routines—morning connection, shared meals, prayer, or intentional conversations—help couples stay aligned even during busy seasons. The Roof Is Connection and Intimacy Fun, celebration, and meaningful time together protect and sustain the relationship over the long term Connection Requires Intentional Time Being busy together doesn’t mean you’re truly connecting. Couples must create moments to talk, encourage each other, and share their hearts. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/40501870

Ep. 245 - Daily Habits Of The Rich and Famous Like LeBron James, Tim Cook, & Sarah Blakely 03/16/2026

Ep. 245 - Daily Habits Of The Rich and Famous Like LeBron James, Tim Cook, & Sarah Blakely High performers don’t succeed because they’re rich and famous — they’re rich and famous because of their habits. In this episode, we unpack the daily disciplines of leaders like LeBron James, Sarah Blakely, and Tim Cook. While their industries differ, their patterns don’t. They prioritize sleep, movement, mental clarity, structured mornings, gratitude, and intentional family time. These aren’t luxury routines. They’re foundational disciplines that fuel long-term performance. What stood out most is that none of them separate professional success from personal well-being. LeBron protects his identity beyond basketball. Sarah Blakely reframes failure and prioritizes playful connection at home. Tim Cook guards his mornings and simplifies his life to protect focus. Their habits are not about hustle — they’re about alignment. They win the first hour of the day, rehearse mentally, recover intentionally, and protect their most important relationships. For married entrepreneurs, the lesson is clear: success without health or connection is hollow. You don’t have to sacrifice your marriage to scale your business. The same structure, boundaries, and intentionality that grow a company can strengthen your home. When your habits support both performance and relationships, you don’t just build wealth — you build fulfillment. That’s what it means to truly thrive in tandem. Key Takeaways Success is built on daily discipline, not income level Win the first hour of your day before the world wins it for you Sleep and recovery are performance multipliers, not weaknesses Daily movement protects long-term energy and mobility Mental rehearsal and journaling create clarity and reduce chaos Gratitude shifts focus from pressure to perspective Normalize failure to remove fear and increase growth Protect family boundaries — achievement and connection must coexist Identity should never be tied solely to your business Thriving in tandem means succeeding at work and at home simultaneously Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/40501660

Ep. 244 - 3 Common Reasons Business Struggle 03/09/2026

Ep. 244 - 3 Common Reasons Business Struggle In this episode of Thriving in Tandem™, Robert and Kay Lee unpack three of the most common reasons businesses struggle — drawn from their own entrepreneurial journey, client experience, and research from the U.S. Chamber of Commerce. If you’re a married entrepreneur feeling financial pressure or team tension, this conversation will hit home. 1. Cash Flow Problems (Not a Sales Problem) Contrary to popular belief, most struggling businesses don’t fail because of poor marketing or low sales. They fail because of cash flow mismanagement. The Chamber of Commerce research highlights: Cash flow issues Lack of capital Poor management Human capital challenges Notice what’s missing? Marketing and sales. Profit Doesn’t Equal Cash Many business owners rely solely on their Profit & Loss statement. The problem? Most P&Ls are set up on an accrual basis, meaning revenue is recorded when invoiced — not when cash hits your bank account. You might show: $100,000 in revenue $15,000 in profit But still feel broke. Why? Because: Clients haven’t paid yet (accounts receivable lag) You’re paying down loans or credit cards (liabilities don’t show on P&L) Merchant fees and interest are draining cash You’re behind on invoicing The Danger of “Let’s Just Increase Sales” Growing sales without fixing cash flow can actually accelerate failure. If: You must pay for materials upfront You don’t get paid until delivery You rely on lines of credit to float expenses Then doubling sales can double your cash stress. Before scaling, make sure your cash systems can sustain growth. Action Step: Review your P&L, cash flow statement, and balance sheet together — not in isolation. If this isn’t your strength, bring in a qualified financial advisor who understands small business cash flow, not just bookkeeping. 2. Lack of Capital (Often a Symptom, Not the Root Cause) Running out of money is usually the result of poor cash flow management. Many businesses don’t collapse because demand disappears. They collapse because: They underestimated startup costs They overspent during growth They relied too heavily on debt They didn’t manage receivables aggressively At the end of the day, businesses fail when they run out of cash — not necessarily customers. 3. Human Capital Challenges (Hiring, Training, Retention) The third major struggle? People. Common issues include: Difficulty finding quality team members High turnover Weak onboarding Lack of ongoing development Start with Smart Hiring Consider: Contract-to-hire models 90-day trial periods Clear role definitions and performance metrics This reduces risk and gives both sides time to evaluate fit. Training Is Not One-and-Done Initial onboarding isn’t enough. The first year is critical. Even experienced hires require: Clear expectations Regular feedback Continued development Intentional culture building Hiring and firing repeatedly is expensive — financially and emotionally. Investing in people development is not optional if you want sustainable growth. The Bigger Picture Most business struggles boil down to: Poor cash flow management Running out of capital Weak people systems And here’s the reality for married entrepreneurs: When business stress rises, it spills into your marriage. That’s why mastering financial systems and building a healthy team isn’t just about profit — it’s about protecting your home life. If this episode resonated with you, share it with another married entrepreneur who needs to hear it. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/40368660

Ep. 243 - The Real Story Behind Matt Damon’s The Informant: A Whistleblower, Prison, and a Marriage That Survived 03/02/2026

Ep. 243 - The Real Story Behind Matt Damon’s The Informant: A Whistleblower, Prison, and a Marriage That Survived Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Robert and Kay Lee sit down with Mark Whitacre and Ginger Whitacre, the real-life couple behind one of the largest whistleblower cases in U.S. history—famously portrayed in the film The Informant!. But this episode goes far beyond headlines and Hollywood. It’s a raw look at what happens to a marriage when secrecy, fear, ambition, and integrity collide—and how faith and perseverance can hold a family together when everything else falls apart. Ginger opens up about the hidden cost of Mark’s three years undercover with the FBI—years she carried alone, unable to ask for prayer or support, living daily with the fear that her husband might not come home. Even prison, she shares, was easier than the silence and isolation of those years. For married entrepreneurs, her story is a sobering reminder: success at any cost eventually sends the bill home. Yet it’s also a testimony to resilience, boundaries, and the power of shared purpose when life feels unmanageable. Mark reflects on his transformation—from a high-flying executive addicted to money, titles, and approval, to a man who redefined success as significance. Prison became the unlikely place where faith reshaped his identity, restored his marriage, and redirected his leadership. Today, he serves in marketplace ministry while working with Coca-Cola Consolidated, a company once directly impacted by the case. For couples building businesses together, this episode is a masterclass in integrity, redemption, and choosing what matters most—before the cost becomes too high. Key Takeaways for Married Entrepreneurs Success without integrity always charges interest. What looks like a “golden handcuff” can quietly imprison your marriage and values. You can’t neglect the marriage and expect it to survive the mission. Ginger’s role reminds us that teamwork and communication are non-negotiable. Redefine success early. Titles, money, and growth are empty if they cost connection, faith, and family. Hard seasons reveal true leadership. Mark’s shift from achievement to service saved both his marriage and his future impact. There is life—and purpose—after failure. Redemption is possible in business, marriage, and calling when humility leads the way. 👉 Resources: Grab the book Against All Odds, watch the documentary, and share this episode with another married business owner who needs the reminder: it’s not just about winning in business—it’s about thriving in tandem. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/40200410

Ep. 242 - How a Daughter’s Question Changed A CEO’s Life with Ford Taylor 02/23/2026

Ep. 242 - How a Daughter’s Question Changed A CEO’s Life with Ford Taylor Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui sit down with Ford Taylor, chairman of the U.S. Christian Chamber of Commerce board and founder of FSH Consulting Group. Ford shares his remarkable journey from scaling a struggling two-employee screen-printing shop into a $300M, 2,000-employee enterprise to ultimately redefining success when business growth came at the cost of his marriage, family, and personal well-being. His story is a sobering reminder that external success can hide internal brokenness—and that unchecked ambition often extracts a hidden toll at home. At the heart of the conversation is a defining moment every busy entrepreneur needs to hear. Ford recounts the night his six-year-old daughter asked him, through tears and ice cream, an innocent question that became the wake-up call that saved his life, redirected his priorities, and forced a courageous decision to realign business leadership with family leadership. Ford candidly opens up about insecurity, burnout, infidelity, and the hard road of rebuilding trust—offering hope to couples who feel trapped between providing financially and being emotionally present. The episode closes with practical wisdom for married entrepreneurs who want to win at work and at home. Ford outlines the guardrails he and his wife put in place—clear communication, shared decision-making around travel and opportunities, season-based priorities, and values-driven clarity. He introduces a simple but profound framework for balancing family, income, health, and community, reminding listeners that success is not about doing everything, but about intentionally choosing what matters most. This conversation is both a warning and an invitation: you don’t have to hit rock bottom to change course. Website: Podcast & Resources: Key Takeaways Success without alignment is dangerous: Business growth means little if it costs your marriage, health, or relationship with your children. Children often see what adults ignore: Honest feedback—even from a six-year-old—can reveal what success metrics miss. Clarity creates peace: Defining values, priorities, and boundaries before opportunities arise removes guilt, conflict, and indecision. Guardrails protect trust: Openly discussing travel, time, and commitments strengthens both marriage and business leadership. Seasons matter: There are times to lean into work and times to lean into family—agreement and communication make both possible. You don’t have to break to rebuild: Learn from others’ stories so change can happen proactively, not painfully. Bio Jerry “Ford” Taylor grew up in Paris, Texas before heading to Texas A&M, where he earned his BBA in Business Management—but his most unforgettable college credential wasn’t academic. Ford and his soon-to-be wife, Sandra, became campus favorites by teaching disco and country western dance to thousands of students, a 16-year run that revealed an early gift for equipping people with confidence and connection. After graduation, Ford stepped into retail management, unaware that the entrepreneurial chapter ahead would redefine his career. In 1982, Ford and Sandra purchased a struggling two-employee screen-printing shop, C.C. Creations, and transformed it into a powerhouse. Through acquisitions and growth, Ford eventually became CEO of Brazos Sportswear, a 2,000-employee, $300-million leader in screen printing and embroidery. His business impact earned him recognition as Texas Small Businessperson of the Year and a top-10 finalist nationally. In 1998, after decades of building and leading high-growth companies, Ford pivoted toward leadership consulting—first as a Senior VP at Great American Insurance, then as an ordained minister committed to helping leaders remove constraints and build healthier cultures. Today, Ford is the founder of FSH Consulting Group and Transformational Leadership, training organizations across the U.S. and around the world. He has delivered leadership development and conflict-resolution training in more than a dozen nations, authored the best-selling Relactional Leadership, co-wrote The Hike, and hosts the podcast Ford Taylor Talks. A sought-after speaker and board member—including Chairman of the Board for the U.S. Christian Chamber—Ford continues to blend business excellence with servant-leadership influence. He and Sandra, married since 1981, have three daughters and a grandson, and their legacy continues to ripple through every leader, team, and city they serve. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/40200155

Ep. 241 - How to Survive Major Life Transitions as a Married Entrepreneur 02/16/2026

Ep. 241 - How to Survive Major Life Transitions as a Married Entrepreneur Big life transitions—leaving a corporate career, launching a business, moving across the country, selling property, or even shifting seasons in marriage—can either strengthen your relationship or slowly fracture it. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee share candidly about their own journey—from a 25-year corporate career to entrepreneurship, and now a major move from California to the East Coast. They unpack the emotional tension that naturally arises when one spouse is more risk-tolerant and the other prioritizes security—and how those differences don’t have to divide you. For married entrepreneurs, transitions are rarely just “business decisions.” They affect income, lifestyle, identity, and the sense of safety at home. When risk, timing, and money are on the table, it’s easy to dig in your heels or rush forward out of fear or urgency. But thriving in tandem requires something deeper: unity. That means shifting from “my opinion vs. your opinion” to “what’s best for us?” It means slowing down when necessary, creating shared vision, and giving up the need to be right in order to protect the relationship. Through real-life examples—corporate exits, investment decisions, rental strategy pivots, and long-term relocation plans—Robert and Kay Lee reveal how patience, small steps, and clear communication can open doors to creative solutions you’d never see if you rushed. If you’re navigating a major transition right now, this conversation will help you move forward with confidence, clarity, and peace—together. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Key Takeaways 1. Two Become One—So Decide as One Transitions demand unity. If one spouse feels unheard or overridden, resentment will eventually surface. Major decisions must serve the marriage, not just the mission. 2. Start with Vision, Not Urgency When opportunity appears, it’s easier to agree when you’ve already discussed long-term vision. Vision reduces conflict and creates alignment before pressure hits. 3. Security vs. Risk Is a Marriage Dynamic Most couples have one higher risk-taker and one more security-driven spouse. Neither is wrong. Together, they create balance—if they listen to each other. 4. Slow Down to Gain Clarity High-pressure decisions often hide missing information. Patience reveals truth, protects finances, and reduces emotional fallout at home. 5. Take Baby Steps During Big Changes Trial periods, short-term commitments, and phased transitions lower anxiety and increase buy-in from both spouses. 6. Start with Points of Agreement In conflict, remind each other where you already agree. Often the disagreement is smaller than it feels. 7. Let Go of the Need to Be Right Ego creates division. The goal isn’t winning the argument—it’s making the best decision for the marriage and the business. 8. Patience Creates Options Rushed transitions limit choices. Thoughtful transitions often create new opportunities and financial advantages. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/40138025

Ep. 240 - Sex, Intimacy & Marriage: How Entrepreneur Couples Rebuild Connection Without Burning Out with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo 02/09/2026

Ep. 240 - Sex, Intimacy & Marriage: How Entrepreneur Couples Rebuild Connection Without Burning Out with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo In this candid and timely conversation, Robert and Kay Lee sit down with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo, co-hosts of the top-ranked One Extraordinary Marriage Show, to tackle a topic many couples think about—but few openly discuss: sex, intimacy, and connection in marriage. Drawing from nearly 30 years of marriage and over a decade of coaching couples worldwide, Tony and Alisa reframe intimacy as far more than a physical act. At its core, intimacy is about closeness, safety, and emotional connection—and when those are missing, sex often becomes the symptom, not the root issue. The conversation explores the “chicken and egg” tension many couples face: one spouse needs emotional intimacy before sex, while the other needs sex to feel emotionally connected. Rather than choosing sides, Tony and Alisa explain why both emotional and sexual intimacy must be strengthened together, a concept they outline in their best-selling book The Six Pillars of Intimacy. For entrepreneurial couples—especially those who work together—this dynamic can be further complicated by stress, blurred boundaries, exhaustion, and over-familiarity. The result? Desire fades, communication stalls, and intimacy becomes an afterthought. Throughout the episode, listeners receive practical, judgment-free strategies to rebuild connection: how to talk about sex without pressure or shame, why those conversations should not happen in the bedroom, and how tools like shared calendars, intentional planning, and even a “vision” for sexual intimacy can transform a marriage. From breaking taboos and starting small conversations to reigniting anticipation and creativity, this episode offers married entrepreneurs a refreshing, hopeful path toward deeper connection—without adding more strain to already full lives. Website: Instagram: [FREE] 6 Pillars Of Intimacy: Intimacy Mastery: Key Takeaways Intimacy ≠ sex alone: True intimacy is closeness and connection; sex thrives when emotional safety is present. It’s not either/or: Emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy reinforce each other—and both must be nurtured. Normalize the conversation: Talking about sex is emotional intimacy and removes unnecessary tension and assumptions. Change the environment: Don’t discuss sex in the bedroom—protect it as a sacred, pressure-free space. Start small: Short, low-pressure conversations build confidence and momentum over time. Entrepreneurial marriages need structure: Clear roles, shared calendars, and intentional boundaries reduce friction that kills desire. Anticipation matters: Surprise, creativity, and intentional planning reignite excitement—just like in business. Enhancement, not replacement: Tools and toys can support connection when used together, intentionally, and without shame. Vision creates momentum: Couples who plan and prioritize intimacy are far more likely to experience growth, not drift. Bio As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best-selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/40051385

Ep. 239 - This Kills Profits 02/03/2026

Ep. 239 - This Kills Profits Take the Profit Booster Assessment and improve your bottom line Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. The Fastest Way to Increase Profit (Without More Sales) In this episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui tackle one of the most misunderstood—and most powerful—levers in business: profitability. Many business owners assume the only way to improve the bottom line is to sell more, but this conversation flips that belief on its head. Drawing from real client stories, they reveal how growing revenue can actually shrink profits when pricing and expenses aren’t managed intentionally. The heart of the episode centers on pricing—specifically why most entrepreneurs underprice their products and services. Robert walks through the most common pricing mistakes (cost-plus pricing, competitor-based pricing, and penetration pricing) and explains why none of them account for true value. Using everyday examples and a powerful auction story, they unpack the psychology of pricing and show how price communicates value, trust, and credibility to your customers. Finally, they connect profitability to what matters most at home. When margins are thin, stress goes up, hours increase, and marriage pays the price. Healthy profit margins create margin in life—allowing business owners to reinvest, reclaim time, and reduce pressure on the family. The episode ends with a simple, practical assignment to calculate whether your business is hitting the 15% net profit benchmark—and how small pricing adjustments can create immediate relief. Key Takeaways More sales don’t guarantee more profit Revenue can increase while profit margins shrink if pricing and expenses aren’t managed intentionally. Your price sends a psychological signal Pricing communicates value and credibility. Underpricing often creates skepticism—not loyalty. The most common pricing strategies are flawed Cost-plus, competitor-based, and penetration pricing ignore the true value you deliver. 15% net profit is the minimum target After paying yourself and all expenses, your business should retain at least 15% of revenue as net profit. Raising prices is the fastest way to grow profit Price increases go straight to the bottom line without adding marketing costs, staff, or hours. Underpricing creates stress at home Thin margins force longer hours and constant hustle—stealing time, energy, and peace from your marriage. Small price increases can have massive impact A 5–10% average price increase can be enough to restore healthy margins. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39972755

Ep. 238 - Working With Your Spouse Without Competing with Jason and Elizabeth Settle 12/15/2025

Ep. 238 - Working With Your Spouse Without Competing with Jason and Elizabeth Settle Links Biblical Counseling - Freedom Coaching - Free Gift: What happens when two strong leaders try to work side-by-side—inside marriage and business? In this candid and refreshingly honest conversation, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui sit down with Jason and Elizabeth Settle, co-founders of ., to unpack what it really takes for married couples to collaborate without competing. From early power struggles and identity clashes to learning how to celebrate each other’s strengths, this episode speaks directly to high-achieving couples who want to win together, not against each other. Jason and Elizabeth share their personal journey of moving from competition to partnership, highlighting how identity, self-esteem, and misplaced priorities can quietly sabotage both marriage and work. They explore why so many driven couples wrestle with power struggles, how healing individual identity creates a healthier “we,” and why trying to change your spouse rarely works. Their insights offer hope to couples who have tried—and failed—to work together before. The conversation also dives into a topic many entrepreneurs neglect: fun. From separating business meetings from date nights to understanding how joy, laughter, and emotional safety directly impact performance, creativity, and connection, this episode delivers practical wisdom you can apply immediately. If you’re building a business while protecting your marriage, this episode will challenge how you think about identity, productivity, and the role of joy in thriving—together. Key Takeaways Power struggles are often identity struggles. Healthy collaboration starts when each spouse is secure in who they are—strong “me’s” create a strong “we.” Competition kills partnership. Learning to celebrate each other’s strengths instead of resenting them transforms both marriage and work. Your spouse is not your project. Real growth begins when you stop trying to change your partner and focus on personal responsibility and self-control. Work can’t replace relationship. When affirmation, validation, or joy come solely from work, marriage inevitably suffers. Fun is not optional—it’s strategic. Laughter, joy, and shared experiences build emotional connection, reduce pressure, and improve performance. Separate business from romance. Dedicated business meetings and protected date nights help couples stay connected without blurring boundaries. Joy fuels resilience. In seasons of uncertainty or financial pressure, intentionally choosing fun helps couples stay emotionally connected and grounded. Love rejoices in truth. Focusing on what’s right about your spouse—not keeping score—puts wind in your sails as a couple. Bio Jason Settle Jason is a highly respected educator, counselor, and consultant, recognized for his profound influence and dedication to empowering others. With a rich and diverse background in education and counseling, Jason delivers actionable guidance and strategic insights that enable individuals and organizations to achieve their full potential. A dynamic leader and compelling communicator, Jason believes that true success begins with a person’s self-perception. His approach, shaped by his studies in Dr. John Townsend’s Organizational Leadership Master’s program at Concordia University, emphasizes personal growth, self-awareness, and transformative leadership. Jason fosters an environment of innovation and continuous improvement, inspiring those he works with to push beyond their limits and discover new possibilities. As a leader and Biblical counselor, Jason excels in both group and individual settings, offering powerful coaching that promotes freedom and personal development. His expertise enables clients to make meaningful changes in their daily lives and positively influence those around them. Whether in the classroom, one-on-one counseling, or consulting roles, Jason remains committed to making a lasting impact. His unwavering support, paired with his wealth of experience, ensures that those he serves are equipped with the tools and confidence needed to thrive. Elizabeth Settle Elizabeth Settle is a dynamic speaker, dedicated community builder, pastor, and freedom counselor with a passion for helping individuals and communities embrace their true identity and live in freedom. With a heart for guiding others to hear God's voice and experience personal transformation, she blends practical wisdom with deep spiritual insight. As a pastor, she nurtures vibrant, faith-filled communities, and as a freedom counselor, she walks alongside those seeking healing and wholeness. As a multilingual educator and writer, Elizabeth has developed content in both English and Spanish, reaching wide audiences and contributing to organizations like Gateway Publishing, Docent Research Group, and Prestonwood Curriculums. Whether writing resources, speaking to large audiences, or working one-on-one, Elizabeth is committed to empowering others to thrive in their purpose and live authentically. She holds a Master’s Degree in Educational Administration from Texas State University and is recognized for her strategic thinking, emotional intelligence, and collaborative leadership. Elizabeth is currently serving as a Pastor of Christian Education and Discipleship at Gateway Church. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39972630

Ep. 237 - Legacy Starts Early: Money, Mindset & Meaning with Teen Founder Keira Chang 12/09/2025

Ep. 237 - Legacy Starts Early: Money, Mindset & Meaning with Teen Founder Keira Chang In this powerful episode, Robert and Kay Lee sit down with 17-year-old entrepreneur and leukemia survivor Keira Chang, founder of Heroko Shop and author of The Second Race: The Turtle and the Puppy, A Story About Money. Diagnosed with leukemia the week before her 13th birthday, Keira spent years in treatment and isolation—but emerged with a renewed appreciation for life, community, and the importance of using your gifts to help others. Her story is raw, inspiring, and a needed reset for entrepreneurs who get caught up in the grind. Keira shares how Heroko Shop was born at the end of her treatment as a way to give back to the pediatric cancer community that supported her. Designed for Gen Z, by Gen Z, her brand sells fun accessories while raising awareness and support for kids battling cancer. With guidance from mentors (including Robert and Kay Lee) through a local youth entrepreneur program, she transformed a simple idea into a profitable, impact-driven business—learning how to test, adapt, and lead a team along the way. She also unpacks the heart behind her children’s book on saving and money, and why financial literacy needs to start younger—especially in a world of rising debt and easy spending. For married entrepreneurs, Keira’s perspective is a refreshing reminder: your business is a tool, not just for income, but for impact; your support system matters; and your influence on the next generation—whether through parenting, mentoring, or leading by example—can shape how they view hardship, money, generosity, and purpose. Links Store: Book: The Second Race: The turtle and the puppy: A story about money IG: @keiragsbook IG: @herokoshop Key Takeaways How a life-threatening diagnosis at 12 reshaped Keira’s gratitude, priorities, and view of what truly matters. The origin of Heroko Shop and how a teen founder built a brand with a cause: Gen Z designs that support kids with cancer. Why support systems—family, friends, community, medical staff—are crucial, and how that parallels the importance of strong marriage and partnership in entrepreneurship. The inspiration behind The Second Race: The Turtle and the Puppy and why teaching kids about saving and stewardship early is so important. Practical lessons married entrepreneurs can draw from Keira’s story: simplifying what you stress about, aligning your business with impact, and remembering that people always matter more than pressure and profit. A vision for legacy: how mentoring and modeling healthy leadership today can empower the next generation of values-driven entrepreneurs. Biography: Keira Chang is a 17-year-old high school student, cancer survivor, entrepreneur, and author. After being diagnosed with leukemia at 13, she was inspired to give back and founded Heroko Shop, a clothing and accessories brand that donates all profits to childhood cancer organizations. This year, she became a published author with her children's book on financial literacy, which she used to launch a campaign donating around 250 books to schools, libraries, hospitals, and community centers, hosting reading sessions and workshops to teach kids about saving. She also helped found her school's chapter of Therapicasso, a nonprofit that uses art to help kids process emotions and manage mental health. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39627645

Ep. 236 - Reviewing Entrepreneurial Success and Failures 12/02/2025

Ep. 236 - Reviewing Entrepreneurial Success and Failures Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. As the year winds down (or whenever you’re listening), Robert and Kay Lee invite married entrepreneurs to pause and audit what’s working—and what’s quietly piling onto your calendar “just because.” The danger isn’t always failure… it’s drift. When you never stop to evaluate, your schedule fills up, your energy gets spent on habits instead of priorities, and both marriage and business can slowly erode under nonstop momentum. They walk through a powerful set of reflection questions designed to help you celebrate progress (not just critique problems), gain clarity on your goals, and make smarter decisions with your time. Kay Lee shares personal growth around emotional triggers and learning not to take everything personally—especially in family relationships. Robert opens up about loosening perfectionism, taking more chances, and using “small steps” to reduce overwhelm—like their decision to test a possible move to Lake Norman one step at a time instead of forcing a massive all-or-nothing decision. The episode also highlights practical business lessons like testing demand safely (hello, waitlists) and learning to ask for what you want—whether it’s closing a deal, requesting introductions, or opening doors through relationships. They wrap with meaningful experiences from the past 90 days: building local community through fun gatherings for married business owners, and serving local businesses impacted by the devastating Southern California fires—offering clarity, encouragement, and simple marketing direction when life feels foggy. Key Takeaways If you don’t audit your life, your calendar will audit you. Reflection helps you remove what’s no longer serving you—before “busy” becomes your default. Celebrate small wins, not just big milestones. Most entrepreneurs can spot failures instantly—this episode helps you build balance and sanity by naming what’s working. Small steps reduce big fear. Especially for perfectionists, progress comes easier when you create a “safe” next step instead of trying to solve everything at once. Test demand before you invest. A waitlist is a simple way to validate interest before you commit time, money, or a big launch. Ask for what you want. Whether in business, relationships, or networking—doors open faster when you stop hoping and start asking. Community is a strategy, not a luxury. Fun, face-to-face connection isn’t optional for thriving—it’s fuel for married entrepreneurs. Encouragement is leadership. When people are overwhelmed or recovering from loss, clarity + reassurance can be the most meaningful “next step.” Reflection Questions for Married Entrepreneurs (for you and your spouse): How have I grown as a person over the past three years? What are the biggest things that I’ve learned in the past 12 months? What are 10 important things I’ve accomplished in the past 12 months? What meaningful experiences have I had in the past 90 days? How am I clearer on my goals and vision than I was 90 days ago? In what ways is my life different and better than 30 days ago? What important progress have I made in the past seven days? What progress have I made in the past 24 hours? /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39627450

Ep. 235 - Inconvenient Entrepreneurs: How Not To Start A Business with Robbie and Nicole Harper 11/25/2025

Ep. 235 - Inconvenient Entrepreneurs: How Not To Start A Business with Robbie and Nicole Harper Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. What happens when a career shake-up, a calling to entrepreneurship, and a surprise pregnancy all collide at once? In this episode, Robert sits down with Robbie and Nicole Harper—co-founders of Blue Ridge PR—to talk about what it really looks like to build a business while protecting your marriage and family. Robbie shares how leaving an unhealthy work situation became the catalyst for launching their PR firm, while Nicole reflects on the early season of keeping the “home fires burning” so the business could get off the ground. You’ll hear how they navigated financial uncertainty, parenting stress, and the emotional ups and downs that come with entrepreneurship—especially when one spouse processes internally and the other needs to talk it out. Their secret? Honest communication, giving each other space to process, and learning how to “carry the baton” when the other spouse is spiraling. They even share practical tools they use in real life (including one surprising app that helps them process emotions and stay connected). The Harpers also unpack what it takes to protect your relationship long-term—especially as kids grow up and empty nest seasons approach. From beach walks and “broke date nights” to ice cream runs and dog walks, they remind us that connection doesn’t require a big budget—just intentionality. If you’re a married entrepreneur trying to build something meaningful without losing each other in the process, this conversation will feel like a deep breath and a roadmap. Key Takeaways Don’t let life stack up without a pause. Regularly audit what’s working and what’s adding unnecessary stress. Start-up seasons are intense—support is everything. A spouse being genuinely “on board” can be the difference between breaking and building. Communication is the real safety net. When money is tight or clients are slow to pay, staying connected keeps fear from taking over. Only one meltdown at a time is a win. Learn how to stabilize each other when one spouse is spiraling. Give each other space to process differently. Some need silence and a walk; others need to talk it out to find clarity. Connection doesn’t need to be fancy. Ice cream runs, dog walks, beach subs—small moments can be the most impactful. Protect the marriage before the empty nest arrives. Keep investing now so you don’t wake up later wondering, “Who are you?” Intertwined lives require extra intentionality. When work, church, and family overlap, boundaries and check-ins matter even more. Bio: Robbie Harper, MBA, and Nicole Harper are the co-founders of Blue Bridge PR, a public relations firm focused on building reputation for faith-driven and values-based organizations. Robbie serves on the boards of both the U.S. Christian Chamber of Commerce and the Central Florida Christian Chamber of Commerce. Nicole is also the Children’s Minister at Stetson Baptist Church. They live in DeLand, Florida, with their three children. Connect with them at . /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39586335

Ep. 234 - Five Hidden Business Growth Traps Costing You Time and Money 11/18/2025

Ep. 234 - Five Hidden Business Growth Traps Costing You Time and Money Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. FREE Marriage and Business Assessment Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. As married entrepreneurs, it’s easy to fall into traps that seem harmless but quietly eat away at your profits, your time, and even your marriage. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee uncover five hidden growth traps that keep business owners stuck working harder instead of smarter. These aren’t your typical sales or marketing issues—they’re deeper mindset and leadership challenges that directly impact your ability to scale while still having time and energy for your spouse and family. From chasing sales without focusing on profit margins, to micromanaging instead of delegating, to ignoring outside counsel (including your spouse’s wisdom!), these traps are more common than you might think. You’ll also hear how holding onto “sacred cows” or letting the words “I can’t” dominate your thinking can prevent you from making necessary changes that create both freedom and financial stability. With practical stories and client examples, Robert and Kay Lee show how to shift your mindset and avoid sabotaging your own growth. This episode is about more than building a bigger business—it’s about building a healthier business and marriage at the same time. When you stop focusing on the wrong things and start creating systems, margins, and open communication, you’ll reclaim time, reduce stress, and grow profitably in tandem. Key Takeaways: Sales don’t guarantee profits—healthy margins do. Micromanaging drains your energy and limits your team’s potential. Every entrepreneur needs trusted outside counsel (yes, even your spouse). Holding onto “sacred cows” keeps you stuck in outdated practices. Saying “I can’t” closes the door on innovation and healthy growth. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39586290

Ep. 233 - How To Make Risky Moves In Business and Marriage with Susan Schramm 11/11/2025

Ep. 233 - How To Make Risky Moves In Business and Marriage with Susan Schramm When big ideas stall, it’s rarely because the idea is bad—it’s because people get stuck. In this week’s conversation, we welcome strategist and author Susan Schramm (chair of Nehemiah Project; founder of Go To Market Impact) to unpack how married entrepreneurs can de-risk decisions at work and at home—without killing momentum or connection. Susan introduces her De-Risk System for Impact, a simple, people-first way to move initiatives forward: clarify why and why now, name who must take action, surface assumptions, and explore both upside and downside risk—including the risk of inaction. She also shares a practical rhythm couples can use to align different risk profiles (hello, “shoot first” spouse vs. “think it through” spouse), reduce anxiety, and keep communication open. From cross-country moves and career shifts to launching products and leading teams, you’ll hear scripts, questions, and exercises you can use tonight—like pre-mortems, writing decisions down, and even trying on “Disney roles” (visionary, operator, financier) together—so you protect your marriage, accelerate results, and avoid costly detours. Get the book - Fast Track Your Big Idea: Navigate risk, move people to action, and avoid your strategy going off course or Linkedin: Key Takeaways Risk has two dimensions: awareness of risk and willingness to engage. Know where each spouse sits. Always ask “Why now?” Great ideas can be right—but at the wrong time. Map four quadrants: upside of acting, downside of acting, upside of not acting, downside (risk) of not acting. Inaction carries its own costs. Make assumptions visible. Write down what you’re presuming about time, travel, money, family, and capacity. Revisit when reality changes. Use pre-mortems. Before launching, imagine what could go wrong (or right too fast) and plan responses—without making it personal. Try role-switching. Together evaluate ideas as the visionary (experience), operator (execution), and financier (resources). Document decisions. Capture reasoning so you can learn, adapt, and avoid blame when conditions shift. Practice on small stuff. Use the system for everyday choices (schedules, purchases, projects) so you’re ready for high-stakes moves. Bio Susan Schramm is on a mission to help people turn big ideas into reality. Whether in a boardroom or a coffee shop, Susan finds joy in equipping and encouraging people to overcome obstacles and move forward. After decades of working with Fortune 500 companies and nonprofits launching new products and programs, new partnerships, and new companies, Susan founded her firm, Go to Market Impact. She aims to help leaders of organizations of all sizes achieve results faster when driving high-stakes strategies. Susan developed the De-RiskSystemforImpact® to encourage leaders to openly discuss risk and plan for the people side of strategy, which is often ignored. She brings energy, experience, and practical insights that inspire a fresh perspective. Susan revels in exploring the world around her and has proudly conquered one of her bucket list goals: visiting all 50 states in the US. She is fueled by her faith, her family, and a bottomless cup of coffee. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39584280

Ep. 232 - Cracker Barrel (Marketing) Mistakes To Avoid 11/05/2025

Ep. 232 - Cracker Barrel (Marketing) Mistakes To Avoid Cracker Barrel’s attempted rebrand lit up the internet—but the logo was only the tip of the iceberg. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee unpack what really happened: rapid, sweeping changes to brand visuals, menu staples, and in-store experience that left loyal customers feeling ignored. Robert draws on his Coca-Cola days to connect the dots to “New Coke” and other big-brand missteps. The lesson for married entrepreneurs? Expansion is great—if you bring your core with you. We talk about how to modernize without losing the soul of your brand, why you must weight research toward your existing buyers, and how “nostalgia” (surprise!) still wins with younger audiences. Translation: keep what people love, then pilot the new. You’ll also hear practical ways to pressure-test change as a couple-led team—from founder interviews and customer listening to limited market tests—so you protect profits, avoid avoidable conflict at home, and buy back time you’d otherwise spend doing cleanup. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Key Takeaways Protect the core: modernize, don’t amputate. Weight research to loyal customers before chasing new segments. Give choices (keep the classics while piloting new offers). Test small (limited locations/segments) before rolling out big. Honor the brand story—talk to founders/OG customers early. Nostalgia sells (even with Gen Z); don’t discard it. Measure reality, not vibes: let sales, retention, and sentiment data lead. As spouses in business, align on “non-negotiables” first to prevent conflict later. Expand the market by adding rings around the core, not replacing it. Listen continuously—surveys, DMs, and event feedback are your free focus groups. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39333635

Ep 231 - Live Life Rich (in Tandem) with Marissa Nehlsen 10/29/2025

Ep 231 - Live Life Rich (in Tandem) with Marissa Nehlsen Live Life Rich Book Website: Instagram: @marissanehlsen Facebook: Twitter:@MarissaNehlsen LinkedIn: Eight-figure founder and wealth strategist Marissa Nehlsen returns to share how married entrepreneurs can build real wealth and protect what matters most at home. From her North Dakota roots to stewarding multiple Costa Rica retreat properties, Marissa unpacks the mindset shifts that moved her from hustle to harmony—where profit funds purpose, family, and freedom. She reveals why “keeping moving” doesn’t mean doing more; it means making better, braver decisions with crystal-clear purpose. We dive into Marissa’s practical frameworks: the What if / What for / What’s next lens for vision, her five-question execution filter (Why, What, Who, How, When), and the habit of “giving every dollar a job.” She challenges us to know our numbers, clean out calendar and business clutter, and decide what we’re truly trading our lives for. You’ll also hear simple rhythms she and her family practice—daily walks, weekly dinners, faith time—that keep connection strong while companies scale. Finally, Marissa breaks down her Freedom Plan—three anchors every owner needs to plot their way to time and money freedom: your Freedom Number, Freedom Date, and Freedom Sources. If you’re grinding 65-hour weeks to “provide,” this episode will help you re-align goals with your spouse, multiply what matters, and design a rich life emotionally, relationally, spiritually, physically, and financially. Want to experience this work in real time? Join our retreat waitlist to be first in line when we announce dates. Key Takeaways Vision before velocity: Ask What if? What for? What’s next? so your growth serves your marriage, not steals from it. Five-question filter for everything: Why, What, Who, How, When—use it to build self-managing companies and a calmer home. Declutter to scale: The right things can’t enter a space the wrong things occupy—edit offers, meetings, and even great-but-misaligned commitments. Know your numbers: Profit follows clarity. Track what actually moves the needle and assign every dollar a job. Build your Freedom Plan: Define your Freedom Number (what you need), Freedom Date (by when), and Freedom Sources (how it’s funded). Trade-offs on purpose: Decide what you’re willing to trade your life for—and confirm what your spouse actually wants (hint: it’s often you, not stuff). Rituals that protect connection: Simple daily walks and weekly family meals create the margin for honest conversations and faster conflict resolution. Choose your circle wisely: You become like the five people closest to you—prioritize couples who are growing in both marriage and business. Read for ROI: Open a book’s table of contents and jump to the chapter that solves today’s problem—then apply it. Marissa Nehlsen Bio Marissa Nehlsen is the founder and CEO of an eight-figure, debt- free financial firm, managing over $1 billion in assets across forty- six states. Marissa’s journey began on a North Dakota farm where she learned the value of hard work and resilience. For the past thirty years, she has founded five self-managing companies and coached thousands of entrepreneurs, helping them make money their best employee. Marissa is the author of the NEW book “Live Life Rich” and a dynamic keynote speaker, using her special blend of practical, tactical, and Intentional 30+ years of experience to help people move forward from where they are to where they want to be. Beyond business, Marissa is a global impact leader. She Cofounded The Foundation of Latin America, which mobilizes entrepreneurship with the purpose of eliminating poverty through the building of sewing schools for women in Costa Rica, developing sustainable energy projects, forestry, and organic farms. A mother, grandmother, and visionary leader, Marissa lives in St. Petersburg, Florida, raising her family while continuing to inspire, educate, and lead. Marissa is most excited about the launch of her healing and retreat center on her mountain in Costa Rica, set to open January 2026. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39333600

Ep. 230 - The Myth of Hustle & Grind: Build a Legacy Without Burning Out 10/22/2025

Ep. 230 - The Myth of Hustle & Grind: Build a Legacy Without Burning Out After a jam-packed few weeks onboarding clients and juggling a major project, Robert & Kay Lee get real about a message every married entrepreneur needs to hear: “Hustle now, rest later” is a myth that steals joy, strains marriages, and sabotages long-term business value. In this candid conversation, they unpack why constant grind doesn’t equal greater achievement—and how to build a business that grows and lets you enjoy life with your spouse now, not “someday.” You’ll hear how choosing family over finance actually creates a stronger company: better culture, lower turnover, healthier leadership, and a business people would want to buy or inherit. They share practical first steps to break the cycle—like taking intentional time off (even half-days), setting clear boundaries between work and home, and building trust in your team so the business can run without you. The goal? A sellable, scalable, legacy business that supports your marriage rather than competing with it. If you’ve ever thought, “I’ll rest when I’m dead,” this episode is your gentle (but firm) reset. Learn how to pace your ambition, protect your relationship, and design systems and team capacity that free your time. You can grow profits and deepen connection—without grinding yourself or your marriage into the ground. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Key Takeaways Hustle ≠ Happiness: Achievement alone won’t deliver lasting joy; healthy relationships and rhythms do. Family Over Finance: Prioritizing marriage and home life strengthens culture, performance, and retention. Design for Exit (or Freedom): Build a business that runs and grows without you—making it sellable, transferable, and actually attractive to the next owner or your kids. Start Small, Start Now: If a full day off feels impossible, begin with a half-day or device-free evening; build the “time-off muscle.” Boundaries Create Balance: Define when business ends and family begins so work doesn’t invade every conversation and moment. Delegate & Trust: Train (or replace) where needed so you can disconnect without fear—the house won’t burn down. Burnout Hits Early: Even under-40 owners are burning out; prevention beats recovery every time. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39333530

Ep. 229 - 5 Mistakes We’ve Made As Married Entrepreneurs 10/14/2025

Ep. 229 - 5 Mistakes We’ve Made As Married Entrepreneurs Every married entrepreneur knows mistakes come with the territory—but they don’t have to derail your marriage or business. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee pull back the curtain on the top five mistakes they’ve made as married entrepreneurs—and the lessons learned along the way. From overlooking the “Chief Feelings Officer” to chasing shiny objects, they share candid stories that cost them time, money, and peace (sometimes six figures!). You’ll hear how “hiring for convenience” created unnecessary conflict, why building real friendships beats pouring money into funnels, and how perfectionism in business slows down growth. Each mistake is paired with a practical takeaway that will save you frustration and keep your marriage strong while your business thrives. Whether you’re just starting out or have been building for years, you’ll find yourself nodding along and probably laughing at the similarities to your own journey. Tune in to laugh, learn, and avoid these common pitfalls so you and your spouse can grow your business and your marriage in tandem. These are hard-won lessons you don’t need to repeat—so you can build smarter, stronger, and with more joy together. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Find out how well you’re building a balanced life and take the Marriage and Business Assessment (MBA) Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Key Takeaways: Always listen to your CFO—Chief Feelings Officer. Ignoring your spouse’s intuition can cost more than you think. Don’t fall for Shiny Object Syndrome—invest in tools and strategies that truly fit your business stage. Never hire for convenience. Assign roles based on strengths, not just availability. Focus on friendships over funnels—real relationships create stronger, lasting growth. Stop trying to build the “perfect” lead magnet. Launch imperfectly, learn quickly, and improve along the way. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/39116975

Ep. 228 - Is Tech Helping Or Hurting Your Business (and Marriage)? 10/07/2025

Ep. 227 - Dealing With Changing Roles As Husband and Wife and Business Partners with Phil and Shae Bynes 09/29/2025

Ep. 227 - Dealing With Changing Roles As Husband and Wife and Business Partners with Phil and Shae Bynes When roles shift at home and at work, even strong couples can feel the strain. In this episode, returning guests Shay and Phil Bynes (Kingdom Driven Entrepreneur) pull back the curtain on their four-year journey of transitioning Shay out of the CEO seat and Phil in—while raising three kids and continuing to lead a global movement. They share what changed, what didn’t, and how they protected connection through it all. You’ll hear how they navigated identity, authority, and expectations as spouses and co-leaders—without letting business tension become marital tension. From hearing God’s nudge to act, to wrestling with control, to defining new decision rights, Phil and Shay explain the practical guardrails (and plenty of grace) that made the handoff work. We also get tactical about staying close during busy seasons: weekly “marriage board meetings,” spontaneous micro-check-ins, and simple, intentional fun that doesn’t require a plane ticket. If you’re a married entrepreneur aiming to grow your business without shrinking your marriage, this conversation is a masterclass in change done together. 12 Powerful Questions to Connect You with God's Heart & Mind in Business: Free Chapter of Shae's Book, Grace Under Pressure: A Story About Leadership and the Hidden Cost of Ambition Grace over Grind Key Takeaways: Transitions need clarity: Decide who owns which decisions now (vision, people, money, operations) and write it down. Step back—then calibrate: Founders often swing too far away after a handoff; expect to iterate until the advisor/CEO rhythm fits. Protect a weekly marriage meeting: Same time, same day, non-negotiable. Use ground rules so issues get resolved before they fester. Honor design differences: Lead styles will differ by God’s design; resist the urge to “correct” your spouse into your style. Let things “sputter” (strategically): Maturity sometimes requires leaders to stop rescuing, so teams learn to think and own outcomes. Friendship fuels connection: Micro-moments (10-minute check-ins, pausing a show to talk) keep intimacy alive during busy stretches. Serve first leadership: Out-serving one another at home creates safety and teamwork that shows up in the business. Plan fun on purpose: Comedy nights, simple dates, and kid-care logistics belong on the calendar like any key meeting. Phil Bynes is CEO of Kingdom Driven Entrepreneur, a global movement equipping entrepreneurs to partner with God in business and create greater Kingdom impact in the marketplace. He is also the owner and lead therapist at Crazy Good Massage, where he has served clients with excellence for over 20 years. Shae Bynes, affectionately known as the Chief Fire Igniter, equips leaders to build grace-empowered cultures where people and results flourish. She has impacted over one million people worldwide through her books, courses, podcasts, and speaking. In her executive advising work, she brings a unique blend of strategic clarity, spiritual intelligence, and transformational insight. High school sweethearts since age 16, Phil and Shae have been married for 26 years and are the proud parents of three daughters. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/38407520

Ep. 226 - Navigating Different Energy Levels As Husband and Wife 09/22/2025

Ep. 226 - Navigating Different Energy Levels As Husband and Wife Get on the waitlist for a Thriving in Tandem event near you. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Every married entrepreneur knows the challenge of managing different energy levels—especially when one spouse is ready to go full throttle and the other needs to pace themselves. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee get real about how this dynamic plays out in their own relationship, from social events and vacations to business strategy sessions and conferences. They reflect on their early frustrations and how intentional communication helped them transform energy differences from a source of conflict into a strength. They share practical tips for managing expectations, planning ahead, and respecting each other’s rhythms—whether you're attending a networking event, hosting a retreat, or simply planning your weekend. From code words to separate cars, from downtime gaps on vacation to avoiding heavy convos at bedtime, this episode offers insight into how married couples can honor each other's needs while still pursuing shared goals. Plus, they announce new in-person events—like their upcoming wine pairing dinner, concerts in the park, and even a ski trip in 2026. If you’ve ever wished your spouse could just keep up (or slow down), this is the episode that will help you find peace, pace, and partnership. Key Takeaways: Don’t assume your spouse should match your energy—discuss your needs and make a plan ahead of time. Rest isn’t always about sleep; it can also mean freedom from rigid schedules or overstimulation. Schedule important conversations when you’re both alert—avoid conflict-heavy talks late at night or during busy moments. Protect the bedroom as a place of intimacy and peace, not stress or business talk. Even high-energy spouses benefit from margin; intentional rest improves clarity, focus, and connection. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/38407635

Ep. 225 - Bring Back The Fun in Marriage and Business 09/15/2025

Ep. 225 - Bring Back The Fun in Marriage and Business When was the last time you and your spouse really laughed together? In this week’s episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee dive deep into a topic too many married entrepreneurs overlook—fun. After returning from an 18-day dream vacation in Italy and hosting their first “Thriving in Tandem Date Night,” they realized just how many couples have stopped making space for joy. Between business demands, family responsibilities, and endless to-do lists, fun often gets pushed aside. Robert and Kay Lee share creative, budget-friendly ways to bring fun back into your marriage without waiting for the “perfect” time or a big trip. From driveway date nights to free concerts in the park, they remind us that joy isn’t about extravagance—it’s about intentionality. They also reveal how planning events for their married entrepreneur community has given them built-in reasons to prioritize their own date nights and adventures. This episode is full of practical ideas, relatable laughs, and a powerful reminder that fun is essential for a thriving marriage and business. Whether it’s putting date nights on the calendar, joining in-person gatherings, or even “forcing” fun through memberships or pre-paid trips, Robert and Kay Lee challenge you to stop waiting and start creating shared memories now. Join our Thriving in Tandem event waitlist Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Key Takeaways: Fun fuels connection – Laughter and shared experiences lower stress, boost creativity, and strengthen your bond. Intentionality is everything – If it’s not on the calendar, it probably won’t happen. Fun doesn’t have to be expensive – Explore free and local activities; creativity counts more than cost. Community matters – Being around other married entrepreneurs creates instant understanding and encouragement. Sometimes you have to “force” fun – Pre-committing with reservations, memberships, or events helps ensure you follow through. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/38317710

Ep. 224 - Don’t Believe the Hype: How Married Entrepreneurs Can Make Smarter Investment Decisions 09/08/2025

Ep. 224 - Don’t Believe the Hype: How Married Entrepreneurs Can Make Smarter Investment Decisions In this episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee unpack the dangers of making impulsive business or investment decisions based on hype, emotion, or pressure. Whether it’s a flashy marketing strategy, a “can’t miss” real estate deal, or a new business venture, many married entrepreneurs get swept up in the excitement without counting the cost. Drawing from real-life lessons—some painful—they discuss how couples can safeguard their finances and their marriage by slowing down, asking the right questions, and aligning their risk tolerance. Together, they walk through key decision-making pitfalls: FOMO, emotional buying, and lack of due diligence. You’ll learn how to avoid being manipulated by urgency or scarcity tactics and how to test business ideas in small ways before investing big. Most importantly, Robert and Kay Lee show how couples can communicate through their differences in risk tolerance and move forward in unity—because your business should grow your wealth, not blow up your relationship. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Key Takeaways: Risk tolerance matters—especially in marriage. Know yours, know your spouse’s, and talk about it before you’re faced with a big decision. Don’t let hype override wisdom. Watch out for pressure tactics like limited-time offers or guaranteed returns—they’re red flags. Test before you invest. Whether it’s marketing or real estate, start small. Use low-cost or no-cost methods to gauge results first. Emotions + speed = danger. Fast decisions made under emotional pressure are more likely to backfire. Take time to assess the risk. Do your due diligence. Ask hard questions. Get wise counsel. Research independently. Don’t rely solely on what a salesperson says. 💡 Bonus Tip: Discuss hypothetical investment decisions when you're not under pressure. It helps you understand each other better and prepares you to make wiser choices when it counts. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/38317590

Ep. 223 - Building a Marriage and Business That Thrives Through Every Season With Jim and Martha Brangenberg 09/01/2025

Ep. 223 - Building a Marriage and Business That Thrives Through Every Season With Jim and Martha Brangenberg In this special live-audience episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee welcome back long-time friends and returning guests, Jim and Martha Brangenberg. From running a real estate development project to revitalizing their small town, serving as volunteer firefighters and chaplains, caring for aging parents, hosting their radio show I Work for Him, and spearheading community events — Jim and Martha live a full, fast-paced life. Yet, despite the chaos, they’ve learned the value of slowing down, setting boundaries, and keeping God at the center of their marriage. Together, we unpack the disciplines, decisions, and daily habits that help them work as a team in both life and business. They share how prayer has been their “secret sauce” for 43 years, why listening to each other’s God-given instincts matters, and how choosing connection over conflict has kept their relationship strong. From avoiding “hangry” arguments to navigating seasons where traditional date nights are impossible, Jim and Martha offer practical, real-life strategies for staying close in the busiest of seasons. Whether you’re building a business, leading in your community, or simply juggling the everyday demands of marriage and family, this episode will encourage you to protect your partnership, prioritize your quiet time with God, and let go of the small stuff that doesn’t matter in the long run. Jim and Martha’s story is a reminder that thriving in tandem isn’t about perfection — it’s about intention, grace, and staying on the same team no matter what. Listen to them on Listen to episode 82 Key Takeaways: Prayer is a powerful anchor — begin and end your day with it, even if everything else falls apart. Listen to and respect your spouse’s instincts, especially when they feel prompted by God. Protect your marriage from unnecessary tension by “letting go” of minor irritations. Seasons of busyness may require redefining date nights — connection matters more than formality. Set boundaries with your time, use your calendar intentionally, and be willing to say no to protect your priorities. True teamwork means surrendering your agenda to God’s direction and committing to run the race together. Bio: Jim Brangenberg An entrepreneur for life, Jim has grown several start-ups and mentored many business owners. His God-gifted ability to ask the right questions lends itself well to his role as host of the iWork4Him program, the Faith and Work mouthpiece founded in 2013. Martha Brangenberg Born into an entrepreneurial family, Martha has been involved in small business her entire life. Gifted with an attention to detail and a sweet sensitive spirit, Martha is a servant leader with a deep faith in Jesus. Together, Jim and Martha are passionate about living out faith at work, building strong marriages and regularly offer marriage retreats. They have three grown children and six grandchildren. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/38230225

Ep. 222 - What Makes A Good Wine, Makes a Great Marriage 08/25/2025

Ep. 222 - What Makes A Good Wine, Makes a Great Marriage Join Robert and Kay Lee Fukui as they draw surprising yet powerful parallels between crafting a fine bottle of wine and building a strong, lasting marriage. Fresh off their dream vacation to Italy and inspired by the care, patience, and intentionality they witnessed at the wineries, the Fukuis unpack four key principles that apply both to wine-making and thriving in tandem with your spouse: patience, environment, oxygen (aka communication and emotional safety), and blend. Through personal stories—from the early days of their relationship to navigating conflict and collaboration in business—they share how patience creates room for growth, how cultivating the right environment fosters trust, how healthy communication lets go of toxic buildup, and how honoring each other’s differences creates the perfect blend in marriage and business. Whether you're a wine lover or just looking for a fresh way to strengthen your relationship, this episode will challenge and encourage you to be more intentional in your marriage and business. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Key Takeaways: Patience pays off: Just like wine matures under the right conditions, great marriages require time, grace, and room to process emotions and decisions. Environment matters: Creating a safe, supportive space—both emotionally and physically—allows your spouse (and your team) to thrive. Let it breathe: Addressing conflict and giving each other space to communicate reduces relational toxicity and builds emotional intimacy. Blended is better: Embrace your spouse’s strengths, differences, and gifts—together, you’re far more powerful and approachable as a team. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/38224475

Ep. 221 - The Power of Unification with Mark and Christine Jewell: How One Couple Restructured Their Finances, Business & Marriage for Greater Impact 08/19/2025

Ep. 221 - The Power of Unification with Mark and Christine Jewell: How One Couple Restructured Their Finances, Business & Marriage for Greater Impact In this powerful and transparent episode, we’re joined by leadership coaches Mark and Christine Jewell, a dynamic couple leading the Momentum Company and Warriors of the Heart. What started as a business-focused meetup evolved into a candid conversation about marriage, money, calling, and the cost of doing life in parallel instead of in partnership. They share the raw truth of how merging their businesses and finances wasn’t easy—but it was the key to unlocking a whole new level of peace, purpose, and profit in their home and company. Christine and Mark get vulnerable about their journey from individual success to shared purpose. They reveal how a word from God—“supernatural unification”—set them on a course that exposed hidden money habits, relational misalignment, and the danger of running side-by-side without real connection. By aligning their financial systems and embracing their God-given roles in life and business, they not only paid off nearly $300K in debt in 18 months, but also experienced explosive growth and deeper family unity. You’ll walk away from this conversation with practical frameworks, spiritual encouragement, and renewed hope that you can build a life and business that thrives—together. Websites: Free Resource: Grab the Communication Cheat Sheet for deeper connection → For Christine's Book: Get the Book: Drop the Armor! Order direct for $200+ in bonus resources → Ready for breakthrough? Apply for coaching and learn more about working with Christine here: Key Takeaways: Unification multiplies everything: When couples stop building separately and unite around a shared vision, momentum multiplies in marriage, business, and family. Money is a heart issue: Transparency, tithing, and structure helped them overcome shame and conflict, leading to financial breakthrough and joy in giving. Roles create freedom: Letting go of control and trusting each other's God-given strengths allowed them to operate in their genius without competition or burnout. Mark Bio: Mark Jewell is an internationally renowned leadership speaker and coach. As the co-founder and Chief Evangelist of The Momentum Company, an agribusiness focused leadership development company, Mark has worked with countless industry leaders around the globe. Over the past 20 years, Mark has partnered with major organizations like The Andersons, Verdesian Life Sciences, Purina, Cargill and more to facilitate training and help build high-performing teams. In addition to his speaking and coaching work, Mark hosts "The Intentional Agribusiness Leader Podcast"" where he shares actionable leadership insights with his growing audience. His conversations with industry leaders like Mike Borel, Colin Steen, Kip Pendelton, Hollie Bunn, Stephanie Liska and more provide listeners with tools and strategies to lead with more intention. Mark's insightful style has resonated with professionals across various industries. Mark is passionate about equipping the next generation of leaders. Through his keynote addresses, programs, and popular podcast, Mark is on a mission to impact ten million leaders. His goal is to spread his message of intentional leadership far and wide, helping both new and experienced professionals maximize their potential and achieve success on their own terms. Mark's expertise and experience have made him one of the most sought-after agribusiness leadership voices today. Christine Bio: Christine Jewell is an author, keynote speaker, and faith based executive coach with over 25 years of experience in the fields of Health + Peak Performance, Entrepreneurship + Human Behaviour . She is also the host of the Breaking Chains Podcast. As the Founder of Warriors Of The Heart, she specializes in guiding highly successful CEO’s and Impact driven leaders to break out of the superficial “life” they’ve built, redefine success and step into a whole new playing field grounded in eternal, life giving principles. Christine bridges the gap between the heart, fueled by faith & logic, fueled by practicality - to help people receive more than they could ever imagine and claim the rich life they were created for. As a mother of 6, ages 9-23, through a blended family, a wife, high level athlete, multiple business owner and entrepreneur since her 20’s, she is intimately familiar with the overwhelm and burnout that can come when building a ‘dream’ life, as well as what’s possible on the other side. Through years of trials, burning things down and rebuilding from the ashes of her past, she has ditched the rules of this world, following the calling on her heart to cultivate a life of total alignment - where there is more than enough time for her most meaningful work, extraordinary relationships, a legacy of impact - and plenty of rest! Her vision is to create a community of Kingdom Minded Men and Women who are rising together as powerful co-creators rather than competitors - and are redefining the way we lead at work, in relationships, and every arena of life! Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/38153125

Ep. 220 - Lessons From Our Italian Vacation 08/12/2025

Ep. 220 - Lessons From Our Italian Vacation In this heartfelt and adventurous episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui take you behind the scenes of their dream trip through Italy—from Cinque Terre to Florence, Tuscany to Lake Garda. While the landmarks and landscapes were stunning, it was the lessons learned along the way that left the deepest impression. From learning to ask for help, to the value of simplicity, to taking the time to just be, the trip served as a powerful reminder of what truly matters—both in life and in business. They share stories of free Michelin-starred meals, ancient wine cellars, hiking coastal towns with just a carry-on, and why going slow created the richest experiences. But it wasn’t just about sightseeing; it was about practicing margin, enjoying the moment, and bringing that same intentionality into their marriage and entrepreneurial journey. Whether you're dreaming of your next vacation or trying to find a better rhythm between business and family, this episode offers practical and soulful takeaways to help you thrive in tandem. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Key Takeaways: Ask Boldly, Expect Lightly: Robert shares how simply asking opened doors to unforgettable (and surprisingly free) experiences, reminding us that relationships matter in business and life. Pack Light, Live Light: Traveling with only carry-ons for 18 days taught the power of simplicity—and how less really can be more, even in the way we run our homes and businesses. Build in Margin: Whether on vacation or in your calendar, creating space to just be allows for connection, spontaneity, and soul-level rest that recharges you far beyond a to-do list. 👉 P.S. Want their full Italian itinerary? DM them on Instagram for the Google Doc with all the details! Chapters 00:00 Dream Vacation in Italy 04:39 Lessons Learned from the Trip 10:20 The Importance of Asking for Help 11:41 Traveling Light: The Carry-On Experience 15:32 Simplicity in Travel and Life 19:47 Enjoying the Moment: Taking Time to Savor 24:30 Intentional Living: Appreciating Your Surroundings 29:51 Relaxation vs. Adventure: Finding Balance 33:15 Going with the Flow: Embracing the Unexpected /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/38153055

Ep. 219 - Infidelity, Guns, And Marriage with Raymond and Leslie Funk 08/05/2025

Ep. 219 - Infidelity, Guns, And Marriage with Raymond and Leslie Funk In this action packed episode of Thriving in Tandem, we’re joined by Raymond and Leslie Funk—ordained ministers, firearms instructors, and founders of Three Cord Marriage. With raw honesty and humility, they share their journey of rebuilding their marriage after infidelity, addiction, and emotional trauma. From living broken, worldly lives to leading a Kingdom-centered marriage ministry, their story is one of redemption, intentionality, and purpose. Raymond and Leslie pull back the curtain on how unhealed wounds and selfish expectations nearly destroyed their relationship—and how God met them at rock bottom. Through pastoral counseling, personal accountability, and a commitment to healing as individuals before fixing the marriage, they discovered how to reconnect, forgive, and thrive again. Now, they equip other high-performing couples with tactical tools—both spiritual and practical—to protect and strengthen their marriage. Listen in as we discuss the real work of rebuilding trust, the power of daily disciplines like prayer and shared vision, and how even firearms training became an unlikely but transformational way to reconnect. Whether your marriage is in crisis or simply needs a refresh, you’ll walk away with hope and actionable strategies to protect what matters most. 👉 Learn more at and consider attending one of their unique tactical marriage events. Tactical Marriage Training Day Saturday, September 27 Married for A Purpose Marriage Reboot Openings Available 3rd & 4th Weekend of the Month To join us live on the first Thursday of each month as we interview our guests, click this link and look for the “USCCC Presents Thriving in Tandem”. You’ll have the opportunity to ask questions from our guests and meet other married entrepreneurs in the journey of balancing business and relationship. Key Takeaways: Healing starts with individual accountability. True restoration begins when both spouses are willing to examine their own brokenness—not just blame each other. Forgiveness is a process, not a moment. Leslie shares how God’s grace and a deep understanding of her identity in Christ helped her forgive—even when it happened more than once. Shared vision strengthens unity. Through the Marriage Reboot framework, the Funks learned to align their goals across eight key areas of life and ministry, giving their marriage direction and momentum. Connection requires intentionality. Daily prayer, studying scripture together, and honest check-ins are non-negotiables in maintaining emotional and spiritual intimacy. Marriage is worth defending. Their Tactical Marriage Training Day merges spiritual growth with real-world application—using tools and training to symbolize the commitment to build and protect your relationship with intentionality. Biography: Raymond and Leslie Funk are ordained ministers, entrepreneurs, certified NRA and USCCA (firearm) instructors, and the founders of the non-profit Three Cord Marriage. They are known for creating a safe space for couples with high-stakes callings in Kingdom and Country. Having overcome infidelity, addiction, and emotional trauma in their own marriage, they now equip couples with battle-tested tools, biblical strategy, and tactical insight to break strongholds, reclaim unity, and walk in the purpose God designed for their relationship. Their strategy? Train couples to fight (shot) for unity so they can lead with greater authority from the overflow of a thriving marriage. Their mission: Strengthen Marriage. Defend the Family. Transform the Nations. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/38152980

Ep. 218 - Biggest Financial Mistake Costing You A Million Dollars 07/30/2025

Ep. 218 - Biggest Financial Mistake Costing You A Million Dollars In this eye-opening episode of Thriving in Tandem, Robert and Kay Lee share the single most common money mistake keeping countless married entrepreneurs from building real wealth: debt. Fresh off the facilitation of a financial stewardship workshop, they dig into how everyday debt—often justified or ignored—is quietly stealing your financial future. But here’s the good news: the solution is simpler than you think. Spoiler alert: You have to listen til the end. You’ll learn how debt is not just a financial burden, but a barrier to freedom, peace of mind, and legacy-building. Whether it’s credit cards, car loans, or payday advances, this conversation explores the hidden costs of “buy now, pay later” culture and how breaking that cycle can unlock wealth potential that most couples never realize. They even run the numbers—showing how just $500/month invested wisely could grow into $1 million over time. If you’ve ever said, “We don’t have enough to invest,” this episode will challenge that belief—and show you exactly how to create margin, eliminate debt, and finally start building long-term wealth together. Practical tips, real-life examples, biblical wisdom, and a strong dose of encouragement await. Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. Debt Repayment Calculator Investment/Retirement Calculator Key Takeaways: Debt is the true wealth killer. The average American carries over $20,000 in consumer debt, costing $1,500/month—money that could be building your future. Delayed gratification wins. Saving and paying cash—especially for big-ticket items like cars—can save you thousands and put you on the fast track to financial freedom. Simple strategy, massive results. The debt snowball method helps you eliminate debt faster than you think, freeing up cash for giving, investing, and enjoying life. Building wealth is more doable than you think. Just $500/month invested at 10% can become $1 million over 30 years—yes, really. Freedom from debt brings peace. No matter the economy, having no payments gives you breathing room, confidence, and options. /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/37769275

Ep. 217 - Success At The Expense of Your Marriage and Family with Krystal Parker 07/23/2025

Ep. 217 - Success At The Expense of Your Marriage and Family with Krystal Parker Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. Download the 5 Daily Habits to Thrive in Tandem Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. In this deeply vulnerable and inspiring episode of Thriving in Tandem, we’re joined by Krystal Parker, President of the U.S. Christian Chamber of Commerce. Krystal shares her raw journey from corporate executive climbing the ranks of a Fortune 200 oil and gas company to discovering the devastating cost of success when it came at the expense of her marriage and family. What looked like professional triumph on the outside masked a crumbling home life and personal disconnection from what mattered most. As Krystal takes us back to the peak of her corporate climb—fueled by power, ambition, and external validation—she candidly reveals the blind spots that hurt her marriage ending and relationship with her young daughter. But in the aftermath of that breaking point, Krystal discovered what true leadership and intentional living looked like. From restructuring her work-life rhythms to raising up her team, and ultimately placing God and family at the center, her story offers hope and a powerful reminder that redemption is possible. Whether you're in a season of hustle or navigating growing pains in business and marriage, Krystal’s testimony is a call to evaluate where your time and heart are going. She shares practical boundaries she and her husband now implement, how she keeps her daughter a priority, and the critical difference between using work as worship instead of worshiping work. This is a must-listen for married entrepreneurs who don’t want to succeed in business only to lose what truly matters most. Key Takeaways: Success without alignment can destroy what matters most. Krystal's corporate rise came with sacrifices she didn't fully see until her marriage and family unraveled. You are irreplaceable at work but you not at home. Delegating empowered Krystal’s team and freed her to re-engage with her daughter and home life. Boundaries and intention create lasting connection. Krystal and her husband carve out intentional moments—even in busy seasons—to stay united and keep God at the center of their marriage. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Thriving in Tandem Podcast 02:01 Crystal Parker's Journey in the Oil and Gas Industry 10:11 Challenges of Balancing Career and Family Life 12:00 The Turning Point: Becoming a Solo Parent 18:07 Finding Balance in a New Marriage and Career 23:53 Lessons Learned and Final Thoughts /episode/index/show/powercouplesbydesign/id/37769185

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