Michael D. Madera, Psy.D. - Breaking Free: Healing Narcissistic Family Wounds Through Psychedelics
Release Date: 12/23/2024
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Find full show notes and links here: https://thethirdwave.co/podcast/episode-283/?ref=278
Michael shares his journey of growing up in a narcissistic family environment, where his father became a con man and his mother a Buddhist nun. He discusses how psychedelics, Internal Family Systems therapy, and other modalities helped him heal from childhood trauma and informed his approach to coaching family businesses. Through his work and personal experience, Michael illuminates the complex interplay between family dynamics, leadership, and the transformative potential of psychedelic medicines.
Michael D. Madera is a psychologist, author, and executive coach specializing in family business dynamics and innovative healing modalities. Trained at Harvard institutions, he combines traditional psychology with ketamine-assisted psychotherapy and breathwork facilitation. His recently released book "Playing Tag on the Roof" explores recovery from narcissistic family dynamics through psychedelics and love. Michael's articles in Family Business press are frequently among the most downloaded in the field. He leads transformative plant medicine retreats in Costa Rica and maintains an active coaching practice helping individuals and family businesses thrive. Beyond his professional work, Michael leads a Boston-based dance band and enjoys sports. He lives near Boston with his wife and two college-age sons.
Highlights:
- Growing up between Toronto and Boston
- Journey to becoming a psychologist
- Understanding narcissistic personalities
- Growing up with narcissistic parents
- Healing through psychotherapy and meditation
- The three circles of family business
- Psychedelics' role in healing trauma
- IFS and psychedelic integration
- Ancestral patterns in family businesses
Episode Links:
- Resounding Circles
- Madera Partners Consulting
- Dr. Madera’s new book, “Playing Tag on the Roof: Recovering from a narcissistic family through love and psychedelics”
Episode Sponsor:
- The Practitioner Certification Program by Third Wave’s Psychedelic Coaching Institute.