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How to Win at Office Politics Without Losing Yourself

Control Your Career

Release Date: 10/22/2025

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Using her Control Your Career framework, Julia shares strategies for building influence without playing games, setting boundaries that keep you grounded, and communicating in ways that reduce tension rather than fuel it.

You will learn:

  • How to recognize and understand the power dynamics around you

  • Ways to build influence through credibility, not manipulation

  • What emotional intelligence really looks like in challenging workplaces

  • How to respond to drama or gossip without losing professionalism

  • The mindset shift that helps you stay authentic while advancing your career

You can navigate politics without sacrificing your character or confidence and Julia shows you exactly how.

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