loader from loading.io

256. The Top Ten Books for Growing Christians

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

Release Date: 03/25/2024

261.  How to Put God's Word Into Practice Immediately show art 261. How to Put God's Word Into Practice Immediately

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

How to Put God's Word into Practice Immediately Has not my hand made all these things, and so they came into being?” declares the Lord. “These are the ones I look on with favor: those who are humble and contrite in spirit, and who tremble at my word.  Isaiah 66:2 The multiplying disciple responds and acts on God’s word.  He or she goes beyond mere head-nodding and mumbled assent during a sermon, “Mmmm.”  He takes it and immediately puts it to work.  God compares the different responses of two different kings, Saul and David, in Acts 13:22.  After...

info_outline
260.  Dating and Relationship Advice with Chris Schwartzenberger show art 260. Dating and Relationship Advice with Chris Schwartzenberger

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

  Every wondered what to do in a tricky dating situation or relationship tangle?  I’m here with Chris Schwartzenber, a close friend who leads the church Spokane, Washington.  We’re going to field questions submitted from you our listeners on the subject of relationships and dating.  Disclaimer, these are our opinions only and ask you to get advice from trusted people within your congregation, family and trustworthy friends. Here are the questions sent in from one of our listeners: Best ways to meet people outside of your home church, other than conferences How can...

info_outline
259.  How to Be a Multiplying Disciple:  Seek Pleasing Results, Not Pleasing Methods show art 259. How to Be a Multiplying Disciple: Seek Pleasing Results, Not Pleasing Methods

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

How to Be a Multiplying Disciple:  Seek pleasing results, not pleasing methods “When do you plan on moving?  How long have you lived at this address?  Where did you move from?  How did you happen to pick this area?  If you were to move, where would you go next?  And when would that be?”  In the middle of the great recession and housing collapse of 2008, I clung to this sales script as if it were straight from the Bible.  I had only been selling real estate for two years when the real estate market collapsed.  In order to survive, I looked...

info_outline
258.  Chris Reed, Forest Versele and Ryan Jones on How to Be a Man in 2024 show art 258. Chris Reed, Forest Versele and Ryan Jones on How to Be a Man in 2024

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

This past weekend I went to Pine Summit Camp in Prescott, Arizona for an All-Arizona Men’s Retreat.  Chris Reed, who leads the church in Salt Lake City was the keynote speaker and preached on what it means to be a man made in the image of Jesus.  I got together with three twenty-somethings after Chris’ lesson and discussed the topic of masculinity in your twenties.  Listen to Johnny Nitafan, a 22-year-old married YouTuber, Brennan Sciascia, a 25-year-old graduate of Brown University and engineer at Intel and 20-year old Nick Kaplan, a junior at the University of...

info_outline
257.   How To Live Your Life on Purpose show art 257. How To Live Your Life on Purpose

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

If you want to make this life count, you will need to live your life on purpose.  That starts with setting goals and setting up daily systems to achieve your spiritual ambition.  In this episode I talk about how to do just that.  1.     How to Live Your Life on Purpose A 10x disciple is a disciple living with a purpose and goal in mind.  Everything he or she does has Jesus’ interests in mind.  This type of person is extremely rare as Paul states in Philippians 2:20-22, 20 I have no one else like him, who will show genuine concern for...

info_outline
256.  The Top Ten Books for Growing Christians show art 256. The Top Ten Books for Growing Christians

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

With so many books out there, it’s easy to get paralyzed and confused as to what to read.  Today, I’m going to share the top ten books I would take with me if  congress declared a law that said people can only own ten books.  These are the books that have changed my life.  The Top Ten Books for the growing Christian.   Leaders are readers.  Everything you want to become or achieve by definition is something you will have to learn to do or imitate from someone else.  The quickest path to get there is to read and imitate those who have gone before...

info_outline
255.  J. Brian Craig, Torrance, California.  How to Navigate a Terminal Cancer Diagnosis. show art 255. J. Brian Craig, Torrance, California. How to Navigate a Terminal Cancer Diagnosis.

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

I interviewed J. Brian Craig nearly four years ago on episode 25.  Last year Brian was diagnosed with Glioblastoma, a fast-growing and aggressive type of brain cancer.  Listen today as I ask him about his diagnosis, how he and his family have learned to cope with a terminal disease and what his plans are for his music, ministry and future. Here are the links to Brian's recordings mentioned in the interview:     You can reach Brian at:   [email protected]

info_outline
254.  How to Support Your Mission and Ministry Through Online Content Creation.  Interview with John Stange, Langhorne, Pennsylvania. show art 254. How to Support Your Mission and Ministry Through Online Content Creation. Interview with John Stange, Langhorne, Pennsylvania.

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

  Recently, I was searching for a new book to listen to on my Audible account.  I typed in “podcasting” and one of the recommendations that popped up was, “The Podcaster’s Playbook.”  I listened to that and what blew me away was the author, John Stange (“Stahn-Gee”), is a pastor for Core Creek Community Church community church near Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.  He started posting YouTube videos and then writing a blog and then a podcast and then books.  One of his podcasts has millions of downloads and he has been contracted to write books by a major...

info_outline
253.  Chester and Sirikit Umaguing (Ooh-Mah-Ging), Bangkok, Thailand.  Missionaries to the Phillipines in Their Twenties and to Thailand in Their Sixties. show art 253. Chester and Sirikit Umaguing (Ooh-Mah-Ging), Bangkok, Thailand. Missionaries to the Phillipines in Their Twenties and to Thailand in Their Sixties.

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

Today, I’m talking to Chester and Sirikit Umaguing (Ooh-MAH-Ging).  Chester and Sirikit went on the Manila Mission team together, went into the professional ministry, witnessed 400 baptisms in the first year of that planting, got married and returned to the states in 2004.  They started successful careers in real estate and restaurant ownership.  They then returned to the paid ministry in 2016, leading the Colorado Springs church.  Two years ago they took another step forward in faith and returned to the Asian mission field, this time in Bangkok, Thailand.  Bangkok...

info_outline
252.  How to Become a Multiplying Disciple of Christ or a 252. How to Become a Multiplying Disciple of Christ or a "10X" Disciple.

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

Today, I’m going to talk about how to become a “10x” disciple.  If you are listening to the program you want to be a man or woman who multiplies whatever God gives you.  You want to appear before God loaded with the fruit of a life well lived.  Like the servant who took one Mina and turned it into 10 more, you want to please God with the work of your hands and content of your hear.  How do you do that?  I’ll be talking about that and how prayer is the first step to becoming a “10x” disciple.  Prayer Bench Mentioned in the...

info_outline
 
More Episodes

With so many books out there, it’s easy to get paralyzed and confused as to what to read.  Today, I’m going to share the top ten books I would take with me if  congress declared a law that said people can only own ten books.  These are the books that have changed my life. 

The Top Ten Books for the growing Christian.  

Leaders are readers.  Everything you want to become or achieve by definition is something you will have to learn to do or imitate from someone else.  The quickest path to get there is to read and imitate those who have gone before you.  John Wooden, who coached his UCLA team to 10 NCAA basketball championships, was a reader.  On the day of his middle school graduation, his father gave him $2 and a card with the following advice:

1. Be true to yourself.
2. Help others.
3. Make each day your masterpiece.
4. Drink deeply from good books, especially the Bible.
5. Make friendship a fine art.
6. Build a shelter against a rainy day.
7. Pray for guidance and count and give thanks for your blessings every day.

This is a great list, but I want to concentrate on item four:  Drink deeply from good books, especially the Bible.  Here are a couple of things to note about this advice.  First, he mentions good books.  There are a ton of books that aren’t worth reading.  You know you are reading a good book if the following criteria are met:

·        You can read and reread it

·        It inspires you to action, change or imitation

·        It moves you

·        It typically focuses on principles that are useful in a variety of situations

·        It’s often been around a while and has a reputation for being good

Secondly, Joshua Wooden highlights the Bible as especially unique.  The Bible meets all of the above criteria while adding:

·        A clear path to eternal life

·        How to know who God is, what he is like and what he expects of us

·        Comfort, encouragement and guidance in life

Reading won’t necessarily make you a great coach, but it will increase your chances of making this life count. 

I’d like to give you my top ten list of good books.  These are books that I’ve read and reread many times.  I’ve read many books and these have impacted me greatly.  I will classify them by genre.

·        The Bible.  This goes without saying, but there is a reason we should be reading, rereading and memorizing this on a daily basis.  If we don’t read anything else, this is the one book that we need to know cover to cover.

1.       Spiritual Book:  “The Imitation of Christ” by Thomas A’Kempis

a.      This is my most read book outside of the Bible.  “Spiritual Formation” is a buzzword in Christian circles today.  A’Kempis wrote the book on spiritual formation 500 years ago.  Written by a man living in a monastery, it is filled with scripture and insight into living a godly and holy life.  I can’t read it without getting completely convicted about the state of my interior life, motivations and sinful nature.  Two bits of advice when starting this book:

                                                 i.      Read it one chapter a day along with your Bible.  This is a book for meditation and consideration not rapid consumption

                                              ii.      Get past the age and religious bias against this book.  Yes, he was a Catholic monk.  Yes, it’s an old book.  However, human nature doesn’t change and the issues he deals with in this book are as relevant as the day it was originally printed.

2.      Time management and priorities, “The One Thing” by Gary Keller

a.      Keller is the founder of Keller Williams Real Estate Corporation.  He helps us get out of the weedy third soil by advising his readers to daily ask themselves the question, “What’s the one thing I can do such that by doing it everything else will be easier or unnecessary?”

b.     This book will enable you to overcome paralysis caused by too much information, distraction, busyness and other demands that can overwhelm us.

3.      Personal Growth:  “How to fail at almost everything and still win big” by Scott Adams

a.      Adams created the Dilbert cartoon series.  In this book he shares about his life, medical challenges, setbacks and successes and offer suggestions on how to find a path for growth that fits how God made you.  Some of the ideas that I go back to over and over again:

                                                 i.      Develop your “Talent Stack.”  You may not have legendary talent in one area, but through grit and determination you can become really good at five or more skills.  The combination of five “pretty talented” areas is remarkable.

                                              ii.      Use affirmations.  I find this advice an updated and repackaged version of Jesus’ teaching on faith in Mark 11:24, “…Whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.”

4.     How to build your faith level and become more optimistic.  “The Power of Positive Thinking” by Norman Vincent Peale.

a.      Peale wrote this book while working as a church minister.  He borrows scripture from the Bible and creates a “crossover” book that helps non-disciples apply Jesus’ teaching on faith to tackle real world problems like making money, getting promoted or anything else.  As a disciple, this book has incredible value in both the spiritual and secular parts of life.  Since Jesus said, “According to your faith will it be done to you” in Matthew 9:29, we should be constantly looking for methods of increasing our faith in an increasingly cynical world.  Peale offers sound advice on how to build a firm foundation of faith.

5.      Books on Relationship Building.  “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie. 

a.      This is the GOAT (greatest of all time) when it comes to building and developing relationships.  Your Friendships, business relationships, family relationships and relationships with non-believers will start multiplying and deepening when you put Carnegie’s lessons into practice.

b.     Carnegie’s advice to be interested in people and ask questions is worth the price of the book alone.  This trait is completely missing in about 90% of the people I meet and leads to dead, one-way relationships.  Assimilate this one tip and you will immediately distinguish yourself as a friend magnet.

6.     Books on money and money management.  “The Millionaire Next Door” by Thomas Stanley. 

a.      This was a tough one.  There are a lot of books on money out there.  I’ve never been great at handling or saving money.  In order to compensate for this weakness, I’ve read a ton of books on money management.  This area is an example of how knowing more won’t make you better, it’s all about practicing time-honored principles.  The reason why I like Stanley’s book is that he devoted his life to understand how rich people get rich.  The paradoxical message is that most rich people got that way by not acting “rich.”  They save money from every paycheck, never pay more than $10 for a bottle of wine, and don’t drive fancy cars.  Instead of reading mind-numbing insight on the benefits of hedge-fund investing, it helped me identify and imitate the key traits of people who were better at money management than me.  It’s paid off for me.

7.      Fantasy books.  “The Lord of the Rings” trilogy by JRR Tolkien

a.      My mom was an English teacher and she would bring home books from her classes for me to read at home.  I became a fantasy fan by reading from Robert Heinlein and JRR Tolkein.  I remember reading “The Hobbit” and falling in love with fantasy.  Upon rereading Tolkien’s work, I’m struck by how writers have gotten much better over the last 100 years.  Tolkien needed a good editor to cut out entire chapters of his trilogy.  Peter Jackson did a great job reducing the trilogy to its essential content in his movie series.  However, the Lord of the Rings is still the gamechanger when it comes to fantasy.  All other books are measured against his groundbreaking “world-building” novel.  Another side benefit is the messianic theme running throughout the book.  This book honors courage, masculinity, sacrifice and brotherhood in an age where these qualities are often under attack.

8.     Biography.  “The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt” by Edmund Morris.

a.      I’ve read so many great biographies that this was hard to choose.  Morris highlights Roosevelt’s journey from sickly, weakling childhood to robust, vigorous, and courageous manhood.  In the past, people learned from biography as the primary source of instruction.  I couldn’t help but be both inspired and called higher by Roosevelt’s conscious labor to become a better man.  Here is his counsel on how to overcome fear:

                                                 i.      “at the outset almost every man is frightened when he goes into action, but that the course to follow is for the man to keep such a grip on himself that he can act just as if he was not frightened. After this is kept up long enough it changes from pretense to reality, and the man does in very fact become fearless by sheer dint of practicing fearlessness when he does not feel it.”

9.      Books on mindset.  “As a man thinketh” by James Allen

a.      The King James Version of Proverbs 23:7 reads “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.”  This book develops the idea that our outer, physical world is simply a reflection of our inner, mental or spiritual world.  Nothing is more relevant for a strong disciple than this concept.  Paul echoes the importance of taking charge of our thought life in 1 Corinthians 10:5, “…we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”  This book went on to form the foundation for so many other books like “Think and Grow Rich” and “The Secret.”  Each one is built on the idea that if you change your thinking, you will change your life.  If you don’t like to read, you’ll like this one.  It’s a tiny book. 

10.   Books on Marriage.  “The Seven Principles for making marriage work”  by John Gottman.

a.      This book is the best of all books on marriage.  He studied marriage in his “love lab” and found out how to predict whether a couple would be stay married or divorce with over 90% accuracy.  The principles of strong marriages and the traits of weak marriages offer a pathway to a life of ever-strengthening love.  One of the primary triggers for me to seek God originally was my desire to have a successful marriage.  The combination of God, God’s word and advice from books like Gottman’s have enabled me to exceed my most fanciful wishes.

11.    Other notable mentions

a.      Any book by Brian Tracy.  His books repeat over and over, but his best is “Maximum Achievement.”  You will hear echoes from this book in his other books.

b.     I would hate to be limited to only ten books.  I read voraciously and don’t want to give the impression you should cap your reading at only a few.  But I’d like to leave you with a few more thoughts:

                                                 i.      It’s better to choose a few “good books” and reread them than to simply hope the next book will offer a silver bullet for your problem.

                                              ii.      Find a way to take in more reading.  Many people are limited by their reading ability or lack of desire to read.  There are so many ways to take in good reading.  Chief in my mind is audiobooks.  Even if you don’t like reading, you can gain the benefit of books simply by listening to them read to you.  Find a way to love reading.