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Unlock Your Potential: Break Free from Limiting Beliefs

The Root of Power - Embody Peace, Heal Trauma & Be Happy

Release Date: 01/23/2024

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The Root of Power - Embody Peace, Heal Trauma & Be Happy

emotional exhaustion: a state of feeling emotionally worn-out and drained as a result of accumulated stress from your personal or work lives, or a combination of both. chronic state of emotional depletion. Allostatic load. compassion fatigue: “a state of exhaustion and dysfunction biologically, psychologically, and socially as a result of prolonged exposure to compassion stress and all it invokes." also called vicarious trauma. burnout: a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress Think of these as a spectrum. EE more from life stressors....

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Most automatic things we do are conditioned responses that we learned during childhood, but they're no longer serving us.
Until we are 6, we exist mostly in theta brainwaves, which is associated with a hypnotic state. We are the most suggestible we will ever be. Everything a child that young hears is taken as true, nothing is questioned. Most people then never question the programming they received as children.
This is good for adults who need to teach a child how to behave in the world quickly, and not so good for the child that becomes the adult if they don't learn to question their programming.
 
Some I come across often:
You dont have to do something every day for it to be consistent, successful or effective.
Your partner doesnt have to follow your schedule for your relationship to work.
Love is not earned, but neither is it unconditional.
You dont need permission to do thing you want to do.
Just because someone disagrees with your choice, doesnt mean its the wrong choice.
Your healing journey is your own and wont look like others.
Youre allowed to disappoint other people when doing whats best for you.
No one really gives a shit about what you're doing/no one notices/cares.
You're allowed to change your mind.
Quitting does not mean failing.
You don't have to forgive people who have hurt you.
Having an abundance of money doesn't make you evil.
Life doesn't have to be hard.
Relationships don't have to last forever to be good, and breaking up/getting divorced doesnt mean the relationship failed.
 
 
How to break:
Question and assess if your automatic assumptions are true, and even if they are true, are they helpful.
Write down a list of beliefs you have about how people or the world "should" operate. Question these.
When you hear a should, that's programming.
Assess if your behaviors are actually getting you the life you want, if not theres programming to undo.