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Ep. 79 - Molding Your Identity to Fit Your Surroundings and Getting Out of Fear-Based Living with Selema Masekela

Live Through Love with Ruben Rojas

Release Date: 09/13/2023

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How often do we mold ourselves to fit in? Join us as we unravel the complexities of identity and acceptance with Selema Masekela, a renowned storyteller and artist who's journey of self identity discovery is a testament to the power of self-love. Selema shares his experience of creating a character around his persona to assimilate in places where he was the 'other'. 

Breaking down the barriers of love and self-acceptance, Selema and I indulge in an honest exploration of relationships, the struggles of receiving love, and the essence of taking care of oneself before others. As we navigate through the landscape of fear-based living, we discuss the dangers of demonizing intelligence and highlight the importance of embracing love in our society. 

How does Selema live through love? "Allowing myself to be taught by love the soft lessons, the hard lessons and, as we said before, the ability to learn, how to continuously learn to receive it from all the different directions that it may be coming from, because sometimes that shit feels like an attack.”

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In this episode, you will learn…

  • Embracing individuality: the importance of self-identity and authenticity, highlighting his journey of self-discovery.

  • The importance of self-love: It's crucial to fill our own cup first before we can give to others, emphasizing the importance of self-care and self-appreciation in our relationships.

  • Empathy and vulnerability: These two traits play a vital role in today's society. They allow for deeper connections, understanding, and acceptance of others.

  • The power of love: Selema shares his understanding of love shaped by past relationships and the control we can take over our narratives, demonstrating the transformative power of love.

  • Creating inclusive spaces: Selema highlights the importance of inclusivity and diversity in all aspects of life, from sports to society at large.

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About the guest: Selema Masekela is a prominent storyteller and artist, known for his inspiring journey of self-identity discovery and his experiences in the world of outdoor sports. Having made a significant transition from the East Coast to Carlsbad, California, Selema advocates for self-love, empathy, vulnerability, and the importance of owning one's own story, as well as fostering diversity and access in outdoor sports.

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