275. Behind the Scenes of Successful Individual Counseling Sessions
School Counseling Simplified Podcast
Release Date: 11/18/2025
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info_outlineWelcome back to another episode of School Counseling Simplified. Today, we’re pulling back the curtain on what really makes individual counseling sessions effective, engaging, and purposeful. If you’ve ever felt unsure about what to do in these sessions or overwhelmed by how to track student progress, this episode is packed with practical, ready-to-use strategies.
Individual counseling is an important Tier 3 support that allows you to provide targeted, personalized intervention. With the right tools and structure, these sessions can feel manageable and meaningful.
Why Individual Counseling Matters
Individual counseling is an essential component of a layered support system. These sessions provide space to work one-on-one with students who need more intensive intervention.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
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How to identify students through referral systems
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How group counseling can help you determine which students may benefit from individual support
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Why individual sessions allow for deeper rapport and tailored intervention
Quick Wins for Tracking Data
Data collection does not have to be complicated or time-consuming. This episode highlights simple tools you can implement immediately, including:
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A 30-second student rating scale
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Thumbs-up or thumbs-down check-ins
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Quick data points that help you make informed decisions and track growth
These small, consistent data practices keep you from guessing what students need and allow you to confidently measure progress.
How to Engage Students in Individual Counseling
Engagement is key for successful sessions. This episode shares a variety of activities, strategies, and tools you can use to keep students motivated and open.
Feelings Check-ins
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Model emotional vocabulary
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Use the Zones of Regulation
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Incorporate visuals
Rapport-Building Activities
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Get-to-Know-You Jenga
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Peak and Pit
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Genograms
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Discussion or interview cards
Hands-On and Creative Activities
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Digging Deep activities
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Personalized social stories
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Crafts such as coping skills toolboxes
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Board games
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Task cards
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Art projects
Modifications for Younger Students
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Increased hands-on activities
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Use of play dough
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Dolls and characters for storytelling
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Verbal reflections instead of written prompts
These strategies help students express themselves, stay engaged, and build meaningful connections.
Reflection Tools for Closing Sessions
Reflection helps students internalize their learning and practice self-awareness. Inside the episode, we explore:
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Journaling
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Reflection sheets
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Interview-style verbal reflections
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Open-ended questions that support closure
Using Data to Track Student Progress
Meaningful data guides your decisions and supports your advocacy efforts. You will learn how to use:
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Student rating scales
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Self-assessments
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Behavior surveys from teachers and caregivers
This data helps you determine next steps, identify patterns, strengthen communication with stakeholders, and build year-end reports or data walls that demonstrate the impact of your counseling program.
Additional Tips
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Provide clear examples for students
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Prepare materials in advance
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Maintain consistent session structure
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Balance conversation with activities
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More About School Counseling Simplified:
School Counseling Simplified is a podcast offering easy to implement strategies for busy school counselors. The host, Rachel Davis from Bright Futures Counseling, shares tips and tricks she has learned from her years of experience as a school counselor both in the US and at an international school in Costa Rica.
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