What 3 Adults Learned Trying to Change Their Own Phone Habits
Parenting in the Screen Age - The Screenagers Podcast
Release Date: 11/17/2025
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Recovered Gaming Addict Shares His Story And Advice (Encore)
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From Grief to Advocacy: A Mother's Fight Against Snapchat
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What 3 Adults Learned Trying to Change Their Own Phone Habits
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Many parents feel hypocritical or guilty about their own phone or tech use when their kids or teens are around. In this episode, Dr. Ruston checks in with three parents who shared those feelings and took on the One Small Change Challenge to make a change in their own tech use. Hear from them about their successes and challenges during their two-week experiment. Even for listeners who missed the previous two episodes, this installment stands alone and offers insights on how adults can model for their children the reasons and approaches behind making positive changes to their tech...
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No More Phones in the Bedroom: One Mom’s Challenge
Parenting in the Screen Age - The Screenagers Podcast
In our last episode, Dr. Delaney Ruston introduced the One Small Change Challenge and the DARTS model (Doable, Arrange for success, Reasons, Treats, Support) as she coached two moms on creating strategies to reach their phone-related small change targets. This week, she talks with another mom, a certified parent coach who wants to stop using her phone before bed and keep it in her room overnight. You’ll hear the specific strategies Lisa commits to. In the next episode, you’ll find out how it worked out for her and for the other moms from the previous episode. Listeners are encouraged to...
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Why Do I Keep Reaching for My Phone? Two Moms Try to Change
Parenting in the Screen Age - The Screenagers Podcast
Do you ever catch yourself reaching for your phone when you don’t really need or want to, and wonder what that shows your kids? In this episode, Screenagers creator Dr. Delaney Ruston talks with two moms who decide it’s time to make a change. They talk about the habits they want to shift and take on the One Small Change Challenge using a model called DARTS: Doable, Arrange for success, Reasons, Treats, and Support. Follow along as Delaney walks Tory and Hillary through setting their own goals, and try using this model to set yours too. We’d love to hear if you do, so send a note to ....
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From Sports Betting to Porn: Parental Conversations Boys Need
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What kind of partner do you want to be someday? Do you think privacy is important in a relationship? What do you think pornography leaves out about real relationships? These are just a few of the unusual yet important questions boys are rarely asked. In this episode, Dr. Delaney Ruston continues her conversation with educator Christopher Pepper and journalist Joanna Schroeder, co-authors of the new book Talk To Your Boys. Together, they discuss how to help boys navigate gaming, romantic relationships, and pornography. They explore online sports betting (“the house always wins”), share ways...
info_outlineMany parents feel hypocritical or guilty about their own phone or tech use when their kids or teens are around.
In this episode, Dr. Ruston checks in with three parents who shared those feelings and took on the One Small Change Challenge to make a change in their own tech use. Hear from them about their successes and challenges during their two-week experiment.
Even for listeners who missed the previous two episodes, this installment stands alone and offers insights on how adults can model for their children the reasons and approaches behind making positive changes to their tech time.
Additional Resources
Boosting Bravery: Free Screenagers program for teens that includes DARTS.
How to bring the Screenagers movies to your community
Time Code:
00:00 Introduction
00:19 Recap of Previous Episodes and DARTS Framework
01:59 Hillary's Journey: Breaking the Social Media Habit
10:41 Lisa's Challenge: Keeping the Phone Out of the Bedroom
15:35 Tori's Attempt: Creating Phone-Free Time with Her Daughter
25:00 Conclusion and Resources for Screen Time Management