Why sisterhood is vital in our healing (especially for your Secret Witch, who may want to hide)
Release Date: 01/14/2025
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info_outlineOn the Secret Witch Show today, Nicole is exploring the profound importance of ‘sisterhood’ in the healing journeys of women - especially those who are ‘Secret Witches’. She dives into how Secret Witches can feel resistance to sisterhood, yet being part of a supportive, magical community of likeminded women can truly transform our lives - helping us overcome fears, self-doubt, mistrust and the ‘witch wound’ that hold us back from having a voice and expressing our authentic selves and living our true destiny as healers.
In this episode we explore the self-healing magic that sisterhood offers us - including self-reflection, a space for vulnerability, a place for discovering our gifts and gold via the mirror that others hold for us to our wounds and triggers. She explores how the ancient feminine wisdom of sisterhood offers provision of a safe and intentional space for us to engage in healing ceremony, share experiences and receive reflections that aid self-illumination - *if* we consciously choose to work with sisterhood this way - with sisters being remedies for us.
What You’ll Learn from this Episode:
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For Secret Witches, there’s nothing so healing as sisterhood to help us learn how to fully express our true, authentic selves - it can help us overcome our fear of judgement and being outcast - and other fears we have around stepping into our witchy gifts
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Being able to be intimate with others is important in the journey of becoming a healer for ourselves - and in living our destiny as healers for others
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People are remedies and act as mirrors for our own self-illumination (aka loving healing)
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Safe spaces of vulnerability and reflection are so vital for our healing - especially in a world where we have learned to operate as silos (keeping ourselves disconnected and isolated in our masculinised culture)
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Sisterhood serves as a space in which we can discover our gifts, and practice honing our skills as healing practitioners
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There is opportunity for ‘reflection’ within conscious sisterhood spaces that allows us access to our own inner wisdom - which activates real healing (as opposed to advice and ‘quick fix’ solutions which take us away from our wisdom)
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True healing comes from within, facilitated by the supportive environment of a sisterhood that encourages self-reflection and personal growth
Resources and things that we spoke about:
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