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143. Becky Nulle: From Trafficked to Triumph; A Story of Survival and Healing

Sexual Assault Survivor Stories Podcast - SASS

Release Date: 06/24/2025

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Sexual Assault Survivor Stories Podcast - SASS

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Sexual Assault Survivor Stories Podcast - SASS

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This is an episode of massive importance. My deepest thanks to my guest, Becky Nulle, who endured horrific experiences of rape and sexual assault from multiple perpetrators, one of which was the Deputy Superintendent of Chicago Schools, James Moffat, in the late 70’s and early 80’s. Becky was one of 5 victims that suffered rape and sexual assault from Moffat who was finally charged and prosecuted in the mid-80’s.  

But Becky’s story starts with parents who, as she puts it, were neglectful. Becky was victimized by bullies at school, vulnerable, and easy prey to “Darrel” who promised her protection but became her first sexual abuser. He was also the person who trafficked Becky to Moffat.

And then, as a result of Becky searching for safety and connection, she fell victim to several other adults who took advantage of Becky’s vulnerability and exposure on the streets of Chicago. 

This story is tragic…and yet triumphant. Because Becky sought out help and healing. And found it through her therapist, Jan Spangler, who introduced Becky to brainspotting, a very effective trauma therapy method, according to Becky.  She says that brainspotting saved her life, helping her recognize and deal with her hidden traumas, saved her marriage, and provided her with the ability to pursue her bachelor’s degree, as well as the pathway of writing a book. 

The book is Anger, Alcohol, and Healing through Brainspotting, now available for pre-release ordering. (https://henschelhausbooks.com/product/anger-alcohol-and-healing-through-brainspotting/

Becky also provided me with a brief bio that I want to include:

Becky Nulle is a soon to be published author and a volunteer who helps the Hmong community in Northern Wisconsin. She is a Sexual Assault/Rape Survivor of James Moffat, a powerful man who was second in charge of the Chicago Public School System at one time. Becky is married, has a Doberman and eight ducks. She is currently working on her Bachelors Degree in Communications.

This is an episode that you’ll not want to miss. And I encourage you to copy the link to this episode and share it with family, friends, and acquaintances. The impact will help bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault, and help educate those who listen in. And, it may just save someone’s life. This episode is filled with substance, reflection, and a deep commitment to the healing process. It’s a powerful reminder that survivor stories don’t stop when the episode is over—and that advocacy can take many forms, including quiet reflection. This one is for every voice that hasn’t been heard yet—and every listener who’s ready to believe, support, and speak up.

An important side note: if you’re finding value in these episodes, please take a moment to leave a 5-star rating on your podcast platform. AND, please send me a note of support. I can’t tell you how much your emails mean to me—they fuel my passion to keep this podcast going. Here’s my email address: dave@sasstories.com   I truly look forward to hearing from you!

On another note: I am a strong advocate and supporter of Survivor School (SS), founded and directed by CEO Arci Grey (another former guest on SASS). In fact, Arci has made me a consultant to SS as she maneuvers the intricacies of directing and managing the content and growth of her amazing organization. I encourage you to strongly consider becoming a member of SS, and as an affiliate would appreciate it, if you do decide to become a member, to use this link:  https://www.survivor-school.com/free?ref=SASS

Additional links that are specific to this episode are:

James Moffat, Sex Offender Information System, Illinois Sex Offenders, Criminal Sexual Abuse of Students, Principal Raped Students in Kelvyn Park High School office - Substance News

EX-PRINCIPAL FOUND GUILTY OF SEX ABUSE – Chicago Tribune

Deceived by Trust - Wikipedia

Thanks again for listening! As always, listed below are some additional important and meaningful websites I hope you’ll take a look at and learn more about.

https://www.whattheydontsay.com

https://www.survivor-school.com/?ref=DAVEMARKEL

www.arcigrey.com 

https://thejanbrobergfoundation.org

https://www.napanews.org/

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/invisible-no-more-lady-veterans-stories-of-military/id1754061590

https://startbybelieving.org

https://evawintl.org/

https://safeinharmsway.org

My email address:

dave@sasstories.com