What Women Ask Us (In Person)

What do women want to know about sex when we're face to faced with them? While we have regular listener question episodes, we wanted to address FAQs we get when speaking to a group or working with individuals or small groups. So get ready for six common questions and our answers.

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From the Bible

Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
1 Corinthians 6:9–11

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!
2 Corinthians 5:17

For as high as the heavens are above the earth,
    so great is his love for those who fear him;
as far as the east is from the west,
    so far has he removed our transgressions from us.
Psalm 103:11–12

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8 (not Acts 2:38 or John 3:16...though those are great too!)

But that is not the way you learned Christ!— assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
Ephesians 4:20–24

You turned my wailing into dancing;
    you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy,
that my heart may sing your praises and not be silent.
    Lord my God, I will praise you forever.
Psalm 30:11–12

Resources

• Episode 194: Creative Timing (Quickie) - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
• 5 Times of Day to Make Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Why She's Too Busy to Have Sex - Knowing Her Sexually (for husbands)
• Episode 122: Self-Care for Wives - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
• Episode 191: What Is Sexual Betrayal and How Can You Address It? - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
• Episode 18: How Will I Ever Trust My Partner, Again? - Hope For Wives
• Rebuilding Intimacy in Marriage (When Trust Has Been Damaged) - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Episode 185: Women's Freedom from Porn, with Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
• The Intimacy Pyramid
• Approach Your Sex Life Like It’s a Jigsaw Puzzle - Honeycomb & Spice
• Episode 141: How to Do Oral Sex - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
• Is It Okay to Say No? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• The Back Door (my take on anal sex) • Bonny's Oysterbed7
• Is Anal Sex Okay? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Why Don't Men Fess Up About Having the Lower Drive? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
• Episode 133: How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex - Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Our Speaking, Coaching & Communities

• Learn more about J Speaking to Your Group
• J's Higher Desire Wife Community
• Contact Bonny about Speaking
• Learn more about Coaching with Bonny
• Chris's Intimacy Mentoring

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Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker